Today is TEN STAGE Tuesday Yes, you can inspire others with the child within. Yes, you can help move the needle for them. It's a sim...
We are lost, because our inner compass is damaged.
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why don’t we that are traumatised take good care of ourselves? The first part of this answer is that when we get traumatised, we get split...
To the Thousands of friends worldwide:We want to say a BIG and grateful thank you! We are so grateful to you for all your comments, your questions, applying the lessons of our Ten Stage Course
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We want to say a BIG and grateful thank you! We are so grateful to you for all your comments, your questions, applying the lessons...
So, can you detach from the nightmares of others and begin to live our own recovery?
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Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't tru...
It takes great courage to live from within and out of our core of truth our child within. And the transition from outer definition to inner truth
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As we start to transition from our outer definition back to our child within its a lonely path. We must leave much behind—including conv...
INSANITY:Avoiding the deepest levels of pain is part of a recovery fellowship mentality. They replace the depression of the alcoholic with the grandiosity and dissociation of so-called recovery.
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Avoiding the deepest levels of pain is part of a fellowship mentality. They replace the depression of the alcoholic with the grandiosity ...
Moving forward in the ten stages is difficult
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Moving forward in the ten stages is difficult, and anyone who tells you otherwise is not moving forward. To move forward is to heal. To ...
Honesty is the channel of truth between the child within and the mind in the ten stages.
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Honesty is the channel of truth between the child within and the mind in the ten stages. We who nurture it are imbued with enormous powe...
Ten Stage recovery means waking up.
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Ten Stage recovery means waking up. Most of us, even though they don't know it, are asleep. They're born asleep, they live asleep...
We don't really want to grow up, we don't really want to change, we don't really want to be happy.
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We don't really want to grow up, we don't really want to change, we don't really want to be happy. As someone so wisely said ...
You become addicted to child within awareness.Coming home to your child within
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Coming home to your child within. Observe yourself. Child Within self-observation is such a delightful and extraordinary thing. After a wh...
Thought for today
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Thought for today: Our perfect child within, help us not to despise or oppose what we do not understand. The Ten Stages is a studied rec...
Why our ten stage practice of child within openness is for you:
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Why our ten stage practice of child within openness is for you: The contrast to openness is narrow-mindedness. It is characterised by a ri...
Ten Stage Openness is an ability to go with the flow of childhood experience
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Ten Stage Openness is an ability to go with the flow of childhood experience, without expecting predetermined outcomes. It means being ...
The Ten Stages are re-born each day out of the intuitive answers uncovered during times of rest and recuperation.
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Starting to engage in an inner dialogue with the intuitive mind: This form of self-reflection allows us to ask ourselves a question in our...
We cultivate recovery in the ten stages
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We cultivate recovery in the ten stages when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful child within to be deeply seen and known, and when ...
We have to finally face the pain, grief and suffering or we slowly wither away.
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We were all born lovable, sociable and non-violent. The Ten Stages recognises that their is a problem in the addiction industry, that thei...
We re-learn the art of making contact with ourselves to tell the story of our child withins life.
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Structured Study Course The Ten Stages We re-learn the art of communication and explore our contact with ourselves to re-tell the story ...
As you’re meditating, place your hand on your heart.
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As you’re meditating, place your hand on your heart. The warmth of your hand encourages a compassion feeling to whatever you’re focusin...
Our deep Illnesses usually become curable once the causes are known.
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Illnesses usually become curable once the causes are known. It is the same for just about all physical illness and ‘mental illness’. ...
The focus is on our child within.Solitude is decidedly that context in which we come to realise our true self.
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Every movement of perception, from our vantage point, starts with seeing, our capacity to view ourselves the way our child within view...
If we have enough understanding and love, then every moment
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If we have enough understanding and love, then every moment — whether it’s spent making breakfast, driving the car, watering the garden, o...
The essence of the stages is loving kindness
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The essence of the stages is loving kindness in the ten stages is being able to offer happiness. You can be the sunshine for another perso...
Ultra-Recovery Tutorials
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http://recoverystage.blogspot.co.uk/ Ultra-Recovery Tutorials goes mobile Using Ultra we gently mine down to our core which is perfect and ...
A healthy mind is standard issue
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A healthy mind is standard issue – we expect every child, first to walk, then to talk – the one needs healthy legs, the other a healthy min...
Scientists think the belief that part of us is eternal emerges early in life
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People across the world, regardless of their religion or culture, believe that humans are immortal, according to research. A new study ...
No Guilt, No Blame, No Shame just healthy believable explanations.TEN STAGE RECOVERY
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Compassion is a feeling deep within ourselves —a "quivering of the heart" — and it is also a way of acting — being affecte...
At the ten stages we do not apologise to our abusers or those that vomit their abusive dissociations over us
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At the ten stages we do not apologise to our abusers or those that vomit their abusive dissociations over us.This is not RECOVERY but ab...
If you don’t become recovered you will always be spoon-feeding your self some degree of toxic nourishment.
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Yes, Is there a healthy way to full recover? Yes we repeat. There are two ways. The first is by becoming recovered first. If you don...
Ten Stages and the fragmented personality.THE PERIOD OF REFLECTION
Author: Fraser Trevor
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As we engage with the 10 Stage Study we uncover a need for a period of reflection a period of mourning, at first we feel a great freedom ...
The whole powerlessness concept is threatening because they were unable to control what was done to them as a child so it's terrifying
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Traditional old fashioned treatment methods often make the survivor of abuse feel constantly re-victimised. Many of the methods used...
WE are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings
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We start to recognise our dissociated state of mind. For when we are dissociated we are not at peace with ourselves at all. WE are h...
Our mind coming into recovery is a fault-finding mind its a google minded snake
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Our mind coming into recovery is a fault-finding mind its a google minded snake, and you can start to avoid it in the future. "In o...
Kindfulness is the secret ingredient of The Ten Stages,
Author: Fraser Trevor
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"Don't just be mindful in your recovery, be kindful" is the secret ingredient of the ten stages.It is acquired by simple pra...
We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone…
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We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone… …yet never acknowledge this to our partners. We have children because w...