We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone…

We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone…

…yet never acknowledge this to our partners.

We have children because we don’t know what else to do with their lives…

yet are terrified to conceive of what this “what else” might be.

WE know only a minuscule amount about ourselves…

…yet consider ourselves to be experts on life.

We work at jobs we hate…

…yet spend their earnings in ways that make it impossible for them to quit.

We don’t know how much we despise ourselves…

…yet are much more like the others than they we realise.

We have the capacity to undo all this and become real…

…and this we know deep down inside ourselves















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