We are lost, because our inner compass is damaged.

why don’t we that are traumatised take good care of ourselves?

The first part of this answer is that when we get traumatised, we get split off from our true selves at a level equal to the degree of our trauma. This disrupts our whole inner system. Our intuition gets damaged and our sense of ourselves gets damaged. In a sense we get stunted in our developmental process, but to put it better, we get warped.

Then, because of that, when we make decisions to try to take perfect care of ourselves, we are lost, because our inner compass is damaged.





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