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Child Within support

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Title: Child Within support
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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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The definition of child abuse is simple: whenever the spirit of the child is disrespected the child is abused. Abuse of the spirit of the child can take many forms, from the overt forms of child abuse that conventional society is able to accept – such as overt sexual abuse, physical violence and the extremes of neglect – to whole realms of abuse that fall below society’s radar and are considered normal and healthy forms of parenting.

Child Within support

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

5TH DIMENSION Connection with plasticity

Fraser Trevor

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Title: 5TH DIMENSION Connection with plasticity
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us
back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our
protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com
Everyone has been a child and we all carry that child into our daily life. This
our own personal child the child hidden within craves and needs functioning
parenting. If our parent model are not functional in a modern society and its
newly created norms, meaning that often our parents unknowingly and sometimes
knowingly carry unresolved trauma from their own childhood, this will in turn
damage their child. Any trauma or disrespect that is unresolved will permeate
through. This is the child withins hidden disrespect and a form of
abuse.Everyone has been a child and we all carry that child into our daily life.
This our own personal child the child hidden within craves and needs functioning
parenting. If our parent model are not functional in a modern society and its
newly created norms, meaning that often our parents unknowingly and sometimes
knowingly carry unresolved trauma from their own childhood, this will in turn
damage their child. Any trauma or disrespect that is unresolved will permeate
through. This is the child withins hidden disrespect and a form of abuse.

5TH DIMENSION Connection with plasticity

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Meeting the child Within

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Meeting the child Within
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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In the ten stages its important to understand how we are operating ,our functioning, the activity of our home grown constructed shadow self. When our child within operates, our shadow self cannot possibly understand the child within. It is only when the shadow self, which is our conditioned self, our ancestral voice, which has been cultivated through centuries of time, which is everlastingly seeking its own security, its own comfort—it is only when that shadow self is quiet that we will see that there is a different kind of movement in our life, and it is this movement which is going to bring clarity. It is this movement which is clarity itself.

To understand, we must fully understand the shadow self, be aware of it, know all its movements, its activities, its demands, its pursuits, and that is why meditation is very important. We do not mean the absurd, systematised cultivation of a certain habit of thought,  that’s all too immature and structured. By meditation we mean to understand the operations of shadow self, to watch it, to know how it reacts, what its responses are, its tendencies, its demands, its aggressive pursuits—to know the whole of that, the unconscious as well as the conscious part of it. When we know it, when there is an awareness of it, without controlling it, without directing it, without saying, “This is good; this is bad; we’ll keep this; we won’t keep that,”—when we see the total movement of our shadow self, when we see it totally, then it becomes quiet...then we learn to let go and finally gain our freedom.

Meeting the child Within

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Growing Tenstages

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Growing Tenstages
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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Reclaiming a devasted life by intergrating with our internal birthrite the child within?

Growing Tenstages

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

Tenstages Rewrite at Carlin Howe Headquarters Wednesdays

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Tenstages Rewrite at Carlin Howe Headquarters Wednesdays
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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Tenstages Rewrite at Carlin Howe Headquarters Wednesdays

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

The Ten Stages Recovery

Fraser Trevor

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Title: The Ten Stages Recovery
Author: Fraser Trevor
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2024 The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child wi...

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The Ten Stages Recovery

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Recovering the child within the Ten Stages

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Recovering the child within the Ten Stages
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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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Recovering the child within the Ten Stages

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

Tenstagers

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Title: Tenstagers
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The disorder of Dissociation can develop as a coping mechanism when a child is severely abandoned both physically or emotionally.

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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within ...

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Viral Dissociation is an involuntary human response to high stress or trauma

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thetenstages.com Studying the Search for our Truth

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thetenstages.com Studying the Search for our Truth Doing the Stages we begin to understand that we have the power to recharge our lives whilst stop being dependent on substances or other people as an act of escape into unreality/dissociation. We have constructed for ourself an illusion a constant unremitting search for a quick fix which robs us of both our self-esteem and security. At this time we start to acknowledge a rebirth that their does exist a truer self within that can heal and regain control of our lives, and that this is the reason – coupled with all of our unresolved childhood traumas!– that our lives has become so disturbed and dysfunctional. What are these childhood traumas and where do they originate every-time a child has been disrespected regardless of the reason.Every-time we disrespect a child thats abuse. Its not difficult to understand we can all relate to it and we all need to acknowledge it. We understand when we communicate with the child within that at the core of our problems are all the traumas we experienced as a child. We acknowledge, and that’s why we come to the stages. When the child within can accept that when we can find a solution for the unresolved trauma of childhood coping strategies then the symptoms will start to become manageable and quickly loose power over our lives. All our dysfunctions will start to normalise instead of remaining constantly in the DRAMA of dissociation. This is a very fragile and delicate operation which requires truth trust and consent to be manifested to the satisfaction of the child within us. The Stages seek to help search for a our version of the "Truth" and our truth when found, accepted will set us free from escapism/dissociation and we learn that for us there is only one truth. This one truth is based on our daily reality. Reality is what is, whether we see it or not. Although truth is not subjective, our perspectives on truth can be subjective. Until a person becomes enlightened to realised truth– and can see full truth of his life and history – his vision of truth will be partially distorted. He will believe things to be true that are false. His knowledge of cause and effect will be limited. He will lie to himself and be deluded. Unresolved traumas block our vision from finding our truth. When we cannot resolve our traumas of childhood we are prevented from facing what has happened to us when we were at our most vulnerable. We are forced to deny the painful and troubling reality surrounding our experiences, and until these experiences burst through our denial they will clouds our vision of who we are and what our rightful place in the world is. The true self the core of who each of us is, lives resplendent in our truth. It is connected to truth, and sees it clearly. When we reconnect with our true self and align with it in the full light of consciousness, we come to instantly recognise our own personal truth which becomes a liberating peaceful force working at all times for our benefit, a whole and complete experience at this time a great weight lifts from us and for the first time we feel free. Our conflicts are starting to resolve themselves with the help of the guides on the study course and the introduction to our deeply buried intuitive voice. Stage Two Study <blockquote class="tr_bq">
We come to believe that meditation and the quietening of our created parental voice begins to relax the judgemental voices that we have picked up in our dysfunctional childhoods. The understanding that our creation of a God/Goddess/Universe/Creator/Spirit/Higher Power are externalised judgemental voices which collude in keeping us in a cage of safety and dull us down into non productive coping strategies. </blockquote>
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We awaken the healing wisdom within us when we open ourselves to that clear power of our meditations.At this stage the seeds of our authentic selves and trust in the healing power of the truth starts to permeate back into our consciousness. We move into a quite neutral space and we reawaken a sense of anxiety and fear. At this time we recognise that we need reassurance that all is well and the anxiety is an illusion. We come to understand that since there is a form of universality within us, this is a our true self . We came to recognise that this God/personalised parental figure outside of us and beyond us, that this externalised God, who is essentially little more than an idealised, fantasy parent, can not save us and we are not being disloyal to reject it. The newly found self starts to reconstruct our lives. Basically,The coping strategy of the old belief system tells us that we can’t take care of ourselves because we are too wounded as children, too completely damaged, but we still believe in our illusion that our idealised Mommies/Daddies can still save us! We just have to put our faith back in this illusory Mommy figure hopefully a better fantasised Mommy than we had the first time around not the one who participated in crushing our personality and making us into such a deranged dysfunctional person. Stage 3 Study(rewrite) Here in Stage 3 we examine our beliefs, addictions, and dependent behaviour in the context of living in a materialistic dominated society & culture. We explore affirmations and start to understand ourselves and how we are influenced in all aspects of our life. We study with our trusted friends a new life affirming belief that we can really take care of ourselves and heal our own wounds, and we will consciously decide that this externalisation of our split-off inner self – this external God of an-others creation – cannot save us. This is our movement away from dissociation. This revised belief system shatters our unconscious, grandiose, and immature idea that we can be the king of our own self-proclaimed universe. The dysfunctionally created belief of other or outside God that simply place it on something external, which allows us all the while to keep alive a façade of humility. When we speak of God or Higher Power we are really speaking of the my own unconscious, grandiose feelings about myself, which follow the exact template of our idealised image of our dysfunction parental figures.Since this is our created illusion for an equilibrium in our world and an explanation for our disastrous relationships, we feel under threat and are constantly rubber banded into our past or catapulted into a seemingly disastrous future We have created our explanation for what we see as a failed life. Stage 4 Study In stage four we share with our trusted compatriots and the Universe all those things inside of us for which we feel shame and guilt as we have come to identify them. Now that we have worked hard to believe that we do have a true and honest self within. We have come to understand at this stage that our old lives lived under the mounds of unresolved childhood trauma which we did not believe we ever had. We had thought in the previous stages that we had cleared all our blockages.Here we review without judgement and attempt through self reflection to understand the motivation that others have placed into our psyche. We will look within, explore to find out what else might be just be within side us. We will take an emotional inventory of the traumas foisted on us when we were a child. These revelations might force us to discover that our parents really did mess us up worse than we first thought, and that we gain a realisation of the level of upwelling pain and anger coming from that discovery were at the roots of our dysfunctions and alienation. That the old patterns of dysfunction and often addiction were really self-medication and the inevitable flight from reality. We do not do a “moral” inventory, that will only replay our childhood trauma just by studying our morals, our own “badness” and hurtful behaviour .The reasons are that the mere act of revisiting childhood trauma and the frozen self is that we have already been programmed to come to believe firmly that we had no true self. We have learned we were programmed to believe we are to be condemned at birth. Therefore we are indoctrinated with a false unrealistic version of the self that attempts to root us into the deepest moral and inner goodness of an idealised fantasy society which reinforces our denial of our own inner truth. We are born perfect and must come realise the dysfunction is grafted on to us, with the overriding sick belief that we are born to fail. We are taught health is toxic and we create inside a numbing down to a zombie state of lack of emotions and feelings.We become an automaton and work at eradicating the beauty inside ourselves. Stage 5 Study In Stage five we come to recognise and enjoy our own intelligence, strengths and creativity, remembering not to hide these qualities from ourselves and others. With the newly found self-reflection as to where our acting out behaviour might have come from that is, an acknowledgement that our disturbed patterns are simply a replication of the traumas done to us when we were vulnerable and innocent and powerless in our own family as a child. We will now start to understand all the negative things that others have done to us. We will reject these previous lists of perceived negativity drawn up by our tormentors and the people who sort to control us. During this stage we will come to understand that by being forced to admit to this externalised God of another creation (which we have become convinced NOW is separate from the essence of us!) and to the controlling persons/adults/parents/teachers who buy into this deluded and dissociative philosophy. They rubbed salt into our already wounded self which only further traumatised us paralysing us both psychically and emotionally. We threw ourselves down a blind alley of despair, and further cut ourselves off the from deeper healing roots of ourself that we now realise has the power to heal us. Step 6 Study Having experienced the realisations we become willing to let go of guilt, shame and any behaviour that prevents us from loving ourselves and others.Now that having explored what was done to us and what motivates our dysfunctional behaviour –We strongly reject the conformity of belief that we need to be pleasing in the eyes of this external God (Mommy), on that basis will be ready and able to be loved once again. This belief which in the past had given us such a warm feeling inside, a dissociative feeling which we would mistakingly take for being a sign-marker on our path to love and enlightenment. We must always remember that no one but the family of the others is in reality responsible for our perceived “defective character,” but the responsibility is with Mommy herself! Mommy the one who will save us is the perpetual myth faced in this stage. She has everything do to with why our belief system are so messed up! We quietly meditate on compassion and loving kindness that their is a strong chance that Mommy was passing on her learned behaviour. We do not seek blame anyone neither do we discount the damage done to us. We simply let it lie as a product of our studies.We understand what has happened to us. Even if the natural Mommy is not present, the conceptualised commercial mommy peers down at us from each advertising hoarding or if we switch on the television and tune to a soap we will see a mother figure posturing with its moral judgemental stance attempting to reinfect us with unrealistic aspirations Stage 7 Study. At this stage we can make a list of people that our learned dysfunctional lives have harmed and people who have harmed us, and take steps to clear out negative energy by making amends and sharing our grievances in a respectful way. We come to understand healthy alternatives to the behaviours that we could practice in our studies and discuss them at length.We start to recognise and understand the internal voices in our heads and where they originate. We come to realise the disfunction use of the words forgiveness and gratitude as a term of abuse used to control us. The victimisation of foregiveness the granting of forgiveness only allows the abuser to redouble their attempts to exercise control over us and push us back into the dissociated past. "Please Mommy/God, now that We’ve admitted how bad we are, and how much We’ve hurt you, and how naughty We’ve been, will you love us again and tell us that I’m a good boy/girl? We’ll do anything you say. We really do love you, We really, really do. And We always did love you deep down, even though you did horrible things to us which we can’t seem to remember anyway because we were so pickled ourselves with booze/drugs/dysfunctional behaviour's to try to blot out the memories. Please tell us We are a good boys/girls again!" The reinforcing guilt and shame that this stage addresses and the voices of judgement and shame that we recreate in our subconscious have once more to be addressed with a greater understanding in our stage 7. Stage 8 Exercise Rewrite The stages whilst we are a study course we have to look at our actions connected to our previous work. This stage is about learning to express empathy and understanding coming to increasingly appreciate the wonder of our newly discovered life and the blessings we do have. We learn to understand the suffering of others. Now We are really going to change our viewpoint and perspective….. We are going to stop being a bad boys/girl s and be a good boys/girls again, and prove to us that We really were good boys/girls all along, even though deep down underneath all our grandiose façade We still think that We are the pathological, worthless, evil, vile, stinking, rotten, useless, hopeless, piece of dogs**t that our messages from the past always subtly and sometimes not so subtly taught us .This the reasons why we drank/drugged so much and so destructively... We start to perceive our life differently in the light of the mixed messages of childhood..."But now We are going to make it all right for the world, even though I’ve still never even come close to looking at the harm that you, Mommy, and you, Daddy, did to me. But We are the bigger person! We have already forgiven you – even though We really have no clue exactly what We have forgiven you for." Change is found at this stage by acknowledging our inner child's voice by understanding at a deeply conscious level what we can accept that voice, without judgement confronting the denial in our own parental voice. What we cannot list or acknowledge we quietly rest in our self created playground of at this stage of the course. Stage 9 Study. In stage nine we acknowledge the length of our journey acknowledging that have come a long way. We have learnt to trust our reality and daily affirm that we see what we see, we know what we know and we feel what we feel. We promptly admit to dissociated behaviour and make amends to ourselves when appropriate, but we do not say we are sorry for things we have not done and we do not cover up, analyse or take responsibility for the shortcomings of others, or their learned abusive parental voice We’ll start to change our ways. We have become so dissociated and split-off from our deep and churning inner rage and fury and misery and sadness over what was done to us that we’ll fool ourselves into believing that now we come across like the Best Little Boys/Girls in the whole wide world. At this stage is the recreation stage where thinking we have cracked it we set out to prove to others that we’ve changed. On the surface WE WILL change. We’ll be sure we seem different. We won’t get plastered and get violent for no reason and puke all over the new carpets and drive like an intoxicated maniac and frighten the hell out of everyone and force you to live with a pink elephant in your living room. No, the only pink elephant left in our life will be the pink elephant of my entire unconscious, which We won’t notice anymore because it will just get in our way. We’ll smile and convince ourselves that we are reformed, even though underneath it We’ll still be as dissociated and deformed as ever. Dissociation is not reality and until we come to a deeper understanding of what has happened to us no healing can take place, no meditation will work, no religious practice will have any meaning. We will remain deeply dysfunctional without the symptoms being visible the cancerous cells of our hurt psyche will proceed onwards.Our messages from childhood remain deeply entrenched paralysing us into our old states Stage 10 Study It is within this stage that we experiment with our newly found freedoms We start to seek out new situations,jobs, and people that affirm our intelligence, perceptions, and self-worth and avoid situations or people who are hurtful harmful, or demeaning to us. We take steps to heal our physical bodies, organise our lives, reduce stress, and have fun. We seek to find our inward calling, and develop the will and wisdom to follow it. We accept the ups and downs of life as natural events that can be used as lessons for our growth. We grow in awareness that we are sacred beings, interrelated with all living things, and we contribute to restoring peace and balance in our life . Now we will realise our dissociation. We will renounce clinging to a philosophy and the self that is full of holes, We will start to practice a new way of life, the art of becoming real. Living in our wonderful reality.(WOW the old parenting voice got very condemning at this point "I own you, you are nothing without me.Pay your debt to me.) We will have gone deep inside the roots of our being to affirm our health. In our found reality, without just practicing splitting off from living in the present moment. We stop looking at our fantasy illusions and we stop making it look fancy to myself and others. We will stop talking to God of another understanding in prayer because We have no idea who God really is. We will listen to the universe in meditation and be able to realise that We are affirming the deepest and most basic essences of our souls. We will have found ourselves and will now have a beautiful full capacity that I’m come home to myself at last! Overrider for those of us deprogramming from the fellowships and have our self-worth invested in converting others. REMEMBER THIS IS A TAUGHT COURSE (not a cult, you pay for the course in your time spent and there is a cut of date everything after that is socialising and enjoyment.We do not have any groups, mentors, sponsors or gurus.This is about unlearning not learning we are all born perfect.) Now that We have started to become enlightened and free from the twisted thinking ( theres not ours) that resulted in our dysfunction (that is, not dissociated) and no longer need an addictive process to achieve this dissociated state, We will understand real peace in our reality.We will not and go out and begin a mission to proselytise my version of “the truth.” We will renounce the idea that we have to manipulate others who use addictions to dissociate from their unresolved childhood traumas to follow their ( another form of recovery largely unreliable program) and to split-off from their ancient wounds just as we have done. We will renounce the idea that we have to convert anybody by insulting and degrading and pathologising them. We have to acknowledge that It will reinfect us and rebuild the sick selfs very grandiose ways to cajole other traumatised addicts of the dysfunctional paths into dissociating by requesting that they follow our adopted methods and The Ten Stages, but We will acknowledge this as our grandiosity and old outmoded coping strategy an enemy of our newly found reality and we will cease. Our STAGE Guides are committed, experienced and sensitive and are essential to the changes we go through in our work together. Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com</div>

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The longer we practice meditation, the more devoted we become

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The longer we practice meditation, the more devoted we become, the more it becomes a  part of our life. It becomes our a primary focus. We need to accept that it is our way of life, not a hobby or passing interest. The more serious we are about it, the more it gives back to us.<div>
 By focusing on it, we'll find after time that actually accept that we are happier, enjoying our life more. We learn how to just "lean back, chill out, and enjoy the ride". The elephant in the room nobody ever mentions is that almost nobody knows what they're doing. They have no idea why they are alive, why they exist, or where they're going. They are just sleep-walking through days and hoping that everything works out for them in the long term. But as a fully formed person, we KNOW why we're here AND where we're going - and most importantly, HOW we're getting there. Meditation fulfils us and gives us an endless purpose to pursue. It becomes our "secret" mission that we need to accomplish. And it's fulfilling! 
 
 
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Updated We know by our own experience as we make contact with our re-awakened child within

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We know from our own experience as we make contact with our re-awakened child within  about the effects of our childhood displacement the knowledge is  mind-boggling and powerful it feels as if our brain cells and DNA are firing so strongly in us that it was as if our mind is re-programming actually rearranging itself. The information is staggering and innovative to our minds because we had never heard it before and it starts to changes our lives completely.The effect of perfection rips the reality of consciousness catapulting us into 360 degree effect we lose a sense of time, content, place and locality, this we experience together. 
 
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Updated We know by our own experience as we make contact with our re-awakened child within

We know from our own experience as we make contact with our re-awakened child within about the effects of our childhood displacement th...

The Ten Stages by its very nature is evolving into mental health and wellbeing working closely with health professionals in many different countries

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The Ten Stages by its very nature is evolving into mental health and wellbeing working closely with health professionals in many different countries, its undoubted success in the field of addiction continues to grow with many successes  
 
 
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The Ten Stages by its very nature is evolving into mental health and wellbeing working closely with health professionals in many different countries

The Ten Stages by its very nature is evolving into mental health and wellbeing working closely with health professionals in many different...

The power to trust in our ten stage process of recovery develops with a commitment to finding a path into what we want, into our recovery passion.

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The power to trust in our ten stage process of recovery develops with a commitment to finding a path into what we want, into our recovery passion. The power in trusting those we live our lives with comes from knowing our own inner  child withins strength being transparent with our new choices. The power to trust ourselves as we walk the ten stage path and commit to the delight of living, comes from a beautiful but disciplined simple meditation. The power to let go is a gift we give ourselves. 
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The power to trust in our ten stage process of recovery develops with a commitment to finding a path into what we want, into our recovery passion.

The power to trust in our ten stage process of recovery develops with a commitment to finding a path into what we want, into our recovery ...

Welcome to The Stage of Beginning Again!

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Welcome to The Stage of Beginning Again! If we aren't satisfied with the way our life has been going and we'd like to chuck the whole thing and start all over again, then we hold in our hand a tool for doing just that and for doing it right this time. Beginning again, is what The Ten Stages is about returning to our child within. 
 
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Welcome to The Stage of Beginning Again!

Welcome to The Stage of Beginning Again! If we aren't satisfied with the way our life has been going and we'd like to chuck the wh...

The idea of being in meditative solitude, of having quiet in our lives and time for contemplations

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The idea of being in meditative solitude, of having quiet in our lives and time for contemplations, might seem OK to many of us. But when ...

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The idea of being in meditative solitude, of having quiet in our lives and time for contemplations, might seem OK to many of us. But when it comes time to actually do it, we cling to dissociation because of our feeling of uncertainty. “I can’t because I have too much to do!” “Just one more email. Just one more video.” 
 
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The idea of being in meditative solitude, of having quiet in our lives and time for contemplations

The idea of being in meditative solitude, of having quiet in our lives and time for contemplations, might seem OK to many of us. But when ...

The main driver of our busyness and dissociation is uncertainty

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The main driver of our busyness and dissociation is uncertainty.Uncertainty is woven into every hour of our lives. We are uncertain about what we should do, who we are, whether we’re good enough, what is going to happen, what’s going on in the world, and how to deal with the overwhelmingness of life. We don’t often acknowledge it, but we feel uncertainty all day long. To deal with that feeling of uncertainty, of the groundlessness of not having stability in our lives … we cling to comforts and distractions, we procrastinate and put off the habits we want to form, we are constantly busy and messaging and more. And if we get a little downtime, we will pick up our phones or jump onto our favourite video site to watch something.The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

The main driver of our busyness and dissociation is uncertainty

The main driver of our busyness and dissociation is uncertainty.Uncertainty is woven into every hour of our lives. We are uncertain about ...

In a mindful manner we speak and listen to our child within for guidance.

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Self-reflection is any conscious, non-dissociative form of meditation, or seeking. In a mindful manner we speak and listen to our child w...

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Self-reflection is any conscious, non-dissociative form of meditation, or seeking. In a mindful manner we speak and listen to our child within for guidance. This practice keeps us firmly rooted on our path and opens the way to the truth that the genius in our child withins depths has been waiting a lifetime to manifest. Having grieved our traumatic history we find that our child within is no longer held captive by ancient shackles. We are no longer blocked by an impenetrable wall of coping strategies, defences, and self-hating voices. Our freed energy allows us the deepest connection to the best of our child within which enhances personal power. However, we do not abuse our power to dominate others or to exploit the material world. If we do, we are only deluding ourselves. Our sole desire for aligning with truth and its power is to guide us to our child withins calling. The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

In a mindful manner we speak and listen to our child within for guidance.

Self-reflection is any conscious, non-dissociative form of meditation, or seeking. In a mindful manner we speak and listen to our child w...

who would you let go of, who would you invite in, what would you start saying to yourself and what would you start saying to others?

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If we are going to radically practice loving Kindfulness, being filled up with kindness ourself today, who would you let go of, who would you invite in, what would you start saying to yourself and what would you start saying to others? W have a comments section spread your Loving KindfulnessThe Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

who would you let go of, who would you invite in, what would you start saying to yourself and what would you start saying to others?

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Radical Loving Kindfulness(being filled with Kindness) means accepting only the best and leaving behind the rest.

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Radical Loving Kindfulness(being filled with Kindness) means accepting only the best and leaving behind the rest. Not because we are selfish or judgmental, but because we have become discerning enough to know what and who is good for us and what and who isn’t. The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Radical Loving Kindfulness(being filled with Kindness) means accepting only the best and leaving behind the rest.

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The Meditational practice of Stageology offers a perception of ‘things as they are’

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The Meditational practice of Stageology offers a perception of ‘things as they are’

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Our living practice of Stageolgy is not logical, not discursive, can not be transmitted like a mathematical formula

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Our living practice of Stageology is not logical, not discursive, can not be transmitted like a mathematical formula, can not be taught like a parcel of knowledge. It comes from a deep mental shift which only comes from a sincere constructed meditation practice . 
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

Our living practice of Stageolgy is not logical, not discursive, can not be transmitted like a mathematical formula

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The Ten Stages.com Dissociation the roots of Addiction

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Continuously being updated Tenstage+ Project Radical New View and Modern Translation. Explication of The Child held Within us.

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Tenstage+ Project Radical New View and Modern Translation. Explication of The Child held Within us. 
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The Sermon on the Mount is one of the most enlightened pieces of writing we have ever come across. It is incredibly advanced.  Our goal for the ten stage project was to translate the spirit of this Sermon into something fresh, new, and equally awakening.</blockquote>
 Bible in italics; our translation/interpretation below. MATTHEW, CHAPTER 5 Verses 1-3: And seeing the multitudes, he  went up into a mountain: and when he was set, his disciples came unto him: And he opened his mouth, and taught them, saying, Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. And seeing the hordes of people, the awakened went up to the mountain and sat down, and his closest followers gathered round. And he opened his mouth, and this is what he taught: We, the awakened are most fortunate for we are those who have recognised the ego and moved away enough to rediscover our birth truth. We shall know the true beauty of eternal life. 
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Verse 4: Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.</blockquote>
 The awakened are those who have the capacity to grieve traumas of their childhood. Grieving opens their doors to the child within. 
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Verse 5: Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.</blockquote>
 We the awakened are those who are who can realistically appraise our own insanity. Our reward shall be unadulterated growth toward sanity without interruption. Verse 6: Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled. The spiritually awakened are us who are desperate to know our child withins truth at whatever cost having the courage to integrate it into our lives. we shall become centred within ourselves. 
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Verse 7: Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.</blockquote>
 We the awakened are those who have developed compassion for the struggles of others. Our growth shall be compassion for ourselves. 
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Verse 8: Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.</blockquote>
 After awakening we can deeply self-reflect. We know ourselves at our deepest birth level, and this is to know the pure child within. 
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Verse 9: Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.</blockquote>
 We the awakened can see beautiful truth in our detractors. We shall be called the teachers of the pathway of the child within. 
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Verse 10: Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.</blockquote>
 We having been awakened are those who are hated for honest truth we manifest. This is the sign that our eternal lives are right on track. 
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Verse 11: Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.</blockquote>
 The awakened are rejected by our world’s liars and hypocrites. Awakening can offer us no clearer sign that we have rejected our egos own inner liar and hypocrite. If the world’s liars and hypocrites loved us and accepted us as their own it would only show that we are still capitulating to their twisted beliefs and thinking. 
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Verse 12: Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.</blockquote>
 Be thankful for our incredibly good fortune! We may not realise how lucky we are to have the capacity to be so honest with ourself. The greatest of what the child within has to offer is now available to Us! Although the world’s sick liars now hate us, we have entered great company. All the most honest and wonderful and deepest and most truthful of us throughout history were also similarly hated. Mark our words, we are on the right team. 
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Verse 13: Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.</blockquote>
 We give flavour to the dull and bland. our honesty gives us value. We now have something meaningful to contribute to our world. Without our deep connection to ourself we would have no value, and our life would lack meaning. Without our deep connection to our child within ourself our death would be no loss at all to the world. 
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Verse 14: Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.</blockquote>
 Our awakening is fantastic! Let the deep light emanating from our being shine from the highest hill we can climb to, and let the whole world see our radiance! Go forth and sing at the top of our lungs! 
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Verse 15: Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.</blockquote>
 Yes, now that we have discovered the truth within us and have deeply connected to it, there comes an obligation to share the truth with others so that they too can find the truth within themselves. Fireflies evolved light so they could shine and inspire, not so that they could be pinned out in scientific collections and written about in dead journals. 
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Verse 16: Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.</blockquote>
 Devote our life to sharing our awakening and optimising our ability to burn brightly. Use ourself as an example. When we share the greatness and brilliance that lies within us, We honour the greatness in everyone and everything. When we shine we become a leader in our world and recognise our divinity. 
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Verse 17: Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.</blockquote>
 So we know, our words do not contradict our ancient truths. Our belief connect those truths with the child within inside us. We are not here to destroy the truth in our beliefs, but to nurture them – and give them POWER! and understanding. The truth we share is the truth of all time, the truth of the universe. 
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Verse 18: For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.</blockquote>
 Our life, life everyone’s life will have lived up to its full potential only when we are all awakened therefore living in harmony with our child within, our fellows, and our entire natural world. This is our destiny, and no one can call humanity a success until we have all achieved it. 
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Verse 19: Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.</blockquote>
 If we do not follow this our great truth this universal river which flows through our child within then our child has no value. We have become merely a regressive force dragging human evolution backwards into the primordial ooze. But we who follow the truth in our child within and nurture it and devote our life to it – ours is the life of eternity, the awakening to positive contribution! We stand on the vanguard of spiritual evolution. our shoulders become the stepping stones for the best of the coming generations. 
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Verse 20: For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.</blockquote>
 But if we cannot be more honest with ourself than the millions of blinded leaders who parade around, already falsely believing themselves to be enlightened, then our life has no value, and we will have contributed nothing. Today is a new time in the progression of our truth. 
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Verses 21-22: Ye have heard that it was said of them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.</blockquote>
 The ancient laws say that killing is wrong. But we say, The real killing happens on a much deeper level, its the killing of another’s child within. If we participate in killing another’s child within, we shackle our child within and our life loses its own value. This goes for everyone, and most especially comfort-seeking parents who drink from the psychic blood of their own children.  They poison the cycle of life at its inception, just as was done to them. 
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Verses 23-24: Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.</blockquote>
 To contribute to life we must have a clean and unadulterated view into the depths of our perfect child within. To do this we must first respect the property line of our neighbour’s child within, then clean up our relationship to our child within to set a good example. 
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Verses 25-26: Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison. Verily I say unto thee, Thou shalt by no means come out thence, till thou hast paid the uttermost farthing.</blockquote>
 You have a great purpose here on earth, and an enormous potential – do not squander it in trifling battles with disconnected people who are entrenched in their miserable dishonesty.  We have everything to lose. They will kill us in a second to protect their lies – and we will get nothing out of it, because they are not open to our point of view. Pick our battles, and fight the war from our compassionate child within! 
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Verses 27-28: Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.</blockquote>
 The ancient laws say that sex outside of marriage is wrong. But we say, The true marriage lives entirely within ourself: the marriage between the consciousness of our mind and the core of our spirit. It takes full devotion to nurture this marriage. When we divert from our path toward awakening, be it through desire for sex or through any other addiction, we cheat on ourself and stunt our progress in meeting our child within. 
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Verses 29-30: And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.</blockquote>
 Everything is worth sacrificing on the cause to know truth: Parents, friends, job, money, sex, relationships, procreation, chemical substances, prestige, fame, reputation, surface comfort, warm nights of peaceful sleep, external beauty. Get rid of whatever is blocking us from knowing our child within. Do whatever we have to do to resolve the traumas of our childhood. Suffer the pain, suffer the rejection, suffer the hatred of the world, suffer the abandonment of our lying parents. It is all worth sacrificing so that we may become fully awakened, and so that our life will not be worthless. The path to truth is all that counts. 
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Verses 31-32: It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.</blockquote>
 The ancient laws offered women some civil protection. But we say, The deeper laws of the universe protect the child within of everyone! If we marry another person, let our marriage be an external reflection of our deeper relationship within. Let our devotion to our marriage be as awakened, serious as our devotion to our child within. If we fail here, we betray our marriage, we betray our spouse, we betray our child within, and we betray our child withins purpose. 
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Verses 33-36: Again, ye have heard that it hath been said by them of old time, Thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oaths: But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God’s throne: Nor by the earth; for it is his footstool: neither by Jerusalem; for it is the city of the great King. Neither shalt thou swear by thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white or black.</blockquote>
 The ancient laws prevented people from taking oaths and making vows except in the name of God. But we say, Do not take oaths or make vows at all. Do not make grand pronouncements about what we will or will not do. We fool ourself if we believe ourself to have that kind of power. Oaths and vows only block the path to awakening. They tear us away from our child within with and send us looking in the wrong direction. Do not look outside ourself for truth while we neglect the truth within. Do not look outside ourself for our power and neglect the rumbling engine of our child within who is locked in our basement. 
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Verse 37: But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.</blockquote>
 our answers lie with the child within. Look there. Follow our heart. Uncover our own self-deception. Trace our motives. Grieve our wounds. Shed a million tears. Shed a billion tears. Study our history. This path will lead us home to our intuitive voice. All others will only lead us into the desert of death. 
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Verses 38-39: Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.</blockquote>
 The ancient laws followed the law of the jungle, the laws of revenge. But we say, It was a more emotionally primitive time then. Life has since evolved. A more awakened way has begun to grow from the fertiliser of their muck, and it now follows a connected, universal path. When we come in contact with the primitive of the self-deceptive dissociated school, do not tangle with their insanity. Instead study them. Learn from them. Recognise our own flaws from their behaviour. Use their words as wind in our sails. Growth is our only purpose our only salvation for our child within. 
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Verse 40: And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak also.</blockquote>
 Be willing to sacrifice everything that is secondary for our growth. If we get lost in the little scuffles, we lose sight of the greater war being waged: within! 
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Verses 41-42: And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.</blockquote>
 Be flexible, like the young tree whose branches are full of sap. Use people’s negative treatment of us as a chance for us to provide a positive response. Share our truth freely. Use every opportunity we can as a gentle chance to offer others insight into our path towards the child hidden within. 
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Verses 43-45: Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.</blockquote>
 The ancient laws followed the laws of tribalism, where we were expected to love only those like ourself – and hate everyone else. But we say, Love our enemies too, because the deep truth within them is no different from the deep truth within ourself.  Just because they are dishonest with themselves and therefore hate the best of themselves does not mean we have to follow suit and hate them too. If we manifest full truth, we cannot help but see theirs as well.  They do not know what recovery is, and who better to teach them by example than us? But when we tell you to love your enemies that does not for one second mean that you should love their insanity, love their self-deception, or love their sick behaviour. Do not sacrifice ourselves on the altar of their insanity! Protect our child within from their viciousness. To not protect ourself would be suicidal. Do not end up a bug on their windshield. We have a greater purpose than that! 
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Verse 46: For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?</blockquote>
 As an evolving child within we have so much more to offer the world than simply to love only those who love us. Even a rat knows not to bite the hand that feeds it. 
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Verse 47: And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?</blockquote>
 The time for petty tribalism is over. All of us – and all beings – are connected by the universal spring of life. This is what binds us, not race or colour or gender or sexual orientation or age or biological relatedness or language or money or language or country. 
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Verse 48: Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.</blockquote>
 our life’s purpose is to become fully awakened to our child within. This is perfection. There is no excuse for not devoting ourself to this purpose. our job while on earth is to manifest the fullest and deepest truth of the child within us, to remove all our inner impediments which block us from knowing this truth. If we do not accomplish this before we die then our life will have failed to achieve life’s ultimate potential. We do not die partially dishonest with ourselves! Do not die partially in vain! 
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 MATTHEW, CHAPTER 6 Verses 1-2: Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven. Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.</blockquote>
 Do our good deeds quietly and privately, to satisfy only our child within in our heart. That is how we will grow – and help others to grow. We get no reward for doing our good deeds for the sake of the approval of others.  Those that live for the approval of others will get that approval and nothing else. 
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Verse 3: But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.</blockquote>
 Do not dwell on our good deeds, or even tally them up to ourself to build up our own belief in our greatness this rebuilds our sick egos.  Do not even force ourself to do good deeds. Just allow our good deeds to happen as a natural consequence of our deeper connection with our child within. And when we have done our good deeds, move on and forget about them…and simply keep on growing. 
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Verse 5: And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.</blockquote>
 Do not meditate loudly and wisely so that you earn others’ approval. When we give importance to external approval, we lose our connection with our child within. The bigshots who devote their lives to cultivating external approval are robots. They are dead within. 
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Verse 6: But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.</blockquote>
 Instead, meditate silently and privately so that only our child within can hear. our reward will be that we shall know more truth, and we shall grow more awakened. 
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Verse 7: But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.</blockquote>
 And be original in our meditations. Let our child within speak through our meditations. Do not meditate mindlessly, and Do not repeat the meditations and thoughts of others. If we do we will only become mindless and lose our connection with our child within. 
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Verse 8: Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.</blockquote>
 our child within already knows exactly what we desire. Open up our channel to our child and let this be the guide in our meditations.  This way our child withins path will have no choice but to unfold. 
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Verse 9: After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.</blockquote>
 Allow us to give an example of how to meditate, but remember, do not copy us:  Child Within residing within me, We respect acknowledge and cherish all that we are. 
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Verse 10: Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.</blockquote>
 Child within, we have great faith in our ability to manifest through us and through all of humanity. May the pattern of our truth be expressed everywhere, just as it lies perfectly encoded in our minds and the minds of all and our enemies. 
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Verse 11: Give us this day our daily bread.</blockquote>
 Guide me through this day, Spirit, and provide for my basic needs so that I may focus on my deeper work. 
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Verse 12: And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.</blockquote>
 And forgive us for our imperfections – just as we strive to forgive others for theirs. 
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Verse 13: And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.</blockquote>
 And keep me traveling on the path toward truth, and help me not to stray off it, because I so trust the beauty and strength and wisdom in everything about you. You are the way, my Spirit, and I wish to follow you forever. Amen! 
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Verse 14: For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:</blockquote>
 If we resolve our deepest buried traumas, we will have the capacity to truly forgive those who caused them to us – and only then will have the ability to forgive ourself those same traumas that we in our past blindness have inflicted on others. 
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Verse 15: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.</blockquote>
 But if we cannot grieve and thus heal our deepest wounds, we will never be able to forgive anyone – or ourself for those same things that we have done. Let the poison we still hold in our heart motivate and guide us in the direction of grieving. 
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Verses 16-18: Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward. But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face; That thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly.</blockquote>
 When we make our painful sacrifices on our inward path to discover our truth, do not spread the word of how miserable and wretched it is for the sake of arousing pity and sympathy. If we do, the pity and sympathy we receive will be our only reward, and it is no reward at all. Instead, glory in our good fortune for having found the path toward the child within. Stand tall and proud for being so lucky to be able to sacrifice the less important things in life. But make our sacrifices quietly and in private, where only we can see. Then we will grow optimally. 
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Verses 19-21: Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.</blockquote>
 Do not focus on accumulating worldly goods, worldly fame, and external approval. If we do, our consciousness will at best have a tenuous marriage with our child within. The externals of life can be stripped from us in an instant in a million ways, and where will we be then? Focus instead on our internal growth of our child, and nurture our path toward awakening.  That is where the true riches of the world lie, and no one can steal them from us. The greatest investment of them all is the investment within – because it leads right into the overflowing gold mine of the universe. That which we treasure most in our life becomes the home for our child within. 
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Verse 22: The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light.</blockquote>
 Become fully conscious, and then we will see nothing but the truth everywhere. Resolve all the issues of our unconscious, and our unconscious will dissolve away into nothing – and we will be full of light. That is awakening into eternal life which is our birth right! 
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Verse 23: But if thine eye be evil, thy whole body shall be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in thee be darkness, how great is that darkness!</blockquote>
 But if we do not complete this process, where we remain unconscious we will not be awakened. our eyes will deceive us. They will misread the truth and our actions will manifest deceit. And the more our consciousness is disconnected from our child within the less enlightened we will be. 
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Verse 24: No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon.</blockquote>
 Yet no one can live comfortably with only partial awakening. There is a pull to become either fully awakened or fully unawakened. Know truth and side with the full glory of life, or deny truth and side with the smothering comfort of death. Dying on the morphine drip is dying with poison in our veins. 
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Verse 25: Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment.</blockquote>
 Therefore, be willing to sacrifice everything to become enlightened. If you cannot do this, you will always live in spiritual torture. Let your internal path be your total priority. This is your life’s purpose. All else is secondary. 
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Verse 26: Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?</blockquote>
 Do not live in terror of not getting enough. Everything you need will be provided. Birds do not obsess about their future, and yet they get all the seed and grain they need. And yet your purpose is so much more important and valuable, so what convinces you that the world will not provide for you as well? 
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Verse 27: Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature?</blockquote>
 Which of us has improved our life one iota by obsessing? 
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Verse 28-29: And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.</blockquote>
 Do not get caught up in obsessing about the externals. Clothing and style mean nothing. The true beauty lies within. The lilies of the field do not stress or work and yet they grow without any trouble at all – and are more vital and pure than the most glorious of kings! 
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Verse 30: Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which today is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?</blockquote>
 The world takes care of the grass and gives it all it needs to survive and grow – and yet it is only grass, here today and gone tomorrow! Can you truly not believe that the world does not have a greater purpose for you, a potentially conscious human being who can manifest full truth? 
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Verses 31-32: Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.</blockquote>
 We Do not give consideration to the lesser things of priority in our life. Do not worry about our food and our clothing and our housing. The most backward people who manifest no truth at all get all their external needs met – and yet you fear that you will not? You will! Everything you need will be provided. 
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Verse 33: But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.</blockquote>
 Make the path toward the awakening of the child within our first priority – and everything else will fall into line. 
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Verse 34: Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.</blockquote>
 Do not obsess about tomorrow. Tomorrow will take care of itself. We have enough work cut out for ourself rooting out your self-deceptions of today.  MATTHEW, CHAPTER 7 
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Verse 1: Judge not, that ye be not judged.Do not decide the fate of others, just as we would not want others to decide our fate. Let others choose their own path.</blockquote>
 
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Verse 2: For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.</blockquote>
 Where you decide the fate of others, you violate them and disrespect their integrity. This only expresses the violations and disrespect to which you were subjected as a child and to which you continue to subject yourself through your own lack of emotional resolution. When you fail to honor the healing power that lies within others you only demonstrate your failure to honor the healing power within yourself. 
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Verses 3-4: And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?</blockquote>
 And do not use others’ lack of healing as an excuse for not healing yourself. It is all too easy to focus on others’ flaws at the expense of your own inward journey. Many who purport to heal others have not the slightest awareness of their own insanity. 
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Verse 5: Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.</blockquote>
 If our life’s priority is not to nurture our own path toward awakening, we are a hypocrite. If we are disconnected from the full truth within us live with a distorted sense of perspective and will overestimate the flaws in others and underestimate our own. Look within, heal ourself, and only then, from the perspective of our healing, assess the world. 
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Verse 6: Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.</blockquote>
 But if we do make nurturing the path toward awakening our life’s priority, protect ourself! Know the exact dimensions of our enemies! Do not expose our most tender vulnerabilities to vultures, and do not cast our pearls before swine. If we do we will only be squandering our life’s greatest gift for no purpose whatsoever, just as our deceptive parents of yesterday taught us to do. 
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Verses 7-8: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.</blockquote>
 Instead, ask ourself the deepest questions: we shall hear the reply. Look within: the solution is there. Knock on our inner doors: they will open. Have the courage to tap our inner resources. We are a storehouse of brilliance. Every answer we ever wanted to know lives inside us. our child within holds our truth. This is the true legacy of our eternal humanity. 
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Verses 9-11: Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?</blockquote>
 Yet even unenlightened parents, who are by nature ambivalent in their feelings for their children, provide the best nourishment they can for them. Meanwhile, the inner core of our being holds a fully encoded template of universal love and giving Loving-Kindfulness.  There is no ambivalence in our child within. And yet we often fail to have faith in it? 
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Verse 12: Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.</blockquote>
 Do unto others as we would have them do unto us. This is the Golden Rule. But now hear the Universal Rule: Manifest the deepest truth from our child within, and we will by nature treat others with universal love…which is exactly how we ourself have deserved to be treated our whole life. 
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Verses 13-14: Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.</blockquote>
 Forge our own path through the wilderness. It is the hard path, and it is the path straight through the brambles. But it is the path to truth, the path to enlightenment, and the path to the best of yourself. The path to the child within leads straight through hell. It is a dangerous way, but if we are one of the rare children within who can connect with our inner intuitive compass, we will find the way. We instead follow the blind and mindless and well-trodden path of the herd. Although it is safe, it leads only to the slaughterhouse. It is the path away from life. It is the path of no value. 
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Verse 15: Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.</blockquote>
 Those who will guide us to the slaughterhouse will offer us every incentive in our material world. They will promise us love and peace and comfort and acceptance by the norm, and they will truly provide it as promised…until the moment they reveal their true motives and bring out their sharpened knives. They are the majority of the world’s leaders. They are the false religious guides, the motive-laden politicians, the blinded gurus, the doctors with their medication, the smiling, fanged parents, the unenlightened therapists, the dissociated meditators, the needy lovers… 
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 Verse 16: Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?</blockquote>
 The results of the false leaders’ actions speak louder than their words. The enlightened child within, connected with his or her depths, can easily read their falseness. They may dress like sheep and smell like sheep and bleat like sheep, but they still move like wolves… 
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Verse 17: Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit.</blockquote>
 We who follow the child within cannot help but manifest truth and uncorrupted goodness in our lives. And others who renounce who follow their self-deceptive path cannot help but manifest pollution and self-deception and spiritual disconnection. 
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Verse 18: A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.</blockquote>
 Likewise, we who follow the child within cannot manifest pollution and self-deception and spiritual disconnection. And we who follow the dissociated path cannot manifest truth and uncorrupted goodness. No matter how pleasantly they dress up their misery, it remains miserable. 
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Verse 19: Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.</blockquote>
 When people are self-deceptive their lives have lost their value. They are only good for being recycled into the next generation of humanity. Do not honour them for their lies. 
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Verse 20: Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.</blockquote>
 Yet if our heart is true, do not be afraid to trust our gut intuition when assessing a self-deceptive dissociated person. They always give themselves away. 
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Verse 21: Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.</blockquote>
 Many of the biggest dissociates sing the most beautifully when they are onstage – and sing all the right words too! But even the best performer has to come offstage sometime. And when they are offstage they only spew poison.  It’s what people do when they are offstage, when the spotlight is off them, that counts. Awakening the child within is a full-time occupation. Our child within never goes out for a smoke break. 
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Verse 22: Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?</blockquote>
 Many self-deceptive dissociates genuinely believe that they are healed, when in reality they are only totally fooling themselves. To know themselves would be too painful. To know themselves would require that they face the childhood trauma of their buried past…and leave their worlds of padded comfort behind. 
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Verse 23: And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.</blockquote>
 The awakened will not protect the self-deceptive dissociate from their lies. We will not bolster their insane and pain-avoidant defences. We know the stinking rot they hold in check underneath their surfaces, and the rot they subtly manifest to everyone who comes under their sway. We knows they have become twisted and disturbed, and have no business leading others. 
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Verses 24-25: Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.</blockquote>
 Therefore if we hear our deep message and we take it to heart as a belief, and we truly look to our child within riding ourself of our lies, becoming consonant and integrated with our child within of universal truth, then we will give us all the respect in this world and the next. We will be children within in truth in truth. Together we will share the awakening of our children within. We will then know how solid and truly stable we really are, and we will know that nothing can tear us down, and nothing can shake us from our renewed foundation. We will know that we are centred in ourselves, and that our power is real, deep and renewable. 
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Verses 26-27: And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.</blockquote>
 But if you hear our deep message and you do not take it to heart, if you cling to your dissociation self-deception and your false comforts and your idealised, dishonest beliefs about your parents and your childhood, then we will know just how foolish and wasted you have become. We will see our remaining vulnerability and weakness, and we will know that it just remains a matter time before a strong wind sweeps you off your feet and leaves you dazed and lost and cut down to your true and appropriate nakedness. 
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Verse 28: And it came to pass, when Jesus had ended these sayings, the people were astonished at his doctrine:  For he taught them as one having authority, and not as the scribes.</blockquote>
 And thus the prophet completed his sermon. We who have heard this message of the child within are shocked, because we are used to being coddled and told how great and smart and wise and enlightened and healthy we already are. We are used to being told it was just fine for them to have children. They were used to being told that their abuse of their children was not really abuse and that their conditional love for their children really was love. we are used to being told that our own lies and insanity were actually perfectly healthy and normal. We are used to listening to false gurus when we have problems. We are used to being told that our mindless behaviour was wise, and that we are doing the right thing by building a wall between our consciousness and the wrenching pain of our true, deep spirit. They were used to being told that their culture was healthy, our treatment of the earth’s resources was progressive, our romantic relationships were beautiful, our love for our parents was appropriate and warranted, our histories of abuse and disrespect are overrated, Our gurus are indeed gurus, our wars are largely justified, our petty prejudices are acceptable as long as we did not push them in others’ faces, and their hatreds are rational. They were used to being placated and numbed and medicated and enslaved and psychically castrated by those were profiting from their herd mentality. And we have always thought this was what love was. We become uncomfortable that this strange upstart in his ragged clothes would dare to contradict everything we believe. And yet these words resonated with us on some deep and long-forgotten child within level. We are not used to hearing the truth. It makes us curious. And it also made some of us want to violently attack. 
 
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