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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: At the core of all addictions is abuse. By abuse what we mean is emotional loss in childhood
Author: Fraser Trevor
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At the core of all addictions is abuse. By abuse what we mean is emotional loss in childhood, and in the case of severe addicts, you can s...
At the core of all addictions is abuse. By abuse what we mean is emotional loss in childhood
At the core of all addictions is abuse. By abuse what we mean is emotional loss in childhood

At the core of all addictions is abuse. By abuse what we mean is emotional loss in childhood, and in the case of severe addicts, you can s...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Sometimes the truth hits like a bucket of cold water, spluttering we surface as the old gives way to the new.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Joining The 10 Stages  starts the emotional healing process, if it goes well, it risks much.  Basically at risk is our false const...
Sometimes the truth hits like a bucket of cold water, spluttering we surface as the old gives way to the new.
Sometimes the truth hits like a bucket of cold water, spluttering we surface as the old gives way to the new.

Joining The 10 Stages  starts the emotional healing process, if it goes well, it risks much.  Basically at risk is our false const...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: As we journey forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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As we journey  forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation. Some parts ...
As we journey forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation.
As we journey forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation.

As we journey  forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation. Some parts ...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life. Although we can and do intercede with others , we often do ...
Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life.
Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life.

Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life. Although we can and do intercede with others , we often do ...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: So what is Dissociation (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) which mimics recovery– but it isn’t recovery.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The most painful deep seated education within the ten stages is to deal with our dissociations.This will cause us considerable amoun...
So what is Dissociation (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) which mimics recovery– but it isn’t recovery.
So what is Dissociation (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) which mimics recovery– but it isn’t recovery.

The most painful deep seated education within the ten stages is to deal with our dissociations.This will cause us considerable amoun...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: We have spent so much time focused on what we can’t control
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We have spent so much time focused on what we can’t control that we get so caught up only in that, and as a result, we feel totally powerl...
We have spent so much time focused on what we can’t control
We have spent so much time focused on what we can’t control

We have spent so much time focused on what we can’t control that we get so caught up only in that, and as a result, we feel totally powerl...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Ten Stages Thought
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Ten Stages Thought The significant problems we face can not be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. The ...
Ten Stages Thought
Ten Stages Thought

Ten Stages Thought The significant problems we face can not be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. The ...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: The Ten Stages is based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages is based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey. Experience has taught us t...
The Ten Stages is based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey.
The Ten Stages is based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey.

The Ten Stages is based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey. Experience has taught us t...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Dissociation Hoovers & Hoovering
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Dissociation Hoovers & Hoovering,  A Hoover is a metaphor taken from the popular brand of vacuum cleaners, to describe how an when...
Dissociation Hoovers & Hoovering
Dissociation Hoovers & Hoovering

Dissociation Hoovers & Hoovering,  A Hoover is a metaphor taken from the popular brand of vacuum cleaners, to describe how an when...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: At The Ten Stages we recognise normalising as a dissociative tactic used to desensitise us into abusive, coercive or inappropriate behaviours.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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At The Ten Stages we recognise normalising as a dissociative tactic used to desensitise us into abusive, coercive or inappropriate behavio...
At The Ten Stages we recognise normalising as a dissociative tactic used to desensitise us into abusive, coercive or inappropriate behaviours.
At The Ten Stages we recognise normalising as a dissociative tactic used to desensitise us into abusive, coercive or inappropriate behaviours.

At The Ten Stages we recognise normalising as a dissociative tactic used to desensitise us into abusive, coercive or inappropriate behavio...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: A Ten Stages Time-Out
Author: Fraser Trevor
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A Ten Stages Time-Out is a decision to temporarily disengage from an argument, conversation, interpersonal situation or conflict. Working...
A Ten Stages Time-Out
A Ten Stages Time-Out

A Ten Stages Time-Out is a decision to temporarily disengage from an argument, conversation, interpersonal situation or conflict. Working...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Going "No Dissociated Contact" means cutting off all forms of correspondence, communication and personal contact with a person who suffers from a dissociation disorder in order to protect ourselves from recurring abuse and de-meaning behaviour.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Putting our Child Within First means making decisions based on "what is in the best interests of the child within", regardless o...
Going "No Dissociated Contact" means cutting off all forms of correspondence, communication and personal contact with a person who suffers from a dissociation disorder in order to protect ourselves from recurring abuse and de-meaning behaviour.
Going "No Dissociated Contact" means cutting off all forms of correspondence, communication and personal contact with a person who suffers from a dissociation disorder in order to protect ourselves from recurring abuse and de-meaning behaviour.

Putting our Child Within First means making decisions based on "what is in the best interests of the child within", regardless o...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Welcome to all our members who flew in last night to Leeds-Bradford Airport. I finally recognise my child within crying out for self-actualisation, I am powerless to stop myself recovering.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Welcome to all our members who flew in last night to Leeds-Bradford Airport. when I finally recognise my child within crying out for se...
Welcome to all our members who flew in last night to Leeds-Bradford Airport. I finally recognise my child within crying out for self-actualisation, I am powerless to stop myself recovering.
Welcome to all our members who flew in last night to Leeds-Bradford Airport. I finally recognise my child within crying out for self-actualisation, I am powerless to stop myself recovering.

Welcome to all our members who flew in last night to Leeds-Bradford Airport. when I finally recognise my child within crying out for se...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Traumas and continued disrespect, be they from childhood or later in life, fester in our unconscious
Author: Fraser Trevor
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  Traumas and continued disrespect, be they from childhood or later in life, fester in our unconscious and surface destructivel...
Traumas and continued disrespect, be they from childhood or later in life, fester in our unconscious
Traumas and continued disrespect, be they from childhood or later in life, fester in our unconscious

  Traumas and continued disrespect, be they from childhood or later in life, fester in our unconscious and surface destructivel...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: We start our journey as a Recovery Wild Child we are visionaries who journey into the wilderness of our own recovery
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We start our journey as a Recovery Wild Child we are the visionaries who journey into the wilderness of our own recovery, away from the co...
We start our journey as a Recovery Wild Child we are visionaries who journey into the wilderness of our own recovery
We start our journey as a Recovery Wild Child we are visionaries who journey into the wilderness of our own recovery

We start our journey as a Recovery Wild Child we are the visionaries who journey into the wilderness of our own recovery, away from the co...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: We have often compensated for our lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We have often compensated for our lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the ...
We have often compensated for our lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy.
We have often compensated for our lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy.

We have often compensated for our lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the ...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: The Ten Stages experience, is that we who are blinded to our own traumatic history have a difficult time admitting to ourselves who we really are
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages experience, is that we who are blinded to our own traumatic history have a difficult time admitting to ourselves who we re...
The Ten Stages experience, is that we who are blinded to our own traumatic history have a difficult time admitting to ourselves who we really are
The Ten Stages experience, is that we who are blinded to our own traumatic history have a difficult time admitting to ourselves who we really are

The Ten Stages experience, is that we who are blinded to our own traumatic history have a difficult time admitting to ourselves who we re...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Most of us are unaware of the childhood traumas of our ancestors.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Most of us are unaware of the childhood traumas of our ancestors. These betrayals remain unknown, as they are passed unconsciously throug...
Most of us are unaware of the childhood traumas of our ancestors.
Most of us are unaware of the childhood traumas of our ancestors.

Most of us are unaware of the childhood traumas of our ancestors. These betrayals remain unknown, as they are passed unconsciously throug...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: The Ten Stages are intended to help us make sense of our recovery process, to understand the dynamics of communicating with the child hidden within, and to absorb this into our present reality.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s path. Experience has taught us tha...
The Ten Stages are intended to help us make sense of our recovery process, to understand the dynamics of communicating with the child hidden within, and to absorb this into our present reality.
The Ten Stages are intended to help us make sense of our recovery process, to understand the dynamics of communicating with the child hidden within, and to absorb this into our present reality.

The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s path. Experience has taught us tha...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Ten Stages Calm, Tides and Ripples Contemplation and Reflection
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Ten Stages Calm, Tides and Ripples Contemplation and Reflection. An average contemplation should not take longer than ten minutes. If it t...
Ten Stages Calm, Tides and Ripples Contemplation and Reflection
Ten Stages Calm, Tides and Ripples Contemplation and Reflection

Ten Stages Calm, Tides and Ripples Contemplation and Reflection. An average contemplation should not take longer than ten minutes. If it t...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: In my heart you are always there You lead me thru the darkness Of painful memories
Author: Fraser Trevor
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In my heart you are always there You lead me thru the darkness Of painful memories And walk me out into the light again Where I can see you...
In my heart you are always there You lead me thru the darkness Of painful memories
In my heart you are always there You lead me thru the darkness Of painful memories

In my heart you are always there You lead me thru the darkness Of painful memories And walk me out into the light again Where I can see you...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain yourself.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain yourself. To avoid circular conversations putting you in the victims role, don't Justify, Argue, Defen...
Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain yourself.
Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain yourself.

Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain yourself. To avoid circular conversations putting you in the victims role, don't Justify, Argue, Defen...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Remember as a child … whatever we would study we would learn about.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Remember as a child … whatever we would study we would learn about. Whatever we look at long and hard enough we would get to see in detai...
Remember as a child … whatever we would study we would learn about.
Remember as a child … whatever we would study we would learn about.

Remember as a child … whatever we would study we would learn about. Whatever we look at long and hard enough we would get to see in detai...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: During our initial first recovery period we suffer a form of Toxic remembrance
Author: Fraser Trevor
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During our initial first recovery period we suffer a form of Toxic remembrance: We have due to our constant dissociations anaesthetised ...
During our initial first recovery period we suffer a form of Toxic remembrance
During our initial first recovery period we suffer a form of Toxic remembrance

During our initial first recovery period we suffer a form of Toxic remembrance: We have due to our constant dissociations anaesthetised ...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Our child within once freed, is in no way shackled by the linear, disconnected routes most adults have restricted themselves to
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Our child within once freed, is in no way shackled by the linear, disconnected routes most adults have restricted themselves to, we can an...
Our child within once freed, is in no way shackled by the linear, disconnected routes most adults have restricted themselves to
Our child within once freed, is in no way shackled by the linear, disconnected routes most adults have restricted themselves to

Our child within once freed, is in no way shackled by the linear, disconnected routes most adults have restricted themselves to, we can an...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Our own integrated Child Within was born bathed in a feeling emotional natural state
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Our own integrated Child Within was born bathed in a feeling emotional natural state, this is a form deeper intelligence that connects us ...
Our own integrated Child Within was born bathed in a feeling emotional natural state
Our own integrated Child Within was born bathed in a feeling emotional natural state

Our own integrated Child Within was born bathed in a feeling emotional natural state, this is a form deeper intelligence that connects us ...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Why we use our connection to the child within in the ten stages.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Why we use our connection to the child within in The Ten Stages. Almost anyone can learn to think or believe or know, but not a single hum...
Why we use our connection to the child within  in the ten stages.
Why we use our connection to the child within in the ten stages.

Why we use our connection to the child within in The Ten Stages. Almost anyone can learn to think or believe or know, but not a single hum...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: We the dissociated have used often addiction as a temporary medication for deeply hidden emotional pain.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We the dissociated have used often addiction as a temporary medication for deeply hidden emotional pain. We have been groomed to listen to...
We the dissociated have used often addiction as a temporary medication for deeply hidden emotional pain.
We the dissociated have used often addiction as a temporary medication for deeply hidden emotional pain.

We the dissociated have used often addiction as a temporary medication for deeply hidden emotional pain. We have been groomed to listen to...

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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: After a period of time we gain a faith..
Author: Fraser Trevor
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After a period of time we gain a faith.... and a belief system which are not synonymous, many different beliefs are held by people with fa...
After a period of time we gain a faith..
After a period of time we gain a faith..

After a period of time we gain a faith.... and a belief system which are not synonymous, many different beliefs are held by people with fa...

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