Ten Stages and the fragmented personality.THE PERIOD OF REFLECTION

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJDxKBq8gX1UDB-zrrCy8WUV4mKCY55WUD_jzXEw8JFsQKjOpyBZIUBklhi6uk7DmJhX0Woha44AWheiuQOv-T4tkD3IrIqtLJQuVGHShfgGxa4NNpv0CZFs_Egyaw18ZBhTW6sIS_0MsS/s1600/1-1-jay_1024.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="138" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJDxKBq8gX1UDB-zrrCy8WUV4mKCY55WUD_jzXEw8JFsQKjOpyBZIUBklhi6uk7DmJhX0Woha44AWheiuQOv-T4tkD3IrIqtLJQuVGHShfgGxa4NNpv0CZFs_Egyaw18ZBhTW6sIS_0MsS/s320/1-1-jay_1024.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">As we engage with the 10 Stage Study we uncover a need for a period of reflection a period of </span><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">mourning, at first we feel a great freedom but after we enter into the Ten Stages of Mourning for Our Lost Childhood. Wether we like it or not if we have been honest we experience the following:</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />SHOCK: We have Anaesthetised ourselves against overwhelming loss. We have Not been able to comprehend, to face the full magnitude of emotional alienation as the child within.We become elated and despondent our belief systems start to crumble and we become thirsty for the studies. There is only so much physical or psychic pain which can be endured by the child within, and when that limit is reached, our mental/emotional system shuts down. We have been often in a state of repressed denial for a very long time. We have expressed this as “numbness,” or as a sense of unreality, a sense of disassociation.<br /><br />EMOTIONAL RELEASE: We start to return to a full on realistic world. At this time we begin to quantify the extent of our loss and realise how dreadful the loss has been. We tend to healthily vent this releases of pent-up emotions which is better than our battle to constantly repress them, but we start to feel and express strong emotions. As the shock wears off, we feel the need to release all the emotions that have been building up. Our release may be verbal or physical, and while this is healthy, care should be taken to ensure our safety, others, or personal property. We have to recognised this stage and need to provided “screaming places” where these powerful emotions can be safely vented.<br /><br /><br />DEPRESSION, LONELINESS AND UTTER ISOLATION: Our pent-up feelings break threw the carefully constructed dam of denial.Releasing the feeling of “Their is No help for me.” We descend down in the depths of despair. We identify and realise this is a NORMAL feeling. At this stage we needed to be quietly aided by quiet EXPRESSIONS OF CONCERN in our recovery and its goals. A response to loss is for childhood is to experience vivid dreams, so vivid that we believe we have actually seen or heard our specific abuse or a moment from the past as it expresses itself in our sub-conscious. Another manifestation is that the we will mistake another person for the person from our past, usually on the street or in a store. This will sometimes cause us great embarrassment as we may address the stranger, only to realise our mistake.<br /><br /><br />WE CAN DEVELOP PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF DISTRESS: “Ill” with symptoms related to the loss, weight loss, alienation. Our best help is to understand the Stages process and press onwards even though we wish to once more escape.<br /><br /><br />PANIC: We can become convinced “something is wrong with us” as a survivor. we suffer survivor remorse, we can concentrate on little else. We may fear a further loss of our sanity.In effect we are regaining our sanity<br /><br /><br />GUILT FEELINGS: May recall our own past neglect, mistreatment, or wrong to the abuser. Wrongs may be imaginary or exaggerated. But they may be REAL wrongs with REAL guilt. Sharing and unburdening of real guilt gives best relief. “Forgiveness” of real wrongs, done to us as if they were imaginary, is no adequate solution.<br /><br /><br />HOSTILITY: Feeling better leads us to expressing self more actively. We feel Hostile expressions toward those who “caused” our losses. Such hostility is normal and blameless becoming part of the healing process.<br /><br /><br />WE HAVE AN INABILITY TO RENEW NORMAL ACTIVITIES: We feel we cannot get back to “business as usual.” We must bear loss alone, since others are back to normal activities. We Need encouragement to face new realities, not to be sheltered from them.We start to move away from old friends and associates as we recognise we have little in common with them.We pick up the support from The Stages Guides. The HEALING OF OUR MEMORIES: There is a slow realisation that the painful memories are part of the healing process and must be integrated into the life of the recovering. It is a time of reaching out, however tentatively, to embrace fully all that has happened and to accept that life must change if it is to continue. The memories become less frightening, and the sky a bit brighter as the recovering begin to face the world with more and more confidence.<br /><br /><br />WE GRADUAL OVERCOME OUR GRIEF FOR OUR CHILDHOOD: Our emotional balance returns little by little, like healing of a physical wound. The Rate and severity can varies with each of us.We start to acknowledge our similarity of hurt and loss.There is a slow realisation that the painful memories are part of the healing process and must be integrated into the life of the recovering. It is a time of reaching out, however tentatively, to embrace fully all that has happened and to accept that life must change if it is to continue. The memories become less frightening, and the sky a bit brighter as we begin to face the world with more and more confidence.Loss brings about changes. We begin to mature into a resumption of the adult life and going on through the years without a parent, that we must come to the realisation that a new role is to be accepted and lived, and our period of grief for ourselves is over. The Renewed cycle of our life continues, and our bereaved self can finally shed the cloak of grief and take on the robe of peace and renewal.<br /><br /><br />WE HAVE TO MAKE A READJUSTMENT TO THE NEW REALITIES OF OUR RECOVERED LIFE: We are Not our “old self again,” because there is now a new situation a new form of reality. We feel the freedom of our grief process . We feel Stronger, deeper, better for having faced and overcome some of our dysfunctional childhood.We realise that this is a life time changing event and we practice the ten stages studying our past history in the light of our new reality.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Ten Stages and the fragmented personality.THE PERIOD OF REFLECTION

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The whole powerlessness concept is threatening because they were unable to control what was done to them as a child so it's terrifying

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTG4kpk82LppG2V5QGfk-ZN1EKgkhLEgQ27aSCgK9BNXOsT4vpQpovrPGUpSW2I1gYW8UA7Ne_Xg28erSKgtDhN2b3Y417DEBQ8ZE-INbI0UgB613lndGRqlT-hwziSKxPr7-JQdtlVU_v/s1600/1381664_10150327697944981_1241009464_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="143" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTG4kpk82LppG2V5QGfk-ZN1EKgkhLEgQ27aSCgK9BNXOsT4vpQpovrPGUpSW2I1gYW8UA7Ne_Xg28erSKgtDhN2b3Y417DEBQ8ZE-INbI0UgB613lndGRqlT-hwziSKxPr7-JQdtlVU_v/s200/1381664_10150327697944981_1241009464_n.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Traditional old fashioned treatment methods often make the survivor of abuse feel constantly re-victimised.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Many of the methods used in other places are counterproductive to the ten stages. Angry, forceful confrontations that are frequently used to break denial can push those with abusive backgrounds further into resistance, because they feel they're being violated again. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><i><b>The whole powerlessness concept</b></i> is threatening because they were unable to control what was done to them as a child so it's terrifying to think they have no power as an adult. The structure and tone of treatment tends to be punitive, shaming, rigid and blaming, which resembles the atmosphere they grew up in.<br /></span><br /> <i><b><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Traditional treatment methods often make the survivor of abuse feel re-victimised</span>.</b></i><br /> <div> <br /></div> </div> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The whole powerlessness concept is threatening because they were unable to control what was done to them as a child so it's terrifying

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WE are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxMPIeJiv3CHS4suX6bQNpW2XEyySHJc-0BQTVuEpswSq8GI3986xv9OmZGAn8V9lVcCsXiNSGV84PB_ovvhJ5YfPO5QsFe0ewQoTxD6iFQ-P2fX1oxn96qGbinj1l9nnmjsvuWhTydE_f/s1600/4385.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="120" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxMPIeJiv3CHS4suX6bQNpW2XEyySHJc-0BQTVuEpswSq8GI3986xv9OmZGAn8V9lVcCsXiNSGV84PB_ovvhJ5YfPO5QsFe0ewQoTxD6iFQ-P2fX1oxn96qGbinj1l9nnmjsvuWhTydE_f/s200/4385.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We start to recognise our dissociated state of mind.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">For when we are dissociated we are not at peace with ourselves at all.</span><br /> <br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">WE are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings and of having to pretend to be happy all the time. We recognise this ourselves because this is what the way we are/</span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">used to be. And by escaping our feelings, we create an inner void which is filled with either addictions or other people.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</i>

WE are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings

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Our mind coming into recovery is a fault-finding mind its a google minded snake

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEii7jrGY9BBvmUTgryUg9p_6cWd0gp-HnofdsdONmc7tU1P7dpnPaFEdxFERKOD4rwo1oZ1uS5sZ_cZ7FaFLS2o6Syas4qLdqOHUW0qZN_dhmVH5MfISb1cmMOySkzB8g_8z9JN0kn3DvMH/s1600/Slithery+Presence%252C+Indian+Cobra.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEii7jrGY9BBvmUTgryUg9p_6cWd0gp-HnofdsdONmc7tU1P7dpnPaFEdxFERKOD4rwo1oZ1uS5sZ_cZ7FaFLS2o6Syas4qLdqOHUW0qZN_dhmVH5MfISb1cmMOySkzB8g_8z9JN0kn3DvMH/s200/Slithery+Presence%252C+Indian+Cobra.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our mind coming into recovery is a fault-finding mind its a google minded snake, and you can start to avoid it in the future.<br /><br />"In our experience of recovery, as much as 90 percent of any real practice of kindfulness is about understanding the fault-finding mind. This includes understanding where it comes from, how to avoid it, and how to develop the positive mind – how to see the nine hundred and ninety-eight good bricks, not just the two bad ones, in a recovery wall you've constructed. Instead of fault-finding, try to understand other human beings, yourself included, and have forgiveness and loving-kindness.<br /><br />"Practicing kindfulness means seeing yourself as just a person on the path, this child held within who has suffered a lot already and who doesn't want more suffering. If you can be at peace with your suffering, you'll find that compulsive fault-finding decreases."</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Our mind coming into recovery is a fault-finding mind its a google minded snake

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Kindfulness is the secret ingredient of The Ten Stages,

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8Fqga_IM4z-JWVWq7aK-qaiNaQoePCaA19ngP3JZtjQWcGBuSQO_HKpHRPs304d2Fco9Rf5rHF-DQ7g82FNHKy0SYQZsHh2ToySyN1Zmk_9BQH5AhtTcvRklIVxHXmn1HIK1LqDiN1Pk5/s1600/ten+stages.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="130" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8Fqga_IM4z-JWVWq7aK-qaiNaQoePCaA19ngP3JZtjQWcGBuSQO_HKpHRPs304d2Fco9Rf5rHF-DQ7g82FNHKy0SYQZsHh2ToySyN1Zmk_9BQH5AhtTcvRklIVxHXmn1HIK1LqDiN1Pk5/s320/ten+stages.png" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">"Don't just be mindful in your recovery, be kindful" is the secret ingredient of the ten stages.It is acquired by simple practice of letting go   "Every time we're able to apply kindness to reduce or overcome our problems, that's kindfulness at work."We constantly run practical workshops and  watch its transformational powers.<br /><br />Both the past and the future refuse to sit still for portraits and so we tend to see them as burdens. Happy are those who choose "silent present moment"; they will discover that they can incarnate "the golden radiance of kindfulness." This character quality is manifested through letting go, resting the mind in the middle of meditation, making peace with sloth and torpor, coping with restlessness, dealing with doubt, and managing anger.  "Every obstacle is ultimately something that you can recognise, overcome, and move beyond."<br /><br />There is the practical dimension to the ten stage meditational presentation of the spiritual practice of kindness that makes it very appealing.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Kindfulness is the secret ingredient of The Ten Stages,

"Don't just be mindful in your recovery, be kindful" is the secret ingredient of the ten stages.It is acquired by simple pra...

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We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone…

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj304zbmN18xnnv6G21dA3prckPsA5Z9jqhGFqZZLQutN4n_iUpR5jxtXyNWyX-cwqPQm1fb-c87-V31SAqEMBLV8DJr1Qms79JBQHpD0pJU_0KZP0NMv5XLoxxdk1Vt82InCw-3ylEwb9u/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj304zbmN18xnnv6G21dA3prckPsA5Z9jqhGFqZZLQutN4n_iUpR5jxtXyNWyX-cwqPQm1fb-c87-V31SAqEMBLV8DJr1Qms79JBQHpD0pJU_0KZP0NMv5XLoxxdk1Vt82InCw-3ylEwb9u/s320/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" width="207" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone…<br /><br />…yet never acknowledge this to our partners.<br /><br />We have children because we don’t know what else to do with their lives…<br /><br />yet are terrified to conceive of what this “what else” might be.<br /><br />WE know only a minuscule amount about ourselves…<br /><br />…yet consider ourselves to be experts on life.<br /><br />We work at jobs we hate…<br /><br />…yet spend their earnings in ways that make it impossible for them to quit.<br /><br />We don’t know how much we despise ourselves…<br /><br />…yet are much more like the others than they we realise.<br /><br />We have the capacity to undo all this and become real…<br /><br />…and this we know deep down inside ourselves<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhv2hjldpA_ru_vqv-Z2SHVL1p2Ios3agcHhunZZf2pG-QsFaruR79WAWAJQJjwXP6zBNxIS2rD5MwI6SDBoTiBPVXdfoGzUbZKs1L6ygWTf-OfzOywfNqWY8cxlLIuwR0bCcwiQD-nWxA/s1600/1-1-The+stage+enlightenment.jpg"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhv2hjldpA_ru_vqv-Z2SHVL1p2Ios3agcHhunZZf2pG-QsFaruR79WAWAJQJjwXP6zBNxIS2rD5MwI6SDBoTiBPVXdfoGzUbZKs1L6ygWTf-OfzOywfNqWY8cxlLIuwR0bCcwiQD-nWxA/s1600/1-1-The+stage+enlightenment.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span><br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

We stay in relationships because we are frightened of being alone…

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Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states control our behaviour at different times.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9fCIyl0InPt5dn220BHOPQHny8lQRPBr75hK2vcmAzqsj_6EdAX6JcJ5Miz9lsq9MaWIjzA-vVuSYC0CvtiZ3ZMsNupe_v_YuhLtFYdq1NcmHcRoSxn8lZaohN1zjetoWLd-k78NHVOZi/s1600/2013-10-20" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9fCIyl0InPt5dn220BHOPQHny8lQRPBr75hK2vcmAzqsj_6EdAX6JcJ5Miz9lsq9MaWIjzA-vVuSYC0CvtiZ3ZMsNupe_v_YuhLtFYdq1NcmHcRoSxn8lZaohN1zjetoWLd-k78NHVOZi/s320/2013-10-20" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states control our behaviour at different times. One identity may be different from another, and when we are under the influence of one of our identities, we may forget our experiences when we switch back to the other identity. "When under the control of one identity, we are usually unable to remember some of the events that occurred while other personalities were in control." We may experience time loss, amnesia, and adopt different mannerisms, attitudes, speech and ideas under different personalities. We are often unaware of the different lives we lead or our dissociated state in general, feeling as though we are looking at others life through the lens of someone else, and even being unable to recognise ourselves in a mirror.The Ten Stages are the only answer for this basic dysfunction of the addicted.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states control our behaviour at different times.

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Are you ready to take a quantum leap of faith back into childhood ?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF2IzgUMgqLOg1eUyLK9WzcwjY9Jhc9ZAb-Elf12AOUjK9_AuND9FCd2Ile5rDnGawFN0d7SGKVVWfcaQXPr5aqT51_FfvwOHntcN1LLSXwuHLQ-jRVn8NwX8lOkL9S9603VdOz_oDx1AM/s1600/2012-12-16" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF2IzgUMgqLOg1eUyLK9WzcwjY9Jhc9ZAb-Elf12AOUjK9_AuND9FCd2Ile5rDnGawFN0d7SGKVVWfcaQXPr5aqT51_FfvwOHntcN1LLSXwuHLQ-jRVn8NwX8lOkL9S9603VdOz_oDx1AM/s320/2012-12-16" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Are you ready to take a quantum leap of faith back into childhood ? Beyond the illusion of the material world we come to recognise an inner world , a world of power, freedom, and grace. Understand your true essence, and you begin your journey towards recovery. Little by Little on your journey, you shed your habitual and conditioned responses. As you do so, you become a student and begin to transcend our suffering, including the fear of death. You realise that the real you was never born, and therefore can never die. Only that which has a beginning has an ending. That which never began is eternal and always, and it is you.</span><br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Are you ready to take a quantum leap of faith back into childhood ?

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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrVShtRq4ZHfJIDYFiggf1tnt4Z0Hvu6o7OthnuOzWSqqXO0CkTqvhgEmZTw6NwT_fuLY_5P4-2uW089EjurquNMQISx7xL0KHJ6SId80v1va097uPwCqh0NnXntklrlXodUhTMsocN2O5/s1600/ten+stage+community.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrVShtRq4ZHfJIDYFiggf1tnt4Z0Hvu6o7OthnuOzWSqqXO0CkTqvhgEmZTw6NwT_fuLY_5P4-2uW089EjurquNMQISx7xL0KHJ6SId80v1va097uPwCqh0NnXntklrlXodUhTMsocN2O5/s320/ten+stage+community.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We Thank You Florida this week we are going for 7000 views, help is get to our goal. The Ten Stages are the only healthy Recovery Root. The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

We Thank You Florida this week we are going for 7000 views

We Thank You Florida this week we are going for 7000 views, help is get to our goal. The Ten Stages are the only healthy Recovery Root. Th...

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We block life’s attempts to enter our bubble for we fear abandonment.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8tuggtpDEQkdvE1jxV307XxGlkV5Tow9Y1zA0iwlMbp75lHGiwEG4D_3dBH5PUv1-An2AS1p1rdYGksbwuiTeKAYEKRds7_XblWSmvPdLrdUOwksjzb9BRT0UHPctMUubTW4FMxMhobQW/s1600/ten+stage+community.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8tuggtpDEQkdvE1jxV307XxGlkV5Tow9Y1zA0iwlMbp75lHGiwEG4D_3dBH5PUv1-An2AS1p1rdYGksbwuiTeKAYEKRds7_XblWSmvPdLrdUOwksjzb9BRT0UHPctMUubTW4FMxMhobQW/s320/ten+stage+community.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We block life’s attempts to enter our bubble for we fear abandonment. This fear is well-founded, for growth will sweep us out of the deadened prison of our sick reality and into the temporary torture of freedom. So instead of surrendering to life’s impulse to heal and change us, we reinforce our defences through addiction, denial, and an increased allegiance to work . We remain wedded to the lies of the group—not to truth. Our stifled energy ends up shunted into illness, physical or emotional. We would rather die in the prison of our own making than learn to live free in the wilderness.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</span>

We block life’s attempts to enter our bubble for we fear abandonment.

We block life’s attempts to enter our bubble for we fear abandonment. This fear is well-founded, for growth will sweep us out of the deade...

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Being an alcoholic is no longer a moral issue, a character flaw, a spiritual illness, a defect in spirit or a personality disorder.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4EP_taMyR2a6slY-3KbCKTj3YtgqPCwliGWNVzwQpnrsbsAWHPb6y9NaQ3IZBzaK8zIL5hKyHo05Y0Wg4nsXrtpcN02ZZqmi-Sxum-E9app21mHhhOrU0Q6MaVeQv9CMA94nrlbEdQHwF/s1600/ten+stage+community.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4EP_taMyR2a6slY-3KbCKTj3YtgqPCwliGWNVzwQpnrsbsAWHPb6y9NaQ3IZBzaK8zIL5hKyHo05Y0Wg4nsXrtpcN02ZZqmi-Sxum-E9app21mHhhOrU0Q6MaVeQv9CMA94nrlbEdQHwF/s320/ten+stage+community.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: medium; line-height: 19.2px;">Instilling a sense of powerlessness in us is destructive to the child within, teaches and perpetuates learned helplessness, perpetuates hopelessness, prevents one from taking personal responsibility and encourages a self-fulfilling prophecy from our parents of not being good enough. that in the case of addiction often leads to binge drinking and justification for the binge. "If I'm powerless, I guess there's nothing I can do about it, so I might as well drink myself to death," is what the mind concludes. The powerlessness concept actually increases binging behaviour and relapse.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large; line-height: 19.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large; line-height: 19.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large; line-height: 19.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: medium; line-height: 19.2px;">It is completely disempowering, which is insane, because what we need more than anything is to feel empowered. We need to feel capable of changing our life. Not only that, it's a complete lie. When we understand that the true root of alcoholism lies in biochemistry and dissociation there are ways to correct it, they are given all the tools needed to overcome their addiction and the shame so often associated with being an alcoholic. Being an alcoholic is no longer a moral issue, a character flaw, a spiritual illness, a defect in spirit or a personality disorder. It frees them.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Being an alcoholic is no longer a moral issue, a character flaw, a spiritual illness, a defect in spirit or a personality disorder.

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we are moving along life's path with an anchor down

<blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">"The cycle of grief has its own timetable. Until that cycle is honoured and completed <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgL4zNFnuY2gFxUoeBlJ0mD4TDSEjQ59dgKvUebTl6lPxKtPcbPC-kJTMkKgS6xya-yVeCXkHW2mmh0_SGGwWw9qxrWqBzWk1InKCmvMUGL-NAPMsWUAcx0FLZ0Qy7Iuq3Cwb5dXsZfSKn4/s1600/recovery+wild+child.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgL4zNFnuY2gFxUoeBlJ0mD4TDSEjQ59dgKvUebTl6lPxKtPcbPC-kJTMkKgS6xya-yVeCXkHW2mmh0_SGGwWw9qxrWqBzWk1InKCmvMUGL-NAPMsWUAcx0FLZ0Qy7Iuq3Cwb5dXsZfSKn4/s320/recovery+wild+child.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> we are moving along life's path with an anchor down."<br />— Ann Linnea in Deep Water Passage</span></blockquote> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

we are moving along life's path with an anchor down

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This is the radical paradigm shift in The Ten Stages we all can make

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh29aICW0nVh4nJqqAO9GSHkT64ANdPV5P4hRTdfFrqAFZ8WsS9TB-rFFESD2KM9Z1-hTh59UCwsXEl-q9sWZUmfmsauw7jsNpvfOr9CcChzM_AdE0ugQSaDqgzhHvIHTIESwZYshhnP6A/s1600/FotorCreated20sd.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh29aICW0nVh4nJqqAO9GSHkT64ANdPV5P4hRTdfFrqAFZ8WsS9TB-rFFESD2KM9Z1-hTh59UCwsXEl-q9sWZUmfmsauw7jsNpvfOr9CcChzM_AdE0ugQSaDqgzhHvIHTIESwZYshhnP6A/s320/FotorCreated20sd.jpg" width="226" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Living in our pressure cooker society pushes us to our emotional limits. We deserve relief from getting crucified by daily stresses. We deserve to be happier, to be more comfortable in our own skins, to have nurturing relationships. . . .It's lunacy to put up with being chronically anxious, fatigued, or depressed as so many of us have. We rebel against that cheerless status quo, and hope you will too. . . .<br /><br />Though we commonly think of freedom as uncensored speech, emancipation from slavery, and the right to vote and worship as we choose, you can't achieve total freedom until you learn to take charge of emotions, instead of them running you. This is a radical paradigm shift in The Ten Stages we all can make, regardless of our present anxieties or past hardships.<br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

This is the radical paradigm shift in The Ten Stages we all can make

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Acting as an advocate we are propelled into the struggle for justice

<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBCKaH6qfecjU-MNHMoRwN_TkVhFxaDcR9jWzrUPaoxV7kTZ7yfGlepcu9GlD0PdvD6k_PruGQL-zT53X9Ki-5xxAjIfUjrFP9ZXP6eYliyhmQVJtJyOzXsOmFI7vahvmbq2q0mRW853vz/s1600/1-Ten+Stage+diss.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="80" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBCKaH6qfecjU-MNHMoRwN_TkVhFxaDcR9jWzrUPaoxV7kTZ7yfGlepcu9GlD0PdvD6k_PruGQL-zT53X9Ki-5xxAjIfUjrFP9ZXP6eYliyhmQVJtJyOzXsOmFI7vahvmbq2q0mRW853vz/s320/1-Ten+Stage+diss.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> Acting as an advocate we are propelled into the struggle for justice when we experience an injustice ourselves; we are not treated fairly at work or our friendship is exploited by an associate. One day while reading the newspaper, we may be shocked to learn of the treatment of certain groups in our society. Or we may step back and realize that we have been ignoring what are clearly injustices around us. Our very lack of concern can wake us up to the need for justice.<br /><br />There is also a "shadow" side to this spiritual practice. Sometimes in our fervour for justice we decide that we can ignore the rights and dignity of those who oppose us. Instead of being justice seekers, then, we become fanatics.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Acting as an advocate we are propelled into the struggle for justice

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The Ten Stages Study is the greatest human exploration and adventure concerned with rebuilding autonomous self worth.

<br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIXpuQd2T-gAFm-yoR5psu7QycEQsW5tMy4dB3dv1fJMGPzf1l_ZZhFvLb3Ct4NGh1jd-vWDNk3aERc3xblPyUNM_LGwfdH9bZ-9DxFwIoODwSak50o8k3r13XramZDwtswh0ECp4V3Ztc/s1600/memories.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIXpuQd2T-gAFm-yoR5psu7QycEQsW5tMy4dB3dv1fJMGPzf1l_ZZhFvLb3Ct4NGh1jd-vWDNk3aERc3xblPyUNM_LGwfdH9bZ-9DxFwIoODwSak50o8k3r13XramZDwtswh0ECp4V3Ztc/s1600/memories.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stages Study is the greatest human exploration and adventure concerned with rebuilding autonomous self worth.When we trump our right to make autonomous decisions we send the message that we are incompetent. By giving us a label We are taught not to trust ourselves. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We are taught that our experience is a pathology rather than an opportunity for self-study and growth. We are taught that our “symptoms” or “defences” are a problem rather than a window into a world of our deeper meaning and history. We are taught that life’s answers are outside of us, that the truth is not within us, and that our best bet is not to look within for guidance. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stages is an autonomous self teaching Study Course owned by yourself and completed by yourself. It is perhaps the greatest human exploration and adventure based recovery study program on this planet and it is available to you, and it is based on your truth, not someone else's.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The Ten Stages Study is the greatest human exploration and adventure concerned with rebuilding autonomous self worth.

The Ten Stages Study is the greatest human exploration and adventure concerned with rebuilding autonomous self worth.When we trump our ...

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Ten Stage Daily Action Plan to keep us centred today

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0miFBnC7hHFfO-AAGzJ3aYJzK5ADCU8ydCsybsj1-dAvAz1TFoL7EJ5TIu3HjGtP8zJUUuVdsMI4_lnvE6xvZ7shyphenhyphen42Zg3Q-ULPV8zdevwKg6EdEaaESHNZJwZ1tQ47bm8sghoY618lgQ/s1600/10428672_10154666833615702_3280276145782273141_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0miFBnC7hHFfO-AAGzJ3aYJzK5ADCU8ydCsybsj1-dAvAz1TFoL7EJ5TIu3HjGtP8zJUUuVdsMI4_lnvE6xvZ7shyphenhyphen42Zg3Q-ULPV8zdevwKg6EdEaaESHNZJwZ1tQ47bm8sghoY618lgQ/s320/10428672_10154666833615702_3280276145782273141_n.jpg" width="240" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Ten Stage Daily Action Plan to keep us centred today<br /><br />Breathing in: Be KINDFUL . . .<br />Breathing out: as our child within is KINDFUL to us.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Ten Stage Daily Action Plan to keep us centred today

Ten Stage Daily Action Plan to keep us centred today Breathing in: Be KINDFUL . . . Breathing out: as our child within is KINDFUL to us....

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Daily Ten Stage Kindfulness Cue

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1zXqBlHL5lZXDQi4Ed4vCX1HpFu-BoK9340sB04RFkS8-EwCPAfr-5ibkIUeX2n2NFAyYznUKajRRTlO7GrTFZxXozGpJn3VTfuDcTaMirSM62iUv9aODv2RJ6f4uQ7z6D8PKeIZHXy-u/s1600/10702029_10152783722207755_4458114362206719862_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1zXqBlHL5lZXDQi4Ed4vCX1HpFu-BoK9340sB04RFkS8-EwCPAfr-5ibkIUeX2n2NFAyYznUKajRRTlO7GrTFZxXozGpJn3VTfuDcTaMirSM62iUv9aODv2RJ6f4uQ7z6D8PKeIZHXy-u/s200/10702029_10152783722207755_4458114362206719862_n.jpg" width="173" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Daily Ten Stage Kindfulness Cue, Reminder, Vow, Blessing<br />Seeing someone in pain is my cue to practice Kindfulness.<br />My tears remind me of my KINDFULNESS link with all beings.<br />Just as a mother would protect her only child at the risk of her own life, I vow to cultivate a Kindfulness heart toward all beings.<br /> KINDFULNESS as a way of touching and being touched by the world around us.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Daily Ten Stage Kindfulness Cue

Daily Ten Stage Kindfulness Cue, Reminder, Vow, Blessing Seeing someone in pain is my cue to practice Kindfulness. My tears remind me of m...

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When we move toward others with Kindfulness, we are likely to bump into some common attitudes

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMLtE2a11RpUseaHKxrpqN9MKeRP9ozmBjqInj6vFZOOq7dMnviRGD0BF96rcLc0KzrfLhepAiHJnRYLHtoRmcOmjiG8aFscRgTDfZbzgPQhcSLvKKb2XJVKGyLVsqkjwTPy1MgwAIWDCI/s1600/contactchild.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMLtE2a11RpUseaHKxrpqN9MKeRP9ozmBjqInj6vFZOOq7dMnviRGD0BF96rcLc0KzrfLhepAiHJnRYLHtoRmcOmjiG8aFscRgTDfZbzgPQhcSLvKKb2XJVKGyLVsqkjwTPy1MgwAIWDCI/s320/contactchild.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />When we move toward others with Kindfulness, we are likely to bump into some common attitudes, just waiting to close our heart again. The usual suspects are judgment and all its associated "isms": racism, sexism, ageism, classism, and nationalism.<br /><br />On a personal level, our compassion is sabotaged by feelings of ill will toward others: spite and malice. These feelings, and others arising out of emotional wounds and personal pain, are actually symptoms indicating that we need to practice kindfulness for ourselves.<i>What Kind act can you do for yourself?</i></span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

When we move toward others with Kindfulness, we are likely to bump into some common attitudes

When we move toward others with Kindfulness, we are likely to bump into some common attitudes, just waiting to close our heart again. The ...

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Why we start every course with our Letting Go Meditation letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCeU4xXzJxxY5DC7yXg6W3xp61u3d0h0NJYfE8orCu4WxFD10nEYwJ1jryqtoQEFSnGpJfpDLYIqoCtHaeaeyc2Ygdp02MVTP7M9MZAK75uvPV3h7-UdUNMZ2NwiefBIQIdnrh5myFSgZv/s1600/contactchild.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCeU4xXzJxxY5DC7yXg6W3xp61u3d0h0NJYfE8orCu4WxFD10nEYwJ1jryqtoQEFSnGpJfpDLYIqoCtHaeaeyc2Ygdp02MVTP7M9MZAK75uvPV3h7-UdUNMZ2NwiefBIQIdnrh5myFSgZv/s320/contactchild.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><i><b>Why we start every course with our Letting Go Meditation</b></i><br /><br />"To dwell in the here and now does not mean you never think about the past, or responsibly plan for the future. The idea is simply not to allow yourself to get lost in regrets about the past or worries about the future. Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness."<br />~ Thich Nhat Hanh ~</span></blockquote> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Why we start every course with our Letting Go Meditation letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness.

Why we start every course with our Letting Go Meditation "To dwell in the here and now does not mean you never think about the past,...

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The practice of kindfulness in the ten stages increases our capacity to care for ourselves.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU03EyRti83Hfw2Q9XlcNQcBimrYNBvo_kW_9Q22RWUQdgzoR3iOeRj1syCLzrBhKYrMN9jfGKvIoMM0v8QNOrwScML3xXLumSmfoaopCimrSvNNGgsXTKSuArL4gtT-1hjYgPuC9ySbCh/s1600/moorland+kindfulness.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU03EyRti83Hfw2Q9XlcNQcBimrYNBvo_kW_9Q22RWUQdgzoR3iOeRj1syCLzrBhKYrMN9jfGKvIoMM0v8QNOrwScML3xXLumSmfoaopCimrSvNNGgsXTKSuArL4gtT-1hjYgPuC9ySbCh/s320/moorland+kindfulness.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The practice of kindfulness in the ten stages increases our capacity to care for ourselves. It reinforces charity, empathy, and sympathy. It is very good exercise for our child within opening the door for our child to manifest into our lives.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /><br /></span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The practice of kindfulness in the ten stages increases our capacity to care for ourselves.

The practice of kindfulness in the ten stages increases our capacity to care for ourselves. It reinforces charity, empathy, and sympathy. ...

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THANK YOU WE ARE OVER 1000 TODAY

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk99tSxCU8N7IT05vnUSOxBS_H83PcxPVMHdGyXkF8fjhyphenhyphenxiK0UgYmdXHSAL_1GbKtDGv-oaQGO43qufdKhpOXZpqEQHhCEjSFy_Yspxd9V_ZVxy-lXxKmWwIw0E4yUw1vXxxNwuWM3GOE/s1600/ten+stages987.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="80" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk99tSxCU8N7IT05vnUSOxBS_H83PcxPVMHdGyXkF8fjhyphenhyphenxiK0UgYmdXHSAL_1GbKtDGv-oaQGO43qufdKhpOXZpqEQHhCEjSFy_Yspxd9V_ZVxy-lXxKmWwIw0E4yUw1vXxxNwuWM3GOE/s320/ten+stages987.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">THANK YOU WE ARE OVER 1000 TODAY</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">COME ON ALASKA: Thanks Alaska you made it 800 WOW!!!</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

THANK YOU WE ARE OVER 1000 TODAY

THANK YOU WE ARE OVER 1000 TODAY COME ON ALASKA: Thanks Alaska you made it 800 WOW!!! The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It...

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Over 700 visiting today seeing the strong and consistent recovery message of the ten stages.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJwflWopBKH_Hn86ng8LDDyE1g8WU9NIdR6w_-nSEDTgm6JARf0QOw6f_wOAc3cL5ET3Jamc9V65Yg8kKdKiumZRauj5-9nGVBrB4bHgd-h9XS_UAsG-AV8uGdCdAhRjynT4dF7zji8vfG/s1600/Ten+Stages+Bannr56.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="39" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJwflWopBKH_Hn86ng8LDDyE1g8WU9NIdR6w_-nSEDTgm6JARf0QOw6f_wOAc3cL5ET3Jamc9V65Yg8kKdKiumZRauj5-9nGVBrB4bHgd-h9XS_UAsG-AV8uGdCdAhRjynT4dF7zji8vfG/s320/Ten+Stages+Bannr56.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Over 700 visiting today and seeing the strong recovery message of the ten stages.100s of new subscribers to our newsletters.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />For you to live a ten stage recovery life - you will push other people's buttons.Our course work is based on scientific study and gives solutions is not cult or religious based and covers all addictions and disorders.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You will stand out in your recovery.You will notice the difference.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It will seem like everyone around you think's you've gone crazy.Old friends and family members will notice the differences first and you will start to experience laughter and joy.<br /><br /> <br /><br /> You've found yourself. You are looking for a new autonomous recovery community. Eventually you will come to see that you weren't born to fit in, you were born to stand out and recover completely, you are not compelled to live a life of guilt and shame.<br /><br /> <br /><br />In order to do this, you and I - we've both got to get a handle on how to handle criticism from people I call "the vodka and vomit brigade".The doubters It's not the most elegant term, but I do think it's Universal. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You know what I mean. Those people who seem to never approve of you. You enjoy it when you fail and who don't celebrate your attempt at your epic journey, but rather want you to play small.<br /><br /> <br /><br /><i>You might have been intimidated by them. You may have let them stop you.</i><br /><br /> <br /><br />But all that is in the past now.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Today, you learn how to turn it around - AND - you learn how to use your haters to find more success in your personal recovery.We acknowledge the courage of the Stagers who are setting up small recovery communities in the following locations<br /><br /> </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">United States<br />United Kingdom<br /><br />Germany<br />Canada<br /><br />Portugal<br /><br />Poland<br />Ireland<br />France<br />Denmark<br />Spain<br /><br />Brazil<br /><br />Argentina<br /><br />Austria</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Over 700 visiting today seeing the strong and consistent recovery message of the ten stages.

Over 700 visiting today and seeing the strong recovery message of the ten stages.100s of new subscribers to our newsletters. For you to l...

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We need to find the courage to say 'NO'

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjj-bGWdJcY6opTdTQeziEd-RVtnZbeiwj9WtdhScbXrBoXXk9k2sT6Qom_PKcckR-Z9xL3PB9nnpMfzxtTi0bpAVP1336XDbo3-tT18lRRvcpEma1rklEZWdYbpU3r_SFMlJcYc7wq5zGB/s1600/1-INTULEXIA.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjj-bGWdJcY6opTdTQeziEd-RVtnZbeiwj9WtdhScbXrBoXXk9k2sT6Qom_PKcckR-Z9xL3PB9nnpMfzxtTi0bpAVP1336XDbo3-tT18lRRvcpEma1rklEZWdYbpU3r_SFMlJcYc7wq5zGB/s320/1-INTULEXIA.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">"We need to find the courage to say 'NO' to the things and people that are not serving us if we want to rediscover ourselves and live our lives with authenticity."<br />- Dr. Barbara DeAngelis</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

We need to find the courage to say 'NO'

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The Ten Stages Why You Were Born

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj59DIgDFjmXyiA3qfMXcX4Y14-yfiwhcDhU-b1Y5ciuJcZBWnitBSj760K8tLSiWsJR6ZRo-lbYGCkDvE2zxMu0A4TQ-f_c_OuRG19-5xd5cZL1fl84zMlldQ4UEb3H8Zp9WMavfarVRYn/s1600/1-FotorChildwithin56.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="297" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj59DIgDFjmXyiA3qfMXcX4Y14-yfiwhcDhU-b1Y5ciuJcZBWnitBSj760K8tLSiWsJR6ZRo-lbYGCkDvE2zxMu0A4TQ-f_c_OuRG19-5xd5cZL1fl84zMlldQ4UEb3H8Zp9WMavfarVRYn/s320/1-FotorChildwithin56.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stages Why You Were Born, it puts your life on a course for greater success, abundance, love and a deeper connection with your child within centre. <br /><br />You will learn: <br />– How to change your behavior from destructive to empowering. <br />– How to identify the stories that hold you back from living your purpose & change them for good. <br />– How to feel unfelt or repressed emotions that once felt, will free you to live your purpose and reclaim your life. <br />– How to identify old limiting beliefs that are killing your recovery & create new empowering beliefs. <br />– How to see all the hurt in your life as a pathway leading you to your recovery purpose. <br />– How to listen to and live from your child within. (literally) <br />–Letting go processes to create lasting change. <br />– Child Within meditations to calm your mind and focus your intentions. <br /></span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The Ten Stages Why You Were Born

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A Dissociation Storm, as we call them

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyRjONAA-Jv5JDkG6uV6QBLFZSSS8xTlNEL-mOf-QdXAVhh7PE1Q658xbCe6PAjFM4fIywhDgsQ4cGmpoBK_0gFiDHiKzMe27oIbN2qi8j_XVCV9DXnoXlNcNiRGi3B5JMLYeZQLOGHlUG/s1600/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyRjONAA-Jv5JDkG6uV6QBLFZSSS8xTlNEL-mOf-QdXAVhh7PE1Q658xbCe6PAjFM4fIywhDgsQ4cGmpoBK_0gFiDHiKzMe27oIbN2qi8j_XVCV9DXnoXlNcNiRGi3B5JMLYeZQLOGHlUG/s320/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />A Dissociation Storm, as we call them, are moments in our life when we feel like life is against us. Nothing is going well.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We question everything and maybe even say something like "Why is this happening to me?"<br /><br /> <br /><br />What we've come to find, is that moments like this are powerful opportunities to grow. Dissociation Storms are wake up calls. They are not ushering in the end, but rather clearing space for what's trying to be born in your life your child within is calling from deep inside you.<br /><br /> <br /><br />But - we tend to interrupt the process. We hang on to how it was and fear how it could be. And perhaps we slip into assuming the worst, instead of preparing for a miracle of our real recovery.The re-emergence of the child within.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You see, when you go through a dissociation crisis, a hard time, a moment of pain - there is always, and we do mean always, a breakthrough, a deep understanding on the other side.<br /><br /> <br /><br />And just past the breakthrough, the new awareness, the inevitable "aha moment" you've been searching for - comes the ignition of our child within.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We live in a world that specialises in evolving ignition.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We need not worry. We need not assume the worst.<br /><br /> <br /><br />But rather, make our aim to connect and contact our child within.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Instead of trying to make The world make sense, we release the need to know why things happen as they do and step into the trust that we are being guided in every moment by our beautiful child within.<br /><br /> <br /><br />And we choose to understand that the dissociation that we are going through now is preparing us for what our child within needs.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You are not being punished; you are being prepared.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Prepared for more KINDFULNESS.<br /><br />Prepared for more impact.<br /><br />Prepared to inspire change in others.<br /><br />Prepared for more awareness.<br /><br />Prepared for your recovery.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When we step out into the sweet unknown, we can release the thoughts of pending doom, or life falling apart.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We can choose to believe that when life falls apart, it's not over, but rather the energy is moving, changing, shifting to reflect the changes in our child withins communication.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We need not fear the changes but embrace them with a feeling of surrender that our Child within knows what's best for us.<br /><br /> <br /><br />And in doing so, we can begin to find peace within transition, we can bring meaning within loss and we can find recovery within our addiction.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You are being prepared.<br /><br /> <br /><br />What no longer serves you is being removed from your life, and new life and a new power is coming to you.<br /><br /> <br /><br />At first it won't make sense. But soon, you will know why things had to be the way they were.<br /><br /> <br /><br /> Don't stop you are a miracle in progress.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

A Dissociation Storm, as we call them

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At the ten stages we know You were born for a purpose.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyRjONAA-Jv5JDkG6uV6QBLFZSSS8xTlNEL-mOf-QdXAVhh7PE1Q658xbCe6PAjFM4fIywhDgsQ4cGmpoBK_0gFiDHiKzMe27oIbN2qi8j_XVCV9DXnoXlNcNiRGi3B5JMLYeZQLOGHlUG/s1600/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyRjONAA-Jv5JDkG6uV6QBLFZSSS8xTlNEL-mOf-QdXAVhh7PE1Q658xbCe6PAjFM4fIywhDgsQ4cGmpoBK_0gFiDHiKzMe27oIbN2qi8j_XVCV9DXnoXlNcNiRGi3B5JMLYeZQLOGHlUG/s320/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />At the ten stages we know You were born for a purpose. There is greatness within you. Life is waiting to support your gifts in greater ways than you can now imagine. All it requires is releasing your child within. <br /><br /> </span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

At the ten stages we know You were born for a purpose.

At the ten stages we know You were born for a purpose. There is greatness within you. Life is waiting to support your gifts in greater way...

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The thing is, in order to get the ten stages – it requires telling the truth

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4RpJ-S98VsUgfIxeSCjSy1iukbiAOdlyzYeWKOXR_LDW6m_qArnvHn4ow-yysnDzkVpfEll-LPXyxGhSyXstxaQAsEZuJp6JO-hemTo5N2RAEj24PoWhzBBIZrOk-cE84_99_wJd2B7J8/s1600/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4RpJ-S98VsUgfIxeSCjSy1iukbiAOdlyzYeWKOXR_LDW6m_qArnvHn4ow-yysnDzkVpfEll-LPXyxGhSyXstxaQAsEZuJp6JO-hemTo5N2RAEj24PoWhzBBIZrOk-cE84_99_wJd2B7J8/s320/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />The thing is, in order to get the ten stages – it requires telling the truth, a lot of the truth and nothing but the truth.<br /><br /><br /><br />You see… intuition intimacy is a byproduct of truth telling. <br /><br /> in order for us to go deeper, we’ve got to tell the truth. Not some BS cover-up story and not some kind of twisted truth intended to make the other person wrong.<br /><br />Just the simple truth about how my child within felt.<br /><br /><br />When we tell them this, they shouted out “BUT IF I DO THAT, THEY MIGHT FIND OUT!”<br /><br /><br />And we are stunned.<br /><br />They will find out I feel like a mess. They will find out I feel like a fraud. They will find out I’m imperfect and not worthy. Or so my mind says…<br /><br /><br /><br />We can’t believe the honesty and pure sincerity of our child within and we stuff down our responses and comment about sharing their truth with their child we have to dissociate.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />And I couldn’t help but dissociate because I've had the same fear.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />And then I wondered if it is a Universal fear? <br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />Like – do you ever worry about being “found out”?<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />Not that you committed some crime. But that you aren’t enough, that you are not worthy in some way, and perhaps that you are a mess.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />After hearing my child within share this powerful admission, I had a hunch that since my friend had it and I have it – that you might have it to.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />So here’s what I have to say.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />We're a mess sometimes.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />I'm a mess sometimes.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />And yet – you are also wise, so am I. You are also beautiful. You are also smart, strong, intelligent and worthy of Recovery.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />And yes – there are parts of you that you’re ashamed of. But here’s what’s so cool – when you let those parts out, things can change.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />That shame can turn into beauty and self-love.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />Someone can only love you in the direct proportion that you are willing to show yourself. Not your masks. Not who you think that you should be. But the real, honest – you.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />You want someone who loves your mess.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />Who loves your crazy.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />Who accepts you as you are, because they know that they are just as messy, crazy and feeling unworthy of love as you are.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />If we can all just admit this – and get on with it – we’d experience so much more love, joy, intimacy, and passion.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />When you are loved wholly for who you are with no changes, there is nothing that can be more healing. And when you can start to see yourself in this way –the whole game changes.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />It might not be permanent, but if you can have moments – then we are making a big stage step towards major progress.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br /> if you tell on yourself you’re off the hook and your child within is revealed..<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />If you just admit it, you can let it go, and you have no more secrets. We are, after all, only as sick as our secrets.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br />When you let go and admit it, accept that you have moments of being a mess and you share that feeling of feeling unworthy at times with the rest of us, then you can step into a larger, freer life.<br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /><br />Do you ever feel like you are going to be “found out”?</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The thing is, in order to get the ten stages – it requires telling the truth

The thing is, in order to get the ten stages – it requires telling the truth, a lot of the truth and nothing but the truth. You see… intui...

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Do you ever get mentally down on yourself?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJoGH5IDbZX8SRjmmL9IldPmu1gnzmtCZIILmGiuGzwdGtrm_mfl4s5jvAfK_aZLUrPTtYyN169pcRKwoMZ5DuwRBpGf7_KAMnNrseVWPNbSIlmMlP9XetwkMMjIDsg6ODRH7kNl8STIn7/s1600/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJoGH5IDbZX8SRjmmL9IldPmu1gnzmtCZIILmGiuGzwdGtrm_mfl4s5jvAfK_aZLUrPTtYyN169pcRKwoMZ5DuwRBpGf7_KAMnNrseVWPNbSIlmMlP9XetwkMMjIDsg6ODRH7kNl8STIn7/s320/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Do you ever get mentally down on yourself?<br /><br /> <br /><br />And by down on yourself I mean... you say things to yourself that you would never say to your worst enemy. <br /><br /> <br /><br />I know I have.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Sometimes, I can be the person who is the meanest to me. We can think that the critics of the world have mean stuff to say - but I think it's the inner critic that says to worst stuff about us. <br /><br /> <br /><br />Why? It's a defense mechanism.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It's a story we tell ourselves to prevent our greatness and our purpose. Our inner critic keeps us in jobs we hate, relationships that are toxic and earning less income that our potential.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Many times it's not the world "out there" that stops us, but the world "in here" - that inner self talk can crush your dreams, stop your purpose and make you withdrawal into a smaller version of your life than you intended.<br /><br /> <br /><br />But, there's a way out.<br /><br /> <br /><br />And it's not through a bunch of meaningless affirmations that you say to yourself to get a temporary boost. Or a green juice. Or a pair of fancy yoga pants. <br /><br /> <br /><br />There's a real - grounded way - the make peace with your inner adult critic, its the Ten Stages that lets your child within out of its basement of discontent.</span><br /> <div style="background-color: white; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <br /></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Do you ever get mentally down on yourself?

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There's one thing we've got to do before we get started with the rest of our day

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZlt9K03bT2cJbnfUDfF6OBfWDpQHJYGwAQMS-GCNxduDxcm1ERe9iNRQ2u9Y333eZeAiEdArHsL8k18-txCDEsW78JqlxDqY8UPaBGAoEFL9Asec9cVFQ9Yzbz08t_QwgShDh9WE-57gU/s1600/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZlt9K03bT2cJbnfUDfF6OBfWDpQHJYGwAQMS-GCNxduDxcm1ERe9iNRQ2u9Y333eZeAiEdArHsL8k18-txCDEsW78JqlxDqY8UPaBGAoEFL9Asec9cVFQ9Yzbz08t_QwgShDh9WE-57gU/s320/truth+trust+consent45.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />There's one thing we've got to do before we get started with the rest of our day...<br /><br /> <br /><br />Remember to stay connected to who we are! The Child Within<br /><br /> <br /><br />What’s that mean? It means to remember that at our centre we are KINDFULNESS, abundance, and joy.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We have come here not to be needy and take, but to be full and give away to the world from that place of fullness our child within.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When you remember who you are, the desire to chase, to grasp and to yearn stops. You remember that you have a child within...Did you forget to remember this?.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You remember that one of the great promises of Life is that you will be provided for as you walk along the path of your recovery. your intuitive voice guides you.<br /><br /> <br /><br />The fearful mind calms and the mind full of Recovery emerges. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You remember that you are enough as you are and that nothing can prove otherwise, other than your own admission that you are less than who you really are. When you remember who you really are, you surround yourself with kindful people. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You bask in the fellowship of the children within and no longer accept or tolerate abuse and hate.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You pull back from judging others and instead keep your eyes on KINDFULNESS and purifying your own desires and intentions.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You line up your thoughts with your recovery and then the actions and the fruits of recovery naturally follow. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You let go of the need to control and let The Child Within fill in the gaps, because The Child is very intelligent and knows what you need even more than you do.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When you remember who you really are, you Love yourself and your Child enough to take care of your body with healthy foods, exercise, yoga and breath. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You Love your mind enough to not let it run the show, and instead make time for meditation to calm it down so your Love and Spirit shine through. When you remember who you are, you embrace challenge and catastrophe with acceptance rather than disdain.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You know that with the Light comes the Dark and that both are needed in the dance of Life.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When you remember who you are, you are attractive to those who believe what you believe. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You don’t see rejection as bad, but rather as a sorting device keeping unhealthy matches away from you.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You naturally and effortlessly find recovery because you already embody It.When you remember who you are, life ceases to become difficult and transforms into an adventure you can’t wait to take.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When you remember who you are, you live your life following your child so that when you get to the end, you say: “What a ride!” instead of wondering, “What if I had…?”<br /><br /> <br /><br />Remember who you really are today .<br /><br /> <br /><br />Get out there - take action, and make it real!</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

There's one thing we've got to do before we get started with the rest of our day

There's one thing we've got to do before we get started with the rest of our day... Remember to stay connected to who we are! ...

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Intuition is not some special divine skill reserved for the spiritual masters.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhr3JdXuT5ucGpnWMb4GW-iOWWGQjqwTI6W4zIZ0NH4MVRvh_Ke128w_sIPh2DJI9xVtgyfFJbgz2T2Djc495oR2SjQlxK2HphyphenhyphenGANjjdbEgh0PU4sVVKAzdeI-D3VmtA5w_iu9F3drUho/s1600/dissdiscovery.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="120" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhr3JdXuT5ucGpnWMb4GW-iOWWGQjqwTI6W4zIZ0NH4MVRvh_Ke128w_sIPh2DJI9xVtgyfFJbgz2T2Djc495oR2SjQlxK2HphyphenhyphenGANjjdbEgh0PU4sVVKAzdeI-D3VmtA5w_iu9F3drUho/s320/dissdiscovery.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Intuition is not some special divine skill reserved for the spiritual masters. And, it's not something that you get when you only drink green juice. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You have it now buried inside yourself. It's time to follow it and bring it to life. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You're best life is waiting in the freedom of the ten stages. <br /><br /> </span><br /> <div style="background-color: white; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "georgia"; font-size: 12pt;">Remember to get out there, take action & make it real. </span></div> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Intuition is not some special divine skill reserved for the spiritual masters.

Intuition is not some special divine skill reserved for the spiritual masters. And, it's not something that you get when you only drin...

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Today, we want to re-iterate our passion for intuition and share with us how powerful this still small determined voice really is.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwGH81aC4NIX7dqiFiqnATfKZYy_6liiV5LD-Vx9ydVPwBetfQFw5aOuJDqczBQqquHAWjX_4ZNPImdf-45PZN4cEQ-hHADnThxQXe8D0x5kcdVlbbNZORwlO4x4FbcSx5nuNFJSfhZxI/s1600/1-11050822_597090743761003_8908973908707265896_n-001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="284" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwGH81aC4NIX7dqiFiqnATfKZYy_6liiV5LD-Vx9ydVPwBetfQFw5aOuJDqczBQqquHAWjX_4ZNPImdf-45PZN4cEQ-hHADnThxQXe8D0x5kcdVlbbNZORwlO4x4FbcSx5nuNFJSfhZxI/s320/1-11050822_597090743761003_8908973908707265896_n-001.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />We are wise.<br /><br />We already know.<br /><br />We have all the answers right within us.<br /><br />Right... now. <br /><br /> <br /><br /> Talking about our passion for the intuition and how much following our intuition contributes to our ongoing recovery in the ten stages. <br /><br /> <br /><br />Today, we want to re-iterate our passion for intuition and share with us how powerful this still small determined voice really is. <br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /> <br /><br />we'll be teaching you what we have learned about intuition.<br /><br />We have some words we want to share with you today about the power of your intuition.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Rumi said it best, "You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life?” <br /><br /> <br /><br />The wings he is referring to is our intuition.<br /><br /> <br /><br />You have direct access to your child within because it speaks to you through your intuitive voice. <br /><br /> <br /><br />The voice of your intuition is the voice of your child within whispering in the dark and sometimes it is not logical. It makes no sense. It will ask you to do things that are outside of your comfort zone, that go against the status quo and things that might freak out your family. <br /><br /> <br /><br />Your intuition will cause you to go against the grain of our ancestral voices. To feel left out and to go on an epic spiritual quest to find your purpose. <br /><br /> <br /><br />And when you arrive at the destiny of your purpose. Your intuition will get the credit for showing you the way, one foggy, scary step at a time. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You see, your intuition is literally your child within talking to you.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It's your Consciousness trying to get your attention, to guide you. <br /><br /> <br /><br />And, this Intelligence is wiser than you are and is connected to all time and space. It knows past, present and future. <br /><br /> <br /><br />So, when you are guided by your child within, you are being guided by a force that knows where you're headed. It can see 100 steps ahead. It sees how all the seeming "random" moments of your life are actually conspiring for your greatest good, even the moments where you feel like you're getting kicked in the teeth by life. <br /><br /> <br /><br />It's all a conspiracy for your benefit. <br /><br /> <br /><br />But, if you let irrational fear, which we call parental patterns, stop you from following your intuition - you get stuck, and your life shrivels up. <br /><br /> <br /><br />And then you get resigned that this is how it will always be. <br /><br /> <br /><br />But that intuitive voice never stops speaking. No amount of food, drugs or sex can numb it. <br /><br /> <br /><br />It remains, calling you into the foggy uncertainty of faith in the child hidden within. <br /><br /> <br /><br />And the day will come where taking the leap out into the unknown will be your only next stage. <br /><br /> <br /><br />You do not need to be stubborn. You can relax and tap into your intuitive voice. You can find it. You can follow it.Using the Ten Stages</span><div style="background-color: white; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <br /></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Today, we want to re-iterate our passion for intuition and share with us how powerful this still small determined voice really is.

We are wise. We already know. We have all the answers right within us. Right... now.  Talking about our passion for the intuition and how...

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leave a comment and change someone's life today.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaVvxrMS-RXaeQPv868YhFUWcxn2swnHEAcn_Ze5YeEcTta8W7H0pJdMmT13wlvjLhFJeQjr7YRkLYWF9qqXpxCQ410eGlcnUUOzUXvlXCS3GxiDGPqupRK4gSZV7EssoboFmEiDN7qRQG/s1600/Ten+Stages+Bannr56.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="39" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaVvxrMS-RXaeQPv868YhFUWcxn2swnHEAcn_Ze5YeEcTta8W7H0pJdMmT13wlvjLhFJeQjr7YRkLYWF9qqXpxCQ410eGlcnUUOzUXvlXCS3GxiDGPqupRK4gSZV7EssoboFmEiDN7qRQG/s320/Ten+Stages+Bannr56.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <br /><br />L<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">eave a comment on the blog or on facebook ten stages and let us know how you are going to turn the haters into your cheering squad. Let me know how you are going to be courageous in the face of other people (and sometimes those people you love) not approving of your choices. <br /><br /> <br /><br />And - if you've had success choosing your own path, leave a comment and let us know how you did it - we all need help believing in ourselves, so don't be shy - leave a comment and change someone's life today. <br /><br /><br /></span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

leave a comment and change someone's life today.

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The New Ten Stages includes dissociation discovery

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiutOa3erTXPXOwi6d-e5y9gg4Qir55UOhmFO55mz5kHyVdww6OWrupzD_77m2BGIwx-j_pzDEFk1GOhuVBeVovllrH5DQOpu_LfuhjmtFXXV4unkWxIKhgdwNgjxirO6nNdG-UEm3tvn0i/s1600/FotorCreatedthenew10.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="106" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiutOa3erTXPXOwi6d-e5y9gg4Qir55UOhmFO55mz5kHyVdww6OWrupzD_77m2BGIwx-j_pzDEFk1GOhuVBeVovllrH5DQOpu_LfuhjmtFXXV4unkWxIKhgdwNgjxirO6nNdG-UEm3tvn0i/s320/FotorCreatedthenew10.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The New Ten Stages includes dissociation discovery</span></div> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The New Ten Stages includes dissociation discovery

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The New Ten Stages with dissociation updates.

<div class="zemanta-img" style="text-align: left;"> <div class="zemanta-img"> </div> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifIONRq6FjlfsMxLJCorP83Bz3Fv7wfb_K-iFuAP8_VXWIe9uJGqvD1p7Re55UpgZylwjeWo6nfmEYiQiSBbwN9S-EDSo3aqvCcvSA_XehR-cX1En24Y33KquelwhSnFlehWwHzoprqn5i/s1600/Sierra_Nevada_%2528Spain%2529.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifIONRq6FjlfsMxLJCorP83Bz3Fv7wfb_K-iFuAP8_VXWIe9uJGqvD1p7Re55UpgZylwjeWo6nfmEYiQiSBbwN9S-EDSo3aqvCcvSA_XehR-cX1En24Y33KquelwhSnFlehWwHzoprqn5i/s320/Sierra_Nevada_%2528Spain%2529.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The New Ten Stages with dissociation updates.<br /><br />Thank You to all our new subscribers.We have just achieved the 110,000 visitor number, and have seen our numbers constantly healthily grow. We are the first international course recovery group that has seen this growth and look forward to our annual convention, one of our number has just returned from the depths of The Sierra Nevada scouting out new meditation opportunities and after an exhaustive tour he has found a wonderful venue. We will be extending our course work into Kindfulness and Compassion. Our course is highly successful and we are looking for a tour date in November our outdoor program we have the fully extended range of our new communication program Intulexia course in the high sierras. Walking boots and 4x4.<br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The New Ten Stages with dissociation updates.

The New Ten Stages with dissociation updates. Thank You to all our new subscribers.We have just achieved the 110,000 visitor number, a...

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This is the line of inquiry that I think happens in a child's mind

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-lTgrHUOx5jMJJR8kP0DJRnGvTpcv1SyBWJxHsRIl_ZSZh-DDiJ1Yy2C4UyksUrj3PTZ0430exiHKIeKCmp9iL6Fs8Ln1XN9KN14WJTK8cbYSxsSsgGKhy-AQcNpHfsEOZz2m_ajV-MuC/s1600/12294920_368661629924552_6375742098886046909_n.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-lTgrHUOx5jMJJR8kP0DJRnGvTpcv1SyBWJxHsRIl_ZSZh-DDiJ1Yy2C4UyksUrj3PTZ0430exiHKIeKCmp9iL6Fs8Ln1XN9KN14WJTK8cbYSxsSsgGKhy-AQcNpHfsEOZz2m_ajV-MuC/s320/12294920_368661629924552_6375742098886046909_n.png" width="242" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />"I began to ask two questions while I was reading a book that excited me: not only what was going to happen next, but how is this done? How is it that these words on the page make me feel the way I'm feeling? This is the line of inquiry that I think happens in a child's mind, without him even knowing he has aspirations as a writer." - EL Doctorow</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages<br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/06/every-30-years-or-so-in-recovery-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346249287_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; 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This is the line of inquiry that I think happens in a child's mind

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