You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiegFWE5e6JIZ-hWbgbYT9nzDgIm7E3e-Vq2St48tnKkYDWmMOs1xs2Ze2YTjtmMLMZUwY9PWCVSMvQW8-gtRiwjnaYhkUBPQ1eaOMiwLHAvJ3sE19Bku9bPSNphaQJUegAea9ycMcRXYM8/s1600/the_child_within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiegFWE5e6JIZ-hWbgbYT9nzDgIm7E3e-Vq2St48tnKkYDWmMOs1xs2Ze2YTjtmMLMZUwY9PWCVSMvQW8-gtRiwjnaYhkUBPQ1eaOMiwLHAvJ3sE19Bku9bPSNphaQJUegAea9ycMcRXYM8/s320/the_child_within.jpg" width="307" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">These are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to make an experiment with themselves. You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within. All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works. Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> 1. Our child within is alive, always has been and always will be. 2. Child within is perfect knows everything. 3. Child within can do anything. 4. Child within can be everywhere - all at the same time. (These are the important differences between child within and us manufactured human beings). 5. The child within is invisible-we can’t see or touch our child. But our child is here, is with you now, is beside you, surrounds you, fills the room or the whole place where you are now, is in you now, in your heart. 6. Child cares very much for you, is interested in you, has a plan for your life, has an answer for every need and problem you face. 7. Our Child Within will tell you all that you need to know, will not always tell you all that you want to know. 8. Child will help you do anything that it asks you to do. 9. Anyone can be in touch with our child within, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed. </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">These are the conditions: - To be quiet and still - To listen - To be honest about every thought that comes - To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from our child within - To obey So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to our child within: </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">1. Take Time Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil. 2. Relax Sit in a comfortable position. Consciously relax all your muscles. Be loose. There is no hurry. There needs to be no strain during these minutes. our child cannot get through to us if we are tense and anxious about later responsibilities. 3. Tune In Open your heart to your child within. Either silently or aloud, just say to your child in a natural way that you would like to find a plan for your life-you want an answer to the problem or situation that you are facing just now. Be definite and specific in your request. 4. Listen Just be still, quiet, relaxed and open. Let your mind go “loose.” Let your child within do the talking. Thoughts, ideas, and impressions will begin to come into your mind and heart. Be alert and aware and open to every one. 5. Write! Here is the important key to the whole process. Write down everything that comes into your mind. Everything. Writing is simply a means of recording so that you can remember later. Don’t sort out or edit your thoughts at this point. Don’t say to yourself: This thought isn’t important; This is just an ordinary thought; This can’t be guidance; This isn’t nice; This can’t be from my child; This is just me thinking…., etc. Write down everything that passes through your mind: Names of people; Things to do; Things to say; Things that are wrong and need to be made right. Write down everything: Good thoughts - bad thoughts; Comfortable thoughts - uncomfortable thoughts; thoughts of thoughts; Sensible thoughts - “crazy” thoughts. Be honest! Write down everything! A thought comes quickly, and it escapes even more quickly unless it is captured and put down. 6. Test When the flow of thoughts slows down, stop. Take a good look at what you have written. Not every thought we have comes from our child. So we need to test our thoughts. Here is where the written record helps us to be able to look at them. a) Are these thoughts completely honest, pure, unselfish and loving? b) Are these thoughts in line with our child within c) Are these thoughts in line with our understanding 7. Check When in doubt and when it is important, what does another person who is communicating with a child within think about this thought or action? More light comes in through two windows than one. Someone else who also wants the child withins plan for our lives may help us to see more clearly. Talk over together what you have written. Many people do this. They tell each other what guidance has come. This is the secret of unity. There are always three sides to every question-your side, my side, and the right side. Guidance shows us which is the right side-not who is right, but what is right. 8. Obey Carry out the thoughts that have come. You will only be sure of guidance as you go through it. A rudder will not guide a boat until the boat is moving. As you obey, very often the results will convince you that you are on the right track. 9. Blocks? What if I don’t seem to get any definite thoughts? Guidance is as freely available as the air we breathe. If I am not receiving thoughts when I listen, the fault is not our child within. Usually it is because there is something I will not do: - something wrong in my life that I will not face and make right; - a habit or indulgence I will not give up. - a person I will not forgive; - a wrong relationship in my life I will not give up; - a restitution I will not make; - something my intuitive voice has already told me to do that I will not obey. Check these points and be honest. Then try listening again. 10. Mistakes Supposing I make a mistake and do something of my intuitive voice that isn’t right? Of course we make mistakes? We are humans with many faults. However, our child within will always honour our sincerity. will work around and through every honest mistake we make, will help us make it right. But remember this! Sometimes when we do obey our child within, someone else may not like it or agree with it. So when there is opposition, it doesn’t always mean you have made a mistake. It can mean that the other person doesn’t want to know or to do what is right. Supposing I fail to do something that I have been told and the opportunity to do it passes? There is only one thing to do. Put it right with our child within. Tell you’re sorry. Ask for understanding , then accept </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">that awakening and begin again. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our child within is not an impersonal computer, understanding us far better than we do. 11. Results? We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds a new wisdom, not of their own, which comes into their minds and that the power and authority greater than human power begins to operate in their lives.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with their child within, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfil the conditions of contact. When we listen, child within speaks. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When we obeys our inner intuitive voice, our child acts. This is meditation. Our Child withins plan for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to listen to their intuitive voice.</span></div> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within.

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The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each of us have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiylBBOTMFY0QMLDCkQhP_lhLvU4GpK9RU9VDDhnDWgaVgi1fIh_WahifHaeyUmLnWxXINk_qlVXJiubNg0C5HuoP2RpUWcpluRACMwzvfDx1xBYnkBNrcFy8-9Qfi_WiBEu4j36mBAjkau/s1600/578803_163768017080582_265724398_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiylBBOTMFY0QMLDCkQhP_lhLvU4GpK9RU9VDDhnDWgaVgi1fIh_WahifHaeyUmLnWxXINk_qlVXJiubNg0C5HuoP2RpUWcpluRACMwzvfDx1xBYnkBNrcFy8-9Qfi_WiBEu4j36mBAjkau/s320/578803_163768017080582_265724398_n.jpg" width="295" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each of us have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey and returning whence we originally came from expedites our true recovery. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Experience has taught us that all the answers to life are within the ten stages point us in this direction. Ultimately it is up to us to recover our child within. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The struggle and the responsibility are ours, and ours alone. Our </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> program of recovery, rests on our experience that unresolved traumas from childhood block our connection with our true self, the child within. Where we remain traumatised we act out unconsciously and destructively in any number of ways, according to the templates of our traumatised past. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We recover by resolving these traumas. This recovery connects us to the river of truth that runs through all things, frees our deeper gifts, and opens us up to our life’s purpose. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">These ten stages</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> are a universal pathway to healing our ancient emotional trauma. They lead us out of the darkness of our unconscious lives and into the enlightenment of our full conscious connection with our personal truth. They are the backbone of the recovery process, but like a backbone they are flexible. They are suggestions, not the law, and they strive only to guide us within. Ultimately we need not trust anyone else’s words, platform, or methods; our own inner template provides the best map of all. Recovery is complex. Our traumas tangled us up, and at times our growth process reflects these tangles. Some facets of our personality can be awakened while other parts remain buried and traumatised. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Grieving, a process necessary for restoring the true self, often has a life of its own. For these reasons, we can work one stage at a time, or we can work several at once. We can repeat several early stages before moving on to an advanced one, or we can repeat several advanced stages before returning to an earlier one. If recovery were simple and linear everyone would be long since recovered. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The ten stages is intended to help us make sense of the recovery</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> process, to understand its dynamics, and to apply this to our lives. Our goal is to awaken, and we hope these stages, and the wisdom they contain, helps you move closer closer.</span><br /> <div> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

The Ten Stages are based on the principle that we each of us have the capacity to be our own guide on life’s journey

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In our storylines, we come to conclusions about ourselves and our world and make judgments about who we are, about whether or not our needs and feelings are OK or not.

<blockquote class="tr_bq"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHjxQ6rLA_HpqInrQ6DMZ_ljz7fF_lsidtaZx5n0ZS-6VGLXMEhA-tjA14b1AK6ZShgDgmq8duskpgKx5YOyNl6oCT2Jf_791HcAamcqOvhVvYJmUH06RCbg-fcZBa_bF4VTFMm7eXXjii/s1600/gdchild+within.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="167" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHjxQ6rLA_HpqInrQ6DMZ_ljz7fF_lsidtaZx5n0ZS-6VGLXMEhA-tjA14b1AK6ZShgDgmq8duskpgKx5YOyNl6oCT2Jf_791HcAamcqOvhVvYJmUH06RCbg-fcZBa_bF4VTFMm7eXXjii/s200/gdchild+within.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Awareness is that part of us that perceives, observes and witnesses our thoughts, feelings, behaviours and body—the clothing awareness puts on—and we need to discover what is underneath. We need to realise that awareness lives at the innermost core of our being. When our awareness is in the present moment, we’re in touch with who we really are, with our very essence.<br />Being in the present is being one with each heartbeat, each in-breath, each out-breath, from moment to moment…We only have our next breath, our next heartbeat, or we would not exist.<br />The past and future are only concepts, we only have the now…<br />What prevents us from being in the present moment?<br />Our reactive thinking prevents us from being in the present moment. From our earliest life encounters, our reactive thoughts create storylines about our experiences. We bring our cognitive and emotional development as a five-year-old to our experiences of parents, family, love, safety and fear.<br />In our storylines, we come to conclusions about ourselves and our world and make judgments about who we are, about whether or not our needs and feelings are OK or not. These storylines remain with us through adolescence and into adulthood. Throughout our life we add storylines and pile them one on top of the other. Our inner critic is an outgrowth of the conclusions we reach about who we are.<br />We are not our thoughts. We are not our storylines.<br />Our reactive thoughts create stress, fears and anxieties, our inner critic is a testimonial to this reactive-thinking, storyline-created life. Our reactive thinking creates suffering. Up to 85 percent of our life is spent in reactive thinking, either rehashing the past or rehearsing the future. We are incomplete, never good enough, always striving for completion.<br />Being in the present moment.<br />When our awareness is in the present, we are no longer scattered, we are at one with ourselves in the moment. We are at home with our essence. We are the witnessing, observing awareness of our thoughts and feelings, our doubts, our fears and suffering. Our thoughts reflect an insightfulness, creativity and wisdom far beyond anything that our reactive thinking can imagine. We move from a life of doing to a life of being who we are, being at one with ourselves in the present moment.</span></blockquote> <br />The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</blockquote>

In our storylines, we come to conclusions about ourselves and our world and make judgments about who we are, about whether or not our needs and feelings are OK or not.

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To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjD0IW8CojzEKLDvNk5LkprAMuTgoL1eDIVM4RZjrMqSvyMd8XKw-lr8jO2bH5lmYaAljHCj4VpGdhY9FBsTEjt2AEW2_woHtEupPg0lNI6-AITy5aK6r4QmcSmoUKQZwkF2TY_kQkPFaeh/s1600/Connected89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjD0IW8CojzEKLDvNk5LkprAMuTgoL1eDIVM4RZjrMqSvyMd8XKw-lr8jO2bH5lmYaAljHCj4VpGdhY9FBsTEjt2AEW2_woHtEupPg0lNI6-AITy5aK6r4QmcSmoUKQZwkF2TY_kQkPFaeh/s320/Connected89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness. We must develop a feeling of "I" that is different from the one we have now. We all have the experience of constant chatter in our heads. We are always thinking something, responding to something, imagining something. We say "I" to each activity in our mind: "I hate this . . . I am this . . . I want this." But this flood of constant response and talk in our brain is nothing more than life acting on our personality and our personality responding to it. We can form in ourselves, in our own child within, a little bit of awareness that can stand back from that torrent of thought and activity and simply see -- without response to it, without judgement or justification</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

To start our ten stage recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness.

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As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkIll5owWKth2wbyzp26RtpKtaLfpzczT-aomgtMptjRtSK7p-0owdMyZJ6l6NSACQ_5JRqDj1GL55fgl6Nyv7idpyjCXFbt5POMPOWYVTAlohkNMZBq5UU4LYk1E0LnQ8_8evjjhhzwoU/s1600/did63.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkIll5owWKth2wbyzp26RtpKtaLfpzczT-aomgtMptjRtSK7p-0owdMyZJ6l6NSACQ_5JRqDj1GL55fgl6Nyv7idpyjCXFbt5POMPOWYVTAlohkNMZBq5UU4LYk1E0LnQ8_8evjjhhzwoU/s320/did63.jpg" width="224" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within it becomes a lonely path.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We must leave much behind, including conventional friends and limited family members. We must also leave behind old definitions of self, constructed and endorsed by the culture. This too is a great loss.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">As outgrown, external structure collapses, our child within has a chance to emerge. But this child within is tested to be true. Can it hold our developing and authentic, sense of self? Can we shun the noise of the world and its claims of authority in our lives to listen to the subtle voice of truth at our core? Can we stake our claim in an internal identity, apart from the seductive allure of the external world and the majority that conforms to it? Can we live from within as the outer world shouts its outrage at our defiance of its supremacy?</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">It takes great courage to live from within and out of our core of truth our child within. And the transition from outer definition to inner truth is a lonely path that few travel. That’s why it’s good to listen in quiet reflection to the voice of truth that whispers encouraging words and reassuring support that we are actually not alone at all—but surrounded by universal forces that delight in our daring venture to live out of what’s best in us and best in all reality. With that realisation, even during what feels like our loneliness moment, we see we are not alone, but with the best company of all—our true self and the forces of nature and the universe that delight in our being true.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within

As we start to transition from the outer definition that of the shadow self back to our child within it becomes a lonely path. We must lea...

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Staying connected to who you really are!

<div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3JhA0GqClfV56-wAL1DP4qQQV8MPG0vGmrfgdXr9F_LlUPeE7IvWzJMDJn6dmshnyoqWolHywjMnIhXCqmV49kUCrh2fzBuLZVS4PSrh9nfwgj8NPRns3joe_Asm7f-ZIBW9CObyKdlT6/s1600/Connected89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3JhA0GqClfV56-wAL1DP4qQQV8MPG0vGmrfgdXr9F_LlUPeE7IvWzJMDJn6dmshnyoqWolHywjMnIhXCqmV49kUCrh2fzBuLZVS4PSrh9nfwgj8NPRns3joe_Asm7f-ZIBW9CObyKdlT6/s320/Connected89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Staying connected to who you really are!</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">What's that mean?</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">It means to remember that you are a child within looking out. You have come here not to be needy and take, but to be full and give away to the world from that place of fullness.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, the desire to chase, to grasp and to yearn stops. You remember that you are a child within and were created to fulfil a very special purpose.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You remember that one of the great promises of recovery is that you will be provided for as you walk along the path of your child within. The fearful mind calms and the mind full of Faith emerges.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You remember that you are enough as you are and that nothing can prove otherwise, other than your own admission that you are less than who you really are.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you really are, you surround yourself with <span class="il">loving</span> people. You bask in your recovery and no longer accept or tolerate abuse and hate.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You pull back from judging others and instead keep your eyes on your child within purifying your own desires and intentions.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">You line up your thoughts with your child's and then the actions and the fruits of  recovery naturally follow. You let go of the need to control and let your intuitive voice fill in the gaps, because our child within is super intelligent and knows what you need even more than you do.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you really are, you recover yourself and your intuitive voice enough to take care of your body with healthy foods, exercise, yoga and breath. You recover your mind enough to not let it run the show, and instead make time for meditation to calm it down so your Child Within shines through.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, you embrace challenge and catastrophe with acceptance rather than disdain. You know that with the Light comes the Dark and that both are needed in the dance of Life.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, you are attractive to those who believe what you believe. You don't see rejection as bad, but rather as a sorting device keeping unhealthy matches away from you. You naturally and effortlessly find <span class="il">Love</span> because you already embody It.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, life ceases to become difficult and transforms into an adventure you can't wait to take.</span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <br /> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> </div> <br /> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #0b175f; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"> <div style="margin: 0px;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When you remember who you are, you live your life following your Heart so that when you get to the end, you say: "What a ride!" instead of wondering, "What if I had...?"</span></div> </div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

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Here are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to have an experiment with themselves.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivXKT2HQO9jALWJH1mHkL0Uh6-LWTnUHkp6rl7AOnWa4lx8SwjgNS2Me0fcwz1QufFlWW7D0CevwtvpI5BkgPwbe4anGNtuvzPW3RtDLxCJATuuiizGcuQEvMR8wVuGzzIg_uwPwzgstBS/s1600/10411058_876657455685464_3492310646841484710_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivXKT2HQO9jALWJH1mHkL0Uh6-LWTnUHkp6rl7AOnWa4lx8SwjgNS2Me0fcwz1QufFlWW7D0CevwtvpI5BkgPwbe4anGNtuvzPW3RtDLxCJATuuiizGcuQEvMR8wVuGzzIg_uwPwzgstBS/s320/10411058_876657455685464_3492310646841484710_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Here are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to have an experiment with themselves. You can discover for yourself the most important and practical thing any human being can ever learn-how to be in touch with your child within. All that is needed is the willingness to try it honestly. Every person who has done this consistently and sincerely has found that it really works.</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> Before you begin, look over these fundamental points. They are true and are based on the experience of thousands of people.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> 1. Our child within is alive, always has been and always will be. 2. Child within is perfect knows everything. 3. Child within can do anything. 4. Child within can be everywhere - all at the same time. (These are the important differences between child within and us manufactured human beings). 5. The child within is invisible-we can’t see or touch our child. But our child is here, is with you now, is beside you, surrounds you, fills the room or the whole place where you are now, is in you now, in your heart. 6. Child cares very much for you, is interested in you, has a plan for your life, has an answer for every need and problem you face. 7. Our Child Within will tell you all that you need to know, will not always tell you all that you want to know. 8. Child will help you do anything that it asks you to do. 9. Anyone can be in touch with our child within, anywhere and at any time, if the conditions are obeyed. These are the conditions: - To be quiet and still - To listen - To be honest about every thought that comes - To test the thoughts to be sure that they come from our child within - To obey So, with these basic elements as a background, here are specific suggestions on how to listen to our child within:</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> 1. Take Time Find some place and time where you can be alone, quiet and undisturbed. Most people have found that the early morning is the best time. Have with you some paper and pen or pencil. 2. Relax Sit in a comfortable position. Consciously relax all your muscles. Be loose. There is no hurry. There needs to be no strain during these minutes. our child cannot get through to us if we are tense and anxious about later responsibilities. 3. Tune In Open your heart to your child within. Either silently or aloud, just say to your child in a natural way that you would like to find a plan for your life-you want an answer to the problem or situation that you are facing just now. Be definite and specific in your request. 4. Listen Just be still, quiet, relaxed and open. Let your mind go “loose.” Let your child within do the talking. Thoughts, ideas, and impressions will begin to come into your mind and heart. Be alert and aware and open to every one. 5. Write! Here is the important key to the whole process. Write down everything that comes into your mind. Everything. Writing is simply a means of recording so that you can remember later. Don’t sort out or edit your thoughts at this point. Don’t say to yourself: This thought isn’t important; This is just an ordinary thought; This can’t be guidance; This isn’t nice; This can’t be from my child; This is just me thinking…., etc. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Write down everything that passes through your mind: Names of people; Things to do; Things to say; Things that are wrong and need to be made right. Write down everything: Good thoughts - bad thoughts; Comfortable thoughts - uncomfortable thoughts; thoughts of thoughts; Sensible thoughts - “crazy” thoughts. Be honest! Write down everything! A thought comes quickly, and it escapes even more quickly unless it is captured and put down. 6. Test When the flow of thoughts slows down, stop. Take a good look at what you have written. Not every thought we have comes from our child. So we need to test our thoughts. Here is where the written record helps us to be able to look at them. a) Are these thoughts completely honest, pure, unselfish and loving? b) Are these thoughts in line with our child within c) Are these thoughts in line with our understanding 7. Check When in doubt and when it is important, what does another person who is communicating with a child within think about this thought or action? More light comes in through two windows than one. Someone else who also wants the child withins plan for our lives may help us to see more clearly. Talk over together what you have written. Many people do this. They tell each other what guidance has come. This is the secret of unity. There are always three sides to every question-your side, my side, and the right side. Guidance shows us which is the right side-not who is right, but what is right. 8. Obey Carry out the thoughts that have come. You will only be sure of guidance as you go through it. A rudder will not guide a boat until the boat is moving. As you obey, very often the results will convince you that you are on the right track. 9. Blocks? What if I don’t seem to get any definite thoughts? Guidance is as freely available as the air we breathe. If I am not receiving thoughts when I listen, the fault is not our child within. Usually it is because there is something I will not do: - something wrong in my life that I will not face and make right; - a habit or indulgence I will not give up. - a person I will not forgive; - a wrong relationship in my life I will not give up; - a restitution I will not make; - something my intuitive voice has already told me to do that I will not obey. Check these points and be honest. Then try listening again. 10. Mistakes Supposing I make a mistake and do something of my intuitive voice that isn’t right? Of course we make mistakes? We are humans with many faults. However, our child within will always honour our sincerity. will work around and through every honest mistake we make, will help us make it right. But remember this! Sometimes when we do obey our child within, someone else may not like it or agree with it. So when there is opposition, it doesn’t always mean you have made a mistake. It can mean that the other person doesn’t want to know or to do what is right. Supposing I fail to do something that I have been told and the opportunity to do it passes? There is only one thing to do. Put it right with God. Tell Him you’re sorry. Ask Him to forgive you, then accept His forgiveness and begin again. Our child within is not an impersonal computer, understanding us far better than we do. 11. Results? We never know what swimming is like until we get down into the water and try. We will never know what it is like until we sincerely try it. Every person who has tried this honestly finds a wisdom, not their own, comes into their minds and that a Power greater than human power begins to operate in their lives. It is an endless adventure. There is a way of life, for everyone, everywhere. Anyone can be in touch with their child within, anywhere, anytime, if we fulfil the conditions of contact. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">When we listen, child within speaks. When we obeys our inner voice, our child acts. This is meditation. Our Child withins plan for this world goes forward through the lives of ordinary people who are willing to listen to their intuitive voice.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

Here are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to have an experiment with themselves.

Here are a few simple suggestions for people who are willing to have an experiment with themselves. You can discover for yourself the most...

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Who you are, is something much grander that what you see when you look in the mirror.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwOSGkDVkPb3Ley4NozKl1BfeIr0_UGnQ5a0KGEvfzwdpFtZMfmkjedmjrFv0hogSlKHaz91SjgK4WjcY8OzNx8AdB9CjMWplk-XN5ARK6BO1L8iOQ6zDGcJUXIq13sT04ww6Zp_yx4Lrx/s1600/assign89.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwOSGkDVkPb3Ley4NozKl1BfeIr0_UGnQ5a0KGEvfzwdpFtZMfmkjedmjrFv0hogSlKHaz91SjgK4WjcY8OzNx8AdB9CjMWplk-XN5ARK6BO1L8iOQ6zDGcJUXIq13sT04ww6Zp_yx4Lrx/s320/assign89.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Consciousness is something fundamental to nature - it is stitched into the very fabric of reality. The brain receives and processes consciousness. Who you are, is something much grander that what you see when you look in the mirror.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Consciousness transcends time and space. Funnily enough, science is arriving at the same conclusion when examining the subatomic world.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Recent experiments in quantum physics show us that the universe is interconnected. The technical term is entanglement. The basic idea is that if two particles have been connected then they remain connected no matter how far apart they might be. With a certain class of particles, known as fermions, no two can be in the same state in the entire universe.</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Here’s something that will blow your mind: when you think a thought you affect the fermions in your brain. In some weird way the entire universe has to agree with you, in that every fermion (and there’s about 1080 in the universe) has to take the state of the ones in your brain into account. Everything is connected!</span><br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Yes, the universe hears you!! It hears your wishes, your desires, your hopes and your dreams, and even your thoughts about yourself. That is a fact!!</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Who you are, is something much grander that what you see when you look in the mirror.

Consciousness is something fundamental to nature - it is stitched into the very fabric of reality. The brain receives and processes consci...

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Positive Healthy Recovery Growth our worldwide membership is growing larger by the moment filling our students with a positive message exploding the myths of the roots of addiction

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg88y9AlYw2NdEvgQhVdnN1kJBRtjd13KisaT2SBTyO7ie6RrTkKy8p45equm_Ac8xy5EQrbPT9TRZ4WZYGRFth3GzFnfBfnO_pdT3ICsZYF9pIGb3_OO_wLQktQbtL8BDn6FD4Bli9/s1600/12527596_1069162426448833_1481829405_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg88y9AlYw2NdEvgQhVdnN1kJBRtjd13KisaT2SBTyO7ie6RrTkKy8p45equm_Ac8xy5EQrbPT9TRZ4WZYGRFth3GzFnfBfnO_pdT3ICsZYF9pIGb3_OO_wLQktQbtL8BDn6FD4Bli9/s320/12527596_1069162426448833_1481829405_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Positive Healthy Recovery Growth our worldwide membership is growing larger by the moment filling our students with a positive message exploding the myths of the roots of addiction.And offering for the first time real healthy positive practical solutions<br />|<br />The Ten Stages</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Positive Healthy Recovery Growth our worldwide membership is growing larger by the moment filling our students with a positive message exploding the myths of the roots of addiction

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Our Healthy children have no need to apologise they have done nothing wrong they are and have perfection as a gift of birth.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin_A3a1X1qdKkNb1xVlzolZ-kb-aiTHjKdtDPrX9qqdVdueB82_jb2HJlT6wu8G4cWi1FalsjyE_gpN4O59cLrbL8V25tyOw_blJMRxMmb7_JqObwMvHktghibRpHalbH8Fj2GfalJbcrD/s1600/Free69.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin_A3a1X1qdKkNb1xVlzolZ-kb-aiTHjKdtDPrX9qqdVdueB82_jb2HJlT6wu8G4cWi1FalsjyE_gpN4O59cLrbL8V25tyOw_blJMRxMmb7_JqObwMvHktghibRpHalbH8Fj2GfalJbcrD/s320/Free69.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our child within needs to experience the feelings of being worthy and welcome, not bent out of shape, angry, or apologetic about their existence.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">In other places you will see misguided people talking about the inner child this is a travesty of our belief . The inner child is a description of someone looking into a child's bedroom an observer, a threatening stranger, a shadow self.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">For us the child within is the perfect child who is lying on the bed, our child hidden within who is perfect and whole in every way.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our child is not sick or wounded but whole and incredibly healthy and awaiting to connect to us.Do not believe in the sick explanations of crippled adults who come from a point of observation, not truth and healthy contact with us, but a sick and abusive pathology. Our Healthy children have no need to apologise they have done nothing wrong they are and have perfection as a gift of birth.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Our Healthy children have no need to apologise they have done nothing wrong they are and have perfection as a gift of birth.

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We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others

<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUS0zEEWOa0kw4X2x05vRJoX82ZioUNpZXsuYF3zgVL2NNEyZe-SlsPT372rFkYDGncdfpf0oPY31qKyliWj5HQ63t_gDG0KhMfNn8M0qOpsF5olSYRj3g97AGywWQYotlTBJzUQEPDxsk/s1600/13615260_761050534036649_4023140416478485672_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUS0zEEWOa0kw4X2x05vRJoX82ZioUNpZXsuYF3zgVL2NNEyZe-SlsPT372rFkYDGncdfpf0oPY31qKyliWj5HQ63t_gDG0KhMfNn8M0qOpsF5olSYRj3g97AGywWQYotlTBJzUQEPDxsk/s320/13615260_761050534036649_4023140416478485672_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others, culture and dissociations. By doing so, We have constructed an artificial, virtual cage. The bars distort our perception of our reality. Therefore, we live in an unfair, dishonest society in which the rich become richer, the poor become poorer and where nobody knows the right direction. Because everybody is convinced of the idea that there is no way back only progress is an option without anybody knowing where this progress will lead.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others

We live imprisoned in our old convictions, traditions, believes and habits, dependent on others, culture and dissociations. By doing s...

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If we return to ourself as the child within, we will reach a new perception of ourself.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHhCBIPQ2FzFF1VDubAPpqPBBi9Vuq-1ieKBrG3Ey7NtNqcHgEhVqccjQkjg0Kg-YhQdBkuAMRlkVIUExUdMKDRvXGSZfeLFcY9Gd3q4E9JggDpC0T7HYGaRmjvnNzOZPvCc5jNIQxWIo8/s1600/within+child.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHhCBIPQ2FzFF1VDubAPpqPBBi9Vuq-1ieKBrG3Ey7NtNqcHgEhVqccjQkjg0Kg-YhQdBkuAMRlkVIUExUdMKDRvXGSZfeLFcY9Gd3q4E9JggDpC0T7HYGaRmjvnNzOZPvCc5jNIQxWIo8/s1600/within+child.jpeg" /></a></div> <br /> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: center; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">If we return to ourself as the child within, we</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> will reach a new perception of ourself. Children are still not split between the dissociated self and the child within . Therefore, we automatically give up our learned behaviours, stop our play-acting and take off our masks. Our outside starts to</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> resemble our inside. We must disengage ourself from all that is considered normal, from all spuriousness and dishonesty. Because the difference in tension between the inside and the outside causes our emotions. If the inside and outside coincide, you have reached apatheia (<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">refers to a state of mind where one is not disturbed by the passions. It is best translated by the word equanimity rather than indifference).</span> The feminine woman and the masculine man are products of culture and their behaviour is taught and false. The only difference between man and woman is gender, the rest is learned frill and is on the outside. True man is himself. You see, but differently; you feel, but differently; you walk, but differently; you look the same, but you are different. Then, <i>our inside equals your outside</i>.This is a mis-print that I intend to meditate on.Your help is needed.</span><br /> <div> <div> <div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div> </div> </div> </div>

If we return to ourself as the child within, we will reach a new perception of ourself.

If we return to ourself as the child within, we  will reach a new perception of ourself. Children are still not split between the disso...

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The search relates to coming to know ourself and the true nature of what the child within is.

<div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjrxIacnp5puGXACC3mNK8lxfSIWQfGolIoAuPPvLqOmko9yWjy3grY_eoaa-CVZh4vjOBIqerLRoOZJxUf4mHKNVpdjjLxW2M5rsQwMCAW-su2r8GgEmpRcS3f8Ybj0-zKBj0tWhXCsbo/s1600/1-trauma123.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="287" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjrxIacnp5puGXACC3mNK8lxfSIWQfGolIoAuPPvLqOmko9yWjy3grY_eoaa-CVZh4vjOBIqerLRoOZJxUf4mHKNVpdjjLxW2M5rsQwMCAW-su2r8GgEmpRcS3f8Ybj0-zKBj0tWhXCsbo/s320/1-trauma123.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">To seek is to search for. The search relates to coming to know ourself and the true nature of what the child within is. So the questions to which answers must be sought, relate solely to the child within, such as, ‘I am?’ or, ‘what am I?’ or, ‘to what am I referring to when I use the word ‘I’?’ What is the nature of this thing that I am, this ‘I’ that looks out into the world, but remains separate from it?</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">To come to know yourself, you must first realise what you are not, then you will be left with the child within.</span></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

The search relates to coming to know ourself and the true nature of what the child within is.

To seek is to search for. The search relates to coming to know ourself and the true nature of what the child within is. So the questions ...

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Uncovering the child within at the start of the ten stages.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguQb9N-bln3TeFnoPx8lC7d2mHPcRcijZciMxkKMABYmnbNg6vk6nUZrqP2TPEFsIgQQMp6xZI_o4hj3gw28CVd1AnyLvcA1_0zHYwzGV0EL6sjB1od429vAroWad6UPRKtTEmmzK1u0GZ/s1600/1-child+abuse.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguQb9N-bln3TeFnoPx8lC7d2mHPcRcijZciMxkKMABYmnbNg6vk6nUZrqP2TPEFsIgQQMp6xZI_o4hj3gw28CVd1AnyLvcA1_0zHYwzGV0EL6sjB1od429vAroWad6UPRKtTEmmzK1u0GZ/s320/1-child+abuse.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Uncovering the child within at the start of the ten stages.....We hover between life and death, being aware of, but experiencing neither in its fullness. We find ourselves between the light of reality, and the darkness of ignorance. We are not sure of what we are, (a spiritual or a physical being). We are not sure who we are, (a child within, or a child of the shadow self). We are not sure where we came from, (the spiritual realm or the material realm). Because of this, each of us experiences a mind that is divided, and we are torn. In this state suffering is inevitable. First we go one way and do wrong to others, and then we go the other way, and we are then tormented by what we have done.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Uncovering the child within at the start of the ten stages.

Uncovering the child within at the start of the ten stages.....We hover between life and death, being aware of, but experiencing neither i...

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UPDATED AND LINKED CHILD! Behold! A CHILD WITHIN at last! We broke out of our slavery, broke out of our cloned parental prison.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxTGZTBuanqo02QBxmxg-TKvN_HEkX1B8uO2PI27CMTsR1rJP5ABJJnOts7HjhanyrHQT6mhp5rFSVur3lnfwe5M77ukIXbR8_bWJcsjtNN078bloIrMhpANUN7y1JfE3HyaklVb815ME/s1600/1-quotescover-JPG-88.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxTGZTBuanqo02QBxmxg-TKvN_HEkX1B8uO2PI27CMTsR1rJP5ABJJnOts7HjhanyrHQT6mhp5rFSVur3lnfwe5M77ukIXbR8_bWJcsjtNN078bloIrMhpANUN7y1JfE3HyaklVb815ME/s320/1-quotescover-JPG-88.jpg" width="267" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /><br />We are not threatened by your criticism, we do not care what you think of us or what you say about us. We have cut all those strings: <a href="http://dissociationanonymous.blogspot.co.uk/">We are puppets no</a></span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="http://dissociationanonymous.blogspot.co.uk/"> longer.</a></span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />“We are terrifying. So they’ve got to get rid of us. We tell the truth: We has become fearless: We have stopped being an adult clone."</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="http://dissociationanonymous.blogspot.co.uk/">CHILD! Behold! A CHILD WITHIN at last! We broke out of our slavery, broke out of our cloned parental prison.</a><br /><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

UPDATED AND LINKED CHILD! Behold! A CHILD WITHIN at last! We broke out of our slavery, broke out of our cloned parental prison.

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Do we mediate our ten stage meditations beautifully?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKHupHFeMTAlZhhehQ-9bR7sOnNxKNGsMN0Gfdv10PThM7Eo1PWcfmTedxHYmpaV60Tk-X3aSz2VvmOnWjoeIRCTiE_jpff8AWWxWkBDNttvVCT-O2GeeTxPj7m205jTymoebwXWsl0DHN/s1600/TTCONSENT.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKHupHFeMTAlZhhehQ-9bR7sOnNxKNGsMN0Gfdv10PThM7Eo1PWcfmTedxHYmpaV60Tk-X3aSz2VvmOnWjoeIRCTiE_jpff8AWWxWkBDNttvVCT-O2GeeTxPj7m205jTymoebwXWsl0DHN/s320/TTCONSENT.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Do we mediate our ten stage meditations beautifully?<br />Are we as present as possible during our meditations? <br />Or do we pretend interest, ignore our internal child within responses, engage in some form of subtle manipulations by our shadow self? <br />Can we differentiate between our healthy and unhealthy suffering and grief?<br />Do we encourage our child within to show up as people rather than outside positions?<br />Is there space in our ten stages for laughter and joy? </span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Do we mediate our ten stage meditations beautifully?

Do we mediate our ten stage meditations beautifully? Are we as present as possible during our meditations? Or do we pretend interest, ign...

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In The Ten Stage Courses we are constantly being challenged to perceive the ‘other shadow side’

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJOLNIw4QKStQf0WBbNG_8jASmkL4O9bJR1fGWByWyuGXsihTx8gfXFD8HPl5uZmitayC-HfvPt6uBKWwtPlsSXFTdU0XiKnyHNbhc4mYWIZzmKSk5V-gzuSGvFLjXGmcBjpffmhWJ9dgh/s1600/10simple+stages.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJOLNIw4QKStQf0WBbNG_8jASmkL4O9bJR1fGWByWyuGXsihTx8gfXFD8HPl5uZmitayC-HfvPt6uBKWwtPlsSXFTdU0XiKnyHNbhc4mYWIZzmKSk5V-gzuSGvFLjXGmcBjpffmhWJ9dgh/s320/10simple+stages.jpg" width="214" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />In The Ten Stage Courses we are constantly being challenged to perceive the ‘other shadow side’ from a new perception that of our healthy children within, beings rather than stick-figured villains<br />Moving away from simplistic definitions of black & white and become more interested in the infinite shades of grey of our amazing human personality.<br />We Think -creatively and re-engage our imaginations.Becoming willing and able to take the risks to recover our child within and a new health and freedom.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

In The Ten Stage Courses we are constantly being challenged to perceive the ‘other shadow side’

In The Ten Stage Courses we are constantly being challenged to perceive the ‘other shadow side’ from a new perception that of our healthy ...

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SUBSCRIBERS ONLY: We start to dis-engage without dissociational constant drama this mindset is used to disengage ourselves from another's dissociated drama when direct contact is unavoidable.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUQ_3fYBcn-CaTFr2zemS9WCBEfA9LCiIcwefHpWzdwyViWCk2DOgQo0qNSh0bwgttE71PNcleZX5JfeyHwuzD8ta8OUc4FhR1om7wfnfwqWpfysgC94EgZ3pA3ESdKpfKHimIhYxFgNI1/s1600/5330narsissm.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="192" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUQ_3fYBcn-CaTFr2zemS9WCBEfA9LCiIcwefHpWzdwyViWCk2DOgQo0qNSh0bwgttE71PNcleZX5JfeyHwuzD8ta8OUc4FhR1om7wfnfwqWpfysgC94EgZ3pA3ESdKpfKHimIhYxFgNI1/s320/5330narsissm.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Some of our subscribers describe in practicing the early ten stages as having a feeling of being under "Psychic Attack"... The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice. We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /> We start to dis-engage without our dissociational constant drama. This new mindset is used to disengage ourselves from another's dissociated drama when direct contact is unavoidable.<br /><br />  WE start by disengaging emotionally and giving neutral responses to what someone else does or says. The focus is on us, our feelings and needs, not the other person or their feelings and needs. <br /><br />Someone using dis-engagement is assertive without being confrontational. We give no appearance of withdrawal, and we will maintain a pleasant and calm tone of voice and demeanour.<br /><br /> two key components to dis-engagement are: <br /><br />We stop sharing any of our personal information.<br /><br />We don't volunteer details about our life or our feelings. Everything in our world is perfectly OK, normal and uneventful. Tell them nothing, ask them nothing. Conversation is nothing more than pleasantries about weather, traffic, news etc. We start to engage in the type of conversation we might have with a total stranger while waiting for the bus. <br /><br />When communicating a decision we have made (should we deem it necessary to share in the first place) do not share our thought processes on how we arrived at our decision. It is none of anyone's concern. <br /><br /><i>We don't get involved in another person's chaos or drama.</i><br /><br /><br />When asked to help or get involved, be unavailable without offering the reason why we are unavailable. Sharing the details only motivates others to help us clear our obstacle to being there to help them. We are simply busy, We know, same old stuff. <br /><br />When others try to draw us into their drama and chaos we are a bored and dull listener. We are there, just not present or terribly involved. Never show anger or compassionate involvement; paying attention but not too much attention. Don't offer any advice or opinions of our own. Don't try to solve their problems. We are simply not involved. <br /><br />If someone is angry and manages to get us angry they have successfully projected and transferred their anger to us. Take our leave as soon as possible in cases of anger or rage. Simply and calmly leave or end the phone call. <br /><br /><i>When others lash out, show no anger. When others are nice, don't reciprocate. Be distant and flat in both cases. When others can't easily manipulate a reaction, they tend to leave you alone.</i><br /><br /> Dis-engagement keeps things light, fluffy, airy and breezy. There's no real substance to the conversation. We wind up doing a lot of listening and giving very uninteresting and inconsequential answers. We don't feed the dissociates supply, so we'll find conversations are shorter and not as frequent - because we're not giving the other person anything they can use. We are of no use to them and also quite boring and uninteresting. <br /><br />Dis-engagement is also 'non answers' to intrusive questions and interrogation.<br /><br />Dis-engagement is useful in dealing with trigger instances of Baiting, Blaming, Bullying, Chaos, Circular Conversations, Dependency, Emotional Abuse, Emotional Blackmail, Engulfment / Enmeshment, Hoovering, Manipulation, Projection and Verbal Abuse. While undesirable behaviours cannot always be totally avoided, the damage and impact can be minimised if we can keep ourselves as emotionally detached as possible.<br /><i>Examples:<br /><br />When asked an intrusive question:<br />I don't know. I'll have to get back to you.<br />We'll see.<br />That's a really good question, why do you ask?<br />Let me think about that.<br />It doesn't concern you.<br />My decision is made.<br />This is not a discussion<br />It's simply my preference.<br />It's none of your business.<br />It's already handled, taken care of.<br />The topic is closed<br />I said no and do not bring this up again</i><br /><br />Sometimes it can be useful to simply not answer a question and let the question just hang there, pause, then change the conversation:<br />So anyway, how about the weather?<br /><br />When attempting to draw us into drama or chaos:<br />It's none of my business.<br />I can't be there, it doesn't work for me.<br />I'd love to but no.<br />I'm sorry you feel that way.<br />I don't know what to tell you.<br />I don't know what to say.<br />That's a shame.<br />Now you're just being silly (when they accuse us of something).<br />You'll have to speak to so and so about that (when complaining about so and so).<br />You may need to speak to your doctor / lawyer / electrician about that.<br />This is not my problem. If you want to make it my problem I will find a solution to this that suits me and there is every chance that it will not suit you. If you want a solution that suits you, then you need to go work on that & leave me out of it.<br /><br />You may need to get in touch with your inner 'tween for some of these:<br />That's too bad/That's nice. (You may be surprised how long you can keep a conversation going with those words).<br />Now's not the time to talk about that.<br />I can't do anything about that.<br />I want to hear how you're doing.<br />That's up to you.<br />I know you don't understand this.<br />I know you really want to talk about XYZ but now is not the time.<br />It looks like my being here is upsetting you, we'll get together another time.<br /><br />If the drama ramps up in an attempt to get you involved:<br />Exit the conversation. say "Sorry I have to go now. Maybe we can continue later."<br />Leave the room and house if you can safely do so.<br /><br /><br />Remember to convey everything in a dull, flat tone of voice, with a non-confrontational, matter-of-fact manner. <br />What It Feels Like<br /><br />Dis-engagement can be extremely liberating. We are in control of us, we are directing our life, we are in charge of us, we steer the conversation and we are protected. We are free to exercise your boundaries and communicate them effectively. <br /><i>What NOT To Do:<br />Don't focus on mitigating the other person's anger.<br />Don't worry about how your actions appear.<br />Don't try to solve the other person's problems or try to fix anything</i><br />What To Do:<br />Maintain a flat, calm and unemotional tone.<br />Choose to emotionally and mentally disengage.<br />Become uninteresting and boring.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

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Dreamscape our relationships with others who experience our dissociations are often all about control.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLmn6kbexDLYPM0MKSUsCnr9Hll1mvPcXcbfqeBBLguJbU_mw3bXqO02L6f5JrXbwlwPGHJkQS_Re_ohwVURP2JfqjqLOWpFTRO9himMcDCZbBeRLb_RzhYUWEm7Wy0_rnoAkufJlrCv9S/s1600/dreamwarrior+897.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLmn6kbexDLYPM0MKSUsCnr9Hll1mvPcXcbfqeBBLguJbU_mw3bXqO02L6f5JrXbwlwPGHJkQS_Re_ohwVURP2JfqjqLOWpFTRO9himMcDCZbBeRLb_RzhYUWEm7Wy0_rnoAkufJlrCv9S/s320/dreamwarrior+897.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Dreamscape our relationships with others who experience our dissociations are often all about control. There is an underlying struggle for control between the dissociated individual and others.<br /><br />One of the necessary ingredients for the awakening to reality of a dissociate - and perhaps one of the most difficult, is to relinquish control of a relationship and to give back control over their own life.<br /><br />Some key areas of control which may need to be yielded include:<br />Relationships - who is allowed to interact with, how and when they associate with others and how often.<br />Interests - Social groups, churches, hobbies and activities which are attractive to but which may not be a priority or of value to the dissociate.<br />Finances - How the family finances are budgeted, what takes priority and how to resolve conflicts.<br />Children - How children are cared for, how they are disciplined, what freedoms they are allowed and how medical and educational decisions are made.<br />Roles & Responsibilities - Who does the chores and when, who is responsible for what, what to do when there is an unexpected issue or problem.<br />Household Rules - What is acceptable and unacceptable behavior. What boundaries are to be respected so that everybody can feel safe.<br />Freedom of Independent Thought - Allowing others to believe what they want, think what they want, like and dislike what they want.<br /><br />If someone is working on dissociation, yet is not able to yield control over these and similar issues, there is likely to be conflict down the road and a return to dreamscape.</span><div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

Dreamscape our relationships with others who experience our dissociations are often all about control.

Dreamscape our relationships with others who experience our dissociations are often all about control. There is an underlying struggle for...

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Acknowledging that there is dissociation, that often we escape into a dreamscape is often the first step in our recognition of our problem - and sometimes the most difficult.

<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /> </span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLgNlXZaNnURVqhONa1nA-Ggy4VLIn2GK1NiuafTaBMoLoQZQXjyRfzFSUjikjTwRpfZGvG17jP3o6mTsn8J826Yd5qmBTju9VySNfhwCV06m7M6Hp2-Scg7-lXEenMC3o1N_mnF1d5BtY/s1600/hoover.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLgNlXZaNnURVqhONa1nA-Ggy4VLIn2GK1NiuafTaBMoLoQZQXjyRfzFSUjikjTwRpfZGvG17jP3o6mTsn8J826Yd5qmBTju9VySNfhwCV06m7M6Hp2-Scg7-lXEenMC3o1N_mnF1d5BtY/s1600/hoover.jpeg" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="http://dissociationanonymous.blogspot.co.uk/">Acknowledging that there is dissociation</a>, that often we escape into a dreamscape is often the first step in our recognition of our problem - and sometimes the most difficult.<br /><br />Non-Stigmatisation - Coming to a point of acknowledging that we suffer from dissociation is a tremendously courageous thing to do - and many of us are afraid to permanently do that. There exists a social stigma about dysfunctional behaviour that often makes it harder to acknowledge than physical illness.<br /><br />Swallowing our Pride or rather our inflated egos - Acknowledging that our words and our actions may have hurt others is equally difficult. There may be self-reparations to make. We may have to turn from condemning others to understanding ourself. It takes great courage and humility to do this.<br /><br /><a href="http://dissociationanonymous.blogspot.co.uk/">We fear our Unknown leaving the comfort of our constructed dreamscape</a> - it's normal to feel afraid of things which you do not understand or know well. When it comes to seeking help for dissociation it is even more so.  These are all frightening ideas to most of us.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Acknowledging that there is dissociation, that often we escape into a dreamscape is often the first step in our recognition of our problem - and sometimes the most difficult.

  Acknowledging that there is dissociation , that often we escape into a dreamscape is often the first step in our recognition of our pro...

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UPDATED: The most reliable indicator of real recovery from dissociation is in longevity and homeostasis of our recovered mental health.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLgNlXZaNnURVqhONa1nA-Ggy4VLIn2GK1NiuafTaBMoLoQZQXjyRfzFSUjikjTwRpfZGvG17jP3o6mTsn8J826Yd5qmBTju9VySNfhwCV06m7M6Hp2-Scg7-lXEenMC3o1N_mnF1d5BtY/s1600/hoover.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLgNlXZaNnURVqhONa1nA-Ggy4VLIn2GK1NiuafTaBMoLoQZQXjyRfzFSUjikjTwRpfZGvG17jP3o6mTsn8J826Yd5qmBTju9VySNfhwCV06m7M6Hp2-Scg7-lXEenMC3o1N_mnF1d5BtY/s1600/hoover.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: large;">Due of the rapid, dramatic mood swings that we the dissociated sometimes experience, it can be difficult to tell whether a change in our behaviour and lifestyle is evidence of a substantial improvement in our lives or just part of the normal up and down of our emotional lives.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: large;"> The most reliable indicator of real recovery from dissociation is in longevity and homeostasis of our recovered mental and Emotional health.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: large;">Whenever you observe a significant change in behaviour we who suffers from a dissociation, should always ask: "From how long ago did this first happen?" Changes which last 12 months or more may be indicators of a significant long-term shift of our perception to that of our child within and to our trusted intuitive voice.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: large;">The 12 month threshold may seem over-conservative, but it is necessary in order to observe the effects of</span><br /><span style="font-size: large;">Seasonal events - including the effects of climate changes in spring, summer, fall and winter.</span><br /><span style="font-size: large;">Personal events - and holidays including Birthdays, Christmas, Easter, Mother's Day, Father's Day and important anniversaries.</span><br /><span style="font-size: large;">Circumstantial events - including financial worries, employment stress, disappointments and opportunities.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: large;">Changes lasting shorter than 12 months and much shorter durations - such as weeks or days, are more commonly part of the normal ebb and flow of our dissociation patterns of changing moods and emotions.The patterns brought about by our meditations, loving-kindfulness and their daily actions in our life become pointers to permanent changes in our lives and relationships <i>the long-levity of recovery</i> becomes a strong cornerstone to our movement into reality and escape from the dreamscape we have and are continuously creating.</span><br /><br /><br /><i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</i></span>

UPDATED: The most reliable indicator of real recovery from dissociation is in longevity and homeostasis of our recovered mental health.

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The necessary ingredients of real healthy recovery in The Ten Stages is self-work.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTYwGEl4CziKBy28fweirD3TAUzpCgReiDzSRKJ-erbOfKRGfrYYyiQtC_TCqJ9_Gj7s8VikbRMJQ-pSJkoNV5g1y6XP9_DUwyH4a4PvY9snP60R0yGBl-Lfot95F2qKvZZfGJd7wP6Raz/s1600/hoover.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTYwGEl4CziKBy28fweirD3TAUzpCgReiDzSRKJ-erbOfKRGfrYYyiQtC_TCqJ9_Gj7s8VikbRMJQ-pSJkoNV5g1y6XP9_DUwyH4a4PvY9snP60R0yGBl-Lfot95F2qKvZZfGJd7wP6Raz/s1600/hoover.jpeg" /></a></div> <br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The necessary ingredients of real healthy recovery in The Ten Stages is self-work.<br /><br />Recovery is not a sprint but a marathon. And just as it is impossible to run a marathon without putting in a lot of self-work over a long period, it is impossible for us to recover from dissociation without a sustained, determined and costly personal effort.<br /><br />It is impossible for one of us to do the training for someone else who wants to run a marathon. Likewise, it is impossible for a non-dissociated to do the critical work on behalf of another who is trying to recover from a dissociation. A pre-requisite is that you agree to do a twelve week course of study without breaks to understand that you are moving into a healthy child withins perception..</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</i>

The necessary ingredients of real healthy recovery in The Ten Stages is self-work.

The necessary ingredients of real healthy recovery in The Ten Stages is self-work. Recovery is not a sprint but a marathon. And just as i...

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Within the ten stage courses as we emerge from the fog of our dissociated dream-like behaviour.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYzhiBqiz9ki_KPA0euxhVEkXJ-wonTOIIYq9U68OH8Iodh1-pamnE_wwSRIp199fD5qkMZuHKsSyAs7jTJLpgSyixMQHhEdWPYMxzj8p2EIWtaqetugjcT2OeOEpr4umPcvr7RG1WPyTW/s1600/hoover.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYzhiBqiz9ki_KPA0euxhVEkXJ-wonTOIIYq9U68OH8Iodh1-pamnE_wwSRIp199fD5qkMZuHKsSyAs7jTJLpgSyixMQHhEdWPYMxzj8p2EIWtaqetugjcT2OeOEpr4umPcvr7RG1WPyTW/s1600/hoover.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Within the ten stage courses as we emerge from the fog of our dissociated dream-like behaviour. We break free and we can be subjected to a dissociation trigger known as hoovers & hoovering - A Hoover is a metaphor taken from the popular brand of vacuum cleaners, to describe how a dissociate trying to assert their own rights by leaving or limiting contact in a dysfunctional relationship, gets “sucked back in” when the perpetrator temporarily exhibits improved or desirable behaviour.</span><div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</div>

Within the ten stage courses as we emerge from the fog of our dissociated dream-like behaviour.

Within the ten stage courses as we emerge from the fog of our dissociated dream-like behaviour. We break free and we can be subjected to a...

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We have become lonely drifting inside a dissociated relationship.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQvi9tEV0SwetQZyQBEwHVq-4M5-2i2uFC_ZtkuhHhPT68DOVzEoLdQL3yRviWFfglpXKrUSEVoUr5jKn0FYEQsKqGzMEo5pfubIFi60NjEHlNDmuTEOlLYYg39FSRhXmDJO96f-pcPSRp/s1600/bestchopblock.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQvi9tEV0SwetQZyQBEwHVq-4M5-2i2uFC_ZtkuhHhPT68DOVzEoLdQL3yRviWFfglpXKrUSEVoUr5jKn0FYEQsKqGzMEo5pfubIFi60NjEHlNDmuTEOlLYYg39FSRhXmDJO96f-pcPSRp/s320/bestchopblock.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />We become lonely  drifting inside a dissociated relationship with self.<br /><br />We have put off taking care of ourselves because of the overwhelming "needs" or demands of our partners. We live in a constructed dissociated world filled with the Fears of ancestral Obligation and Guilt.<br /><br />Those on the outside of our relationships often have no idea what we live with. Some of us are constantly torn between trying to protect and heal ourselves, and trying to take care of a demanding dissociated partner. Others have decided that they no longer want a relationship but don't know how to protect themselves on the way out. So many of us have been subjected to years of emotional, verbal, physical and sometimes sexual abuse. Sometimes, our worst scars cannot be seen.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

We have become lonely drifting inside a dissociated relationship.

We become lonely  drifting inside a dissociated relationship with self. We have put off taking care of ourselves because of the overwhelmi...

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It's common for those of us who find ourselves in dissociated relationships to construct an invisible world of detachment.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Acknowledging that we finally have to face pain, grief and suffering opens the door on </span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCbebM2Upu9KxAmYUxbTnzoT7zFc_nnJYMzFehbuOrV0Ksnpf1UCZYenO0-szYbJTEufnHr8thyphenhyphenPwF0pxBJXNCIMfRakXKarApbhPSCi2rRDvKvrgIoSc7ZBeQMmcywlhqCWRc5ej0hmdE/s1600/pos4.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="248" data-original-width="203" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCbebM2Upu9KxAmYUxbTnzoT7zFc_nnJYMzFehbuOrV0Ksnpf1UCZYenO0-szYbJTEufnHr8thyphenhyphenPwF0pxBJXNCIMfRakXKarApbhPSCi2rRDvKvrgIoSc7ZBeQMmcywlhqCWRc5ej0hmdE/s1600/pos4.png" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">our constructed world of detachment. It's common for those of us who find ourselves in dissociated relationships to construct an invisible world of detachment. It's a wall that tries to hide from the outside world the embarrassing truths about what is going on in our lives behind closed doors.<br /><br />Our society does not encourage us to be forthcoming about the situations we may find ourselves in. To be a social success we sometimes think that we need to be successful in the world of personal relationships.<br /><br />We sometimes fear that any sign of failure in our marriage or partnership could be interpreted as a sign of weakness.<br /><br />Some of us fear to leave our abusive partners because of what others - friends, family, neighbours, churchgoers, might think.<br /><br />Some of us are afraid to speak out about what is wrong because we don't believe our partner will really change and instead we think we will just make matters worse.<br /><br />And we hide out in our constructed world of detachment.</span><br /> <div> <br /></div> <br /> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.</i>

It's common for those of us who find ourselves in dissociated relationships to construct an invisible world of detachment.

Acknowledging that we finally have to face pain, grief and suffering opens the door on our constructed world of detachment. It's co...

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For many of us we are in an unchosen dissociated relationship and its difficult and often traumatising.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3Ip2kmg7zXH95fsboBbQYiGIJeW71nF1JAM5W8R7dPRlA2yHfwbZnd6Sbx_u6h9xJ310hk4opVXNFACTDKVbr764aADmGf7i5skQtNFHx7kOTMeh574DalrvqYm3mLDJouKDEBkJh_bxX/s1600/1-cwithin234.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="196" data-original-width="258" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3Ip2kmg7zXH95fsboBbQYiGIJeW71nF1JAM5W8R7dPRlA2yHfwbZnd6Sbx_u6h9xJ310hk4opVXNFACTDKVbr764aADmGf7i5skQtNFHx7kOTMeh574DalrvqYm3mLDJouKDEBkJh_bxX/s1600/1-cwithin234.jpg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">For many of us we are in an unchosen dissociated relationship and its difficult and often traumatising. We are told repeatedly by society and well-meaning people that we "must," "should," "have to" (fill in the blank) because they - the dissociated disordered - are family.<br /><br />We are often asked to overlook continued abuses because the person is ill. In other instances we are expected to “be the bigger person” and stuff our emotions so as not to upset the ill family member. We are asked to parent our parent while still trying to have a life of our own.<br /><br />People who haven’t been where we have been truly have no idea what we live with. Some of us are constantly torn between trying to protect and heal ourselves and trying to have some sort of relationship with our families, however dysfunctional they may be. Others have decided that they no longer want a relationship with the family member. Many of us have been subjected to a lifetime of emotional, verbal, physical, and sometimes sexual abuse. These abuses do not disappear just because time has passed or because we are adults. Sometimes the worst scars cannot be seen.<br /><br />In this section of the course, you may see terms like  (no contact) or  (limited contact). Many people choose one or the other, or drift back and forth between them trying to find a balance with which they are comfortable. Some choose to try and tolerate what they can, when they can, knowing they are unable to completely remove themselves from a parent or other relative. Understand that what works for one simply does not work for everyone.<br /><br />Everyone who comes to the ten stages child within blog site is at a different stage in their relationship and their personal journey. Here, we try to respect those differences and exercise patience and tolerance. Sometimes we learn the most about ourselves by reaching out to others in similar situations who are studying the child within.</span><br /> <div> <br /></div> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. </i>

For many of us we are in an unchosen dissociated relationship and its difficult and often traumatising.

For many of us we are in an unchosen dissociated relationship and its difficult and often traumatising. We are told repeatedly by societ...

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Recovery Children Within are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.Not addiction.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBPRCivkX0GhDiwdcLRX-OmZp9tokxXx3Qs38QD0GWdr0dCgRDfPpZkBh1o8QJAcrPhh-zOzZsLBS9wt3px-diFsq_Yh3KboXxYsEBruCth8_U7qJX2NfB_zgxWhUkLHdCOm2GNg8NmoI/s1600/simple+stages.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBPRCivkX0GhDiwdcLRX-OmZp9tokxXx3Qs38QD0GWdr0dCgRDfPpZkBh1o8QJAcrPhh-zOzZsLBS9wt3px-diFsq_Yh3KboXxYsEBruCth8_U7qJX2NfB_zgxWhUkLHdCOm2GNg8NmoI/s320/simple+stages.jpg" width="214" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Recovery Children Within are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.Not addiction.<br /><br />Several months ago we started to wonder if the defences we commonly use could possibly be termed addiction. We knew they were habitual. We knew they happened spontaneously, like a reflex, without time for us to stop and reflect whether or not this was the response we wanted to use; we knew that when we tried to use other responses it was exceedingly difficult and required much continual work on our part.<br /><br />We looked up addiction in online dictionaries: “The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or involved in something.” <br /><br />That sounds accurate.”The state of being enslaved to a habit or practice.” Well, that certainly fits! “And the last one: “Habitual psychological and physiological dependence on a practice beyond one’s voluntary control.” That definition fit completely. We COULD NOT stop dissociating when we wanted to.<br /><br />We do not attach a moral judgment to the word “Addiction”. It is a simple statement of fact. We did not make the choice to voluntarily start using dissociation to get through life. We did not make the choice to continue to use it. We would not be alive today if I had not learned and used the skill of<br />dissociation. But it is now beyond our control and is now unnecessary in our life. Naming this addiction gives us tools within the ten stages to use so we can let go of it. We are able to be more patient with ourself and more effective in overcoming it. When we acknowledge our Child Within.<br /><br />OK. So we knew we are still addicted. But exactly what are we addicted TO?<br /><br />Researching the term “dissociation” I found this definition by Dr. Bennett Braun: “the separation of an idea or thought process from the main stream of consciousness” (Braun, 1988). Everybody uses dissociation. People use it to screen out unnecessary stimuli. With un-traumatised people, this is a<br />choice and not problematical. Any time a person is focused in on something to the exclusion of one or more aspects of present day reality, they are using dissociation. Everyone here has used this – perhaps when reading a book, or practicing a musical instrument, or figuring out income tax. That kind of dissociation is helpful<br /><br />Another way to think of dissociation is as a method of dealing with trauma by not knowing about it.2 The memory of events may be split into separate components. Dr. Bennett Braun developed the BASK model; an easy way to understand this. BASK stands for Behaviour, Affect, Sensation and Knowledge. If any one of these is missing in your memory of an event, then you are dissociating. “Behaviour” is the action associated with an event. For ourself, in times of stress, I find myself putting my hand on the back of my neck. I would do this unknowingly, with no conscious memories or reasons.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Recovery Children Within are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.Not addiction.

Recovery Children Within are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.Not addiction. Several months ago we started to wonder if the defen...

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Have you been through a crisis, dark night or Dissociation Storm and are wondering"Now what do I do?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGDos_jRPlyI4M339LGYdRMCs-Y1w5n4bBxBbvifEwQsN4bVIWQvjuivgzVuHf8KtrtWQ6MgTH6d-anWBrKqXgmFRUUwmTyNP-9oFyMJQhZ7ucqowNxrhRBr8VYzuuUudfAu9hwclopL0g/s1600/meetups+loving+kindfulness.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGDos_jRPlyI4M339LGYdRMCs-Y1w5n4bBxBbvifEwQsN4bVIWQvjuivgzVuHf8KtrtWQ6MgTH6d-anWBrKqXgmFRUUwmTyNP-9oFyMJQhZ7ucqowNxrhRBr8VYzuuUudfAu9hwclopL0g/s320/meetups+loving+kindfulness.jpg" width="214" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">Do you ever feel like there's "something more" for you to discover, feel, create or be in your life?<br /><br />Almost like there's something missing, and you're not sure what. Maybe you see other people who seem to love their life, and you're not quite sure why you don't have that.<br /><br />Have you been through a crisis, dark night or Dissociation Storm and are wondering"Now what do I do?".<br />When you look around and try to find support for this new direction in your life, do you find yourself coming up short on people who get this new version of you?<br /><br /><br />And because of all this you feel stuck...<br /><br />I know that for me, there have been many times on my child within journey, it seemed like I was all alone in trying to get to the next level.<br /><br />I woke up and saw that I was surrounded by people who wanted me to stay small and couldn't see me with new eyes. And the truth is, I didn't see myself with new eyes either.<br /><br />I needed support. I needed a guide. I needed to shake things up and put my life on a different path. Because if I kept going this way, I would have more decades of the same pain, but it would be worse because there would be that much more that I had missed out on.<br /><br /><br />And in going on my quest, I've found the fastest way to get unstuck and get back on track.<br /><br /><br />It's with immersion into the child within.<br /><br />Total focus on contact in our life, while you are supported by a group of like-minded people who are willing to see you as brand new. And, this group of people will help you step into a more empowered, authentic and abundant version of yourself, so that you can wake up each day, look in the mirror and know that you are going to bring your best self to the day.<br /><br />This is an invitation to join me and a small group of seekers who will become your new power posse for a child within immersion experience that will break you free and set you on a path of purpose. </span><br /> <div style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;"></span></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

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Graduation Anthem of The Child Within

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIeY6sdgCCWNVYxyAcJmUvozfnM_uHhdwTWaNKpeb85NIs8dUX8Cjsu0OIuonsiStMCfYKGmuY06G4m1B2cehkO3mAcl1_JZ_AfXNL9wwfUgL-iyktnsbjygEgMEWRf5yOiapwXJHlNNA/s1600/dis_inter.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIeY6sdgCCWNVYxyAcJmUvozfnM_uHhdwTWaNKpeb85NIs8dUX8Cjsu0OIuonsiStMCfYKGmuY06G4m1B2cehkO3mAcl1_JZ_AfXNL9wwfUgL-iyktnsbjygEgMEWRf5yOiapwXJHlNNA/s320/dis_inter.jpg" width="305" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Do I believe that there is truth at the core of my child within? </span><br /> <br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Do I believe that the truth at this core my child within is more powerful than the lies that were imposed upon me? </span><br /> <br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Can I accept that I am meant to become a true and connected child within? </span><br /> <br style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Do I believe that I have the capacity for AWAKENING?</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Graduation Anthem of The Child Within

Do I believe that there is truth at the core of my child within?  Do I believe that the truth at this core my child within is more pow...

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Welcome to the living room a healing experience without chaos and drama

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5nlaaNmphOqlQcDVyQm_KnAG1465DBetlIZEr67N1rLWMFrgfQaKHpu4HpoFGgggiZvFIY37mt8q0ImjUzAzStJu1kAm9HI3LrGSGzP5dhlwSpK0zhVUFsHOnh-HmJwRkYNyYI72LOJIG/s1600/vision3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5nlaaNmphOqlQcDVyQm_KnAG1465DBetlIZEr67N1rLWMFrgfQaKHpu4HpoFGgggiZvFIY37mt8q0ImjUzAzStJu1kAm9HI3LrGSGzP5dhlwSpK0zhVUFsHOnh-HmJwRkYNyYI72LOJIG/s320/vision3.jpg" width="249" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">Welcome to the living room a healing experience without chaos and drama: To begin to understand dissociation is to understand the confidence tricks of a soporific society we become are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings and of having to pretend to be happy all the time. we know this for ourselves because this is what we have become conditioned to have. We constantly don’t want to get into this too much.We learn to practice avoidant behaviours in collusion with our parents and siblings. And by escaping our innermost feelings, we create an inner void which is filled with either addictions or other people constantly manufacturing new dramas that we endlessly replicate.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">We feel at the Stages that we have mutually found the explanation for why we are suffering so much. Especially the topics we address about this inner “void” we constantly construct, how morality keeps you away from you genuine “negative” feelings against your parents, how these feelings will express themselves in either violence or illness or addictions.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">We have never experienced genuine emotional communication in our upbringing or our lives, so we can never believe that other people would ever be interested in our emotions and interior life. Which causes us a lot of feelings of abandonment , loneliness and guilt. But only after we have re-learned to trust our feelings and started to share them, do we discover at the stages that there are people who do communicate in this way. This is very new to us, because all our lives we have only experienced communication based on our “masks”, our “facade”, our “false self” and we could only relate to other grandiose, masked people, because we didn’t want to be abandoned by them. And we actually thought that this was really normal.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">Our own parents are afflicted by; the deprivations of their bodies We as children of any age are forced to fill these deprivations of our parents, and in the process our child will have to sacrifice their own needs and feelings. And then the whole generational cycle starts all over again. We believe that the only way out of this, is to stop denying the feelings and emotions behind these feelings of emptiness and depression. And in the process to pay more attention to our child within the hidden self, to ourselves and our needs and strive to live in the fresh new world of the ten stages and the child within.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Welcome to the living room a healing experience without chaos and drama

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Structured Study Course The Ten Stages We re-learn the art of making contact with ourselves to tell the story of our child withins life.

<div class="_1dwg _1w_m _2ph_" style="padding: 12px 12px 0px;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCxWp3Xjdw9DYg2XSKFy_MY2JMoTnLTS5ZTWcCZTYKtKryJyY7fO4t9Ky2STr9h0ogpMAEUl9WrU3DTqsqQBb206BJK_Zuct3Ae5GhtejaGuId7uT8244iktS45PhMdTby1Xdyj_7SEuBX/s1600/within+the+child346.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCxWp3Xjdw9DYg2XSKFy_MY2JMoTnLTS5ZTWcCZTYKtKryJyY7fO4t9Ky2STr9h0ogpMAEUl9WrU3DTqsqQBb206BJK_Zuct3Ae5GhtejaGuId7uT8244iktS45PhMdTby1Xdyj_7SEuBX/s1600/within+the+child346.png" /></a></div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_48i" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.38;"> <div style="display: inline;"> Our Vision is to see recovery friends living meaningful, productive, personally satisfying and well supported lives, Structured Study Course The Ten Stages We re-learn the art of making contact with ourselves to tell the story of our child withins life. We need to feel the story of our childhood life in order to heal it. Trauma shuts feeling down, stages recovery wakes feeling up. That’s why we need our solid recovery supports in place healthy forms of self-soothing within the ten stages. Whether we’re talking about recovery or trauma or a combination of both, we need the strength of strong stages healing network, that’s available in order to help us to learn to hold and manage the intense emotions that child within recovery will naturally re-stimulate without acting out or self-medicating into dissociation.</div> </div> <div class="_3x-2"> <div data-ft="{"tn":"H"}"> </div> </div> <div> </div> </div> <div> <form action="https://www.facebook.com/ajax/ufi/modify.php" class="commentable_item" data-ft="{"tn":"]"}" id="u_jsonp_5_3t" method="post" rel="async" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"> <div class="_sa_ _5vsi _ca7 _192z" style="color: #90949c; margin-top: 12px; padding-bottom: 4px; position: relative;"> <div class="_37uu"> <div data-reactroot=""> <div class="_3399 _a7s clearfix" style="border-top: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); clear: both; margin: 0px 12px; padding-top: 4px; zoom: 1;"> <div class="_524d"> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </form> </div> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

Structured Study Course The Ten Stages We re-learn the art of making contact with ourselves to tell the story of our child withins life.

Our Vision is to see recovery friends living meaningful, productive, personally satisfying and well supported lives, Structured Study C...

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