Within the ten stage courses as we emerge from the fog of our dissociated dream-like behaviour. We break free and we can be subjected to a dissociation trigger known as hoovers & hoovering - A Hoover is a metaphor taken from the popular brand of vacuum cleaners, to describe how a dissociate trying to assert their own rights by leaving or limiting contact in a dysfunctional relationship, gets “sucked back in” when the perpetrator temporarily exhibits improved or desirable behaviour.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages
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