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This part of the ten stages is often characterised by experiencing the emotion of grief, and allowing ourselves to truly grieve painful incidents from our past that we may have long buried.

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Title: This part of the ten stages is often characterised by experiencing the emotion of grief, and allowing ourselves to truly grieve painful incidents from our past that we may have long buried.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The Ten Stages examination of our constructed shadow self is directly related to our beginning to take responsibility for our dissociation...

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The Ten Stages examination of our constructed shadow self is directly related to our beginning to take responsibility for our dissociation projections—in short, to our beginning to truly grow. We begin to move beyond our shadow selfs victim-consciousness, the tendency to blame the world for our struggles, and the tendency to see in others what we most dislike about ourselves. We start to understand the bondage of shame and guilt that has be foisted on us from previous generations  failure to be honest. 
 
This part of the ten stages is often characterised by experiencing the emotion of grief, and allowing ourselves to truly grieve painful incidents from our past that we may have long buried. Repressed or with-held pain keeps us dry and contracted. These dissociated knots of pain need to be dissolved via permitting ourselves to truly experience the pain with awareness, as opposed to avoiding it with endless distractions, narcotisations (mind-altering substances like drugs or alcohol, including excessive T.V. watching), or endless other forms of dissociations. In many cases the stage of dissolution is forced on a person by unexpected accidents or illnesses. If a right attitude is brought to bear on such apparent misfortunes, overall maturing and growth will inevitabaly result. 
 
A key to the stage of Dissolution is the awakening of passion, and the harnessing of the energy of emotional pain toward an object of creativity. We do not just passively witness the reality of our inner pain; we redirect its energy, wedding it to our authentic personal desires and constructive aims. In so doing we are participating and aiding in the dissolving of our false shadow self. We are using the energy freed up by letting go of old, stale dissociated coping strategies, in the service of re-aligning our life in the direction of our child withins purpose. 
 
 
 
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages

This part of the ten stages is often characterised by experiencing the emotion of grief, and allowing ourselves to truly grieve painful incidents from our past that we may have long buried.

The Ten Stages examination of our constructed shadow self is directly related to our beginning to take responsibility for our dissociation...

The Ten Stages of recovery from dissociation

The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality

This part of the ten stages is often characterised by experiencing the emotion of grief, and allowing ourselves to truly grieve painful incidents from our past that we may have long buried.

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