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We, so-called adults are not truly adults at all.

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We, so-called adults are not truly adults at all. We all get older. Anyone, with a little luck, can do that. But, speaking from a recove...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We, so-called adults are not truly adults at all. We all get older. Anyone, with a little luck, can do that. But, speaking from a recovery viewpoint, this is not adulthood. True adulthood hinges on acknowledging, accepting, and taking responsibility for loving and re-parenting our own child within us. For most us, this never happens. Instead, our child within has been denied, neglected, disparaged, abandoned or rejected. We are told by society to "grow up," putting childish things aside. To become adults, we've been taught that our  child within represents our child-like capacity for innocence, wonder, awe, joy, sensitivity and playfulness--must be stifled, quarantined or even killed. Our child within comprises and potentiates these positive qualities. But it also holds our accumulated childhood hurts, traumas, fears and angers. WE the "Grown-ups" are convinced we have successfully outgrown, jettisoned, and left this child within--and its emotional baggage--long behind. But this is far from our the truth as we begin to find out as we work on The Ten Stages and start to uncover our real truths in our recovery.</span>

We, so-called adults are not truly adults at all.

We, so-called adults are not truly adults at all. We all get older. Anyone, with a little luck, can do that. But, speaking from a recove...

The Ten Stages of recovery from dissociation

The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality

We, so-called adults are not truly adults at all.

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