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Developing faith in our Child Within helps re-build a good self-concept and prevent further re-development problems.

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<span style="font-size: large;">Developing faith in our Child Within helps re-build a good self-concept and prevent further re-developmental problems.  Unfortunately, it is all too easy to ignore good behaviour and to notice mostly the dissociations our child within has learnt to do.  Try not to make the mistake of often or constantly scolding and insulting our child within with the parental voice of negative labels such as stupid, mean, shy, etc.  Using these parental labels shows that we don't have faith in our child within.  It frustrates us and can cause us to re-infect ourselves with low self-esteem, to feel unable to change, to believe the label fits, and to act accordingly.  During childhood, despite an angry refusal to accept such labels, being bad (or stupid, mean, a failure, etc..) can seem like a fact of life the child within cannot change without superhuman effort.  In a self-fulfilling prophecy, we will give up trying to improve ourselves and will live up to the social role implied by the negative modelling.</span>

Developing faith in our Child Within helps re-build a good self-concept and prevent further re-development problems.

Developing faith in our Child Within helps re-build a good self-concept and prevent further re-developmental problems. Unfortunately, it ...

The Ten Stages of recovery from dissociation

The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality

Developing faith in our Child Within helps re-build a good self-concept and prevent further re-development problems.

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