Self esteem, the value we place in our self, is usually measured by how much we think we are desirable to other people.

Research marketing spend millions tracking down our insecurities, only to turn those insecurities around to try and make a sale. Do you feel failure as a homemaker? Then check out magazines like Better Home...well, you know...to reinforce the fact that yours isn’t quite good enough. Or Glamour....always something to strive for isn’t there. And what does this do for your self esteem? Esteem is the value that we place in something. Self esteem, the value we place in our self, is usually measured by how much we think we are desirable to other people. We measure our characteristics that we have against how they are accepted socially and also how they help us to be accepted socially. If we think that a certain characteristic will help us socially then we perceive it to have a high value. This is all based on our own set of beliefs and opinions. Now we can see how self esteem and media flow together. The media sets the standard of what is desirable to people. We then take inventory of our life and place the measurement.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages