We can tend to associate SO much pain with being who we really are.

It is easier to try to damage our life than it is to be able to accept our child within.



It was such a powerful moment when we see that.



We can tend to associate SO much pain with being who we really are.



Maybe the world won’t approve.



Maybe our family won’t approve.



Maybe our significant other won’t approve.



Maybe I’m a bad person or selfish for wanting to be happy when there’s so much pain in the world.



It’s scary to change and I might die if I do.



All these limiting beliefs hold us back.



I have some important questions for you…



What price are you paying for not being yourself?



Are you giving into temporary comfort that is creating long-term pain? How much longer will we let drama be more important than our calling?



Do you find it harder to be yourself?



What are you missing out on by not giving who you really are fully to your world?



What if your love and approval was most important? What if you deserve to be happy? What if you're actually safe in the unknown?


The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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