The world is full of heroes and rescuers and martyrs who are drawn like magnets to recovery.

Most of us avoid healing our wounds and instead seek out objects to gratify these wounds – often in the most clever, charming, and even seductive ways. The world is full of heroes and rescuers and martyrs who are drawn like magnets to recovery. We delude ourselves into believing that we can fix others. We as rescuers of the recovered are closet dissociates ourselves, disguising our mis-attempts to self-heal through attempting to gratify others. No one of us attempts to gratify anyone else unless we are in denial of own own comparable childhood wound.


The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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