Gratification is contrary to recovery

Gratification is contrary to recovery. Recovery requires boundaries and a depth of insight, qualities antithetical to closet dissociation. But failure to complete the stages is no great loss to us, because we carry a great ace up our sleeve: we can always blame our failure on the fact that we were the victims. But this is not true. The only person that has truly victimised us are our own upbringing.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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