We run around looking for someone “to complete us.” But the thing is, we are all just fallible human beings, so no one will ever complete you or live up to your expectations.
That is why it is so important to keep our eyes on our Child Within and Its Love for us. The compassion of our child within never changes. Other people change, other people mess up, but our child within is constantly on our side, Compassionate towards us and showing us how we can grow even closer to happiness and Love.
Our aim should be to not seek and chase for Loving-Kindness, but to BE IT. This means self-love first. True Love isn’t setting HUGE expectations of someone else that they always make you happy and fulfilled.
Contact with our child within is being so full of self-love and the Love of our recovery that you have more than enough Love to hold your own darkness and light and the darkness and light of the other people. Our Child Within is about radical acceptance of ourself .
To look for someone to complete you is to deny your innate potential to be an already full and integrated being. You are giving someone else a power that only you have.
Making someone else the source of our fulfilment means that if they are not having a good day, acting in integrity or desiring to grow, then you are stuck. It’s a giant anchor holding you down.
In relationship, we either grow together or we grow apart. Our intuitive voice is constantly guiding us to greater and greater awareness or ourselves and, as a result, our Highest Potential.
Relationships are containers for growth, not containers for proving how much pain you can endure for someone else.
When we make it someone else’s responsibility to complete us, it is easy to blame them, but the blame really belongs on us for giving them that power in the first place.
Let’s take our power back and take our eyes off of ourselves and our partners and remember the Child Within from which we grew and which we are all a part of right now. We are a drop of water coming home to the beautiful ocean from which we came. In doing so, we can merge into a wave and do far more connected to our child than we ever could do alone or with another person.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.
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