One of the biggest blocks to recovering our child within we have seen is this idea of receiving permission.
One of the biggest blocks to recovering our child within we have seen is this idea of receiving permission.
We are waiting around for someone else's permission or approval, a parental voice to live our personal recovery. It's kind of crazy actually.
One piece of recovery advice we heard recently questioned what you would do with our life if our parents or loved ones were no longer living. Are there any actions you would take? Any recovery you would chase? Parental approval has always been the big deal.
But the thing is, our parents who birthed us should have given us the knowledge so that we could THRIVE living our dreams. We don't think anyone's highest self wants us to live someone else’s life, but often this is our inheritance.
We were not born to live our parents’ life. We were not born to live a life of someone else. You were not born to live the life of our tribe, or community, or faith, or creed or nationality. Out beyond all those identifies of FORM is YOU. And YOU are a UNIQUE creation that was born to give a UNIQUE perfect gift yourself.
Yeah, we used to think this kind of talk was kind of fluffy BS, too. But we have made our lives an experiment in wondering if that was true ever since we heard it. We know that there is only ONE me. And that CANNOT be replicated, duplicated, copied or decoded. We am uniquely us.
We need NO ONE's approval to do what we are doing. What we do comes from a deep calling within ourself to recover every day. To reconnect with our child within.
To share our child. To add a strong connection too. To help us get unstuck and living our purpose in our recovery.
It's not something we do with a religion or spirituality in mind. It's something we do because we can't not do it. And we choose to connect with our child within. And some of us like it and some of us don't.
But all that doesn't matter because in our life, at the end of the day, We have to live with the choices that we make. They are ours to make and no one else’s.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.
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