Change happens one day, one moment, one stage at a time. It's small challenges that add up to a big leap.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2gkdaRo1HGRsOsk5NfthrvT_6QlRyZbvbr84r87XOItTU6FLszW-xk-RxV7h9aPK1Y5KO_MLXfa5CLkC-DQgZ8VyvoocZfVHY7t4T9FUGmmC-iT58yNQ4k-IBduQGNikVxQFvBEOZefg/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2gkdaRo1HGRsOsk5NfthrvT_6QlRyZbvbr84r87XOItTU6FLszW-xk-RxV7h9aPK1Y5KO_MLXfa5CLkC-DQgZ8VyvoocZfVHY7t4T9FUGmmC-iT58yNQ4k-IBduQGNikVxQFvBEOZefg/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /><br />Change happens one day, one moment, one stage at a time. It's  small challenges that add up to a big leap.<br /><br /> <br /><br />The good news is that all you need to do right now is take one small challenge. The tough news is that there's a BUNCH of these small challenges that you need to take to make the transformation into our new reality.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Sorry.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It's not the best news in the world, but what's different is that all you need to do is focus on the next challenge. Not the third challenge, or the 100th challenge, just the next one.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Life is all about just putting one foot in front of the other and taking that decision. That decision is what it's all about. The NEXT one. We are all about just doing the next decision.<br /><br /> <br /><br /> We only ACT one stage at a time. It's SO easy to get caught up in the hypothetical outcomes that we never actually take action. We truly believe that inspiration doesn't just come; it usually comes as a byproduct of taking action to acknowledge we have a child within.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It's in the action that we learn and change course. It's in the action that we reality test and see which strategies work and which don't. It's in the action that we become more, we learn, we grow and we eventually make our recovery come true.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We think that this will happen all at once on one magical day. That's not how it works. It's a gradual gentle,trusting, process, and sometimes a slow one at that, because our child within needs to prepare us to relive our best lives. And that sometimes means trials, setbacks and suffering - not as punishment, but as preparation for truly being able to finally understand our perfect child within us.<br /><br /> <br /><br />The BIG goal happens one step, one moment and one action at a time.</span><div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <br /></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

Change happens one day, one moment, one stage at a time. It's small challenges that add up to a big leap.

Change happens one day, one moment, one stage at a time. It's  small challenges that add up to a big leap. The good news is that all ...

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This is how we heal trauma. And once we do that we find that our true selves have the greatest allies imaginable: our conscious minds, our natural intuition, and our passion.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZPU-gaPXZ1yodab3yE3UKP-3ElpePat9kURPXVpRaJE2nAHIHvfQyRvqLIIfK4N4bRrl6QRkAziD0ktgiSarQu32mU2pCuq86YgzaMubYAbUJmnPOgTkxpvTnOU2Cm70F_CgtEPXqg-NL/s1600/collage.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZPU-gaPXZ1yodab3yE3UKP-3ElpePat9kURPXVpRaJE2nAHIHvfQyRvqLIIfK4N4bRrl6QRkAziD0ktgiSarQu32mU2pCuq86YgzaMubYAbUJmnPOgTkxpvTnOU2Cm70F_CgtEPXqg-NL/s200/collage.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">When we become traumatised, we split off from our true selves at a level equal to the degree of our trauma. This disrupts our whole system. Our intuition gets damaged and our sense of ourselves gets damaged. We become stunted in our developmental process, but to put it better, we get warped.<br /><br />Then, because of that, when we make decisions to try to take perfect care of ourselves, we are lost, because our inner compass becomes damaged. Our decisions, to the degree that we are traumatised, become faulty. And what’s worse, we may FEEL like we are taking care of ourselves, and will defend our actions to the hilt, but our decisions are faulty and we end up only hurting ourselves worse. This happens in a myriad of ways, including through sex, food, drugs, personal hygiene, relationships, romance, money, and even through seeking help in the helping profession. We trust people who are not to be trusted, because at a deep level they cannot trust themselves.<br />And the longer we go without healing our traumas, the more our problems in self-care compound. Our lives become more and more damaged and more and more off-course. Our bodies, our relationships, and our very connections with ourselves get more and more broken. Our very decisions only end up traumatising ourselves more. This is the tragedy that pays out a dividend of more tragedy.<br /><br />And none of this is a great mystery. We all hear stories of people who have been severely wounded in childhood who end up living the most hurt, suffering-filled adult lives.<br /><br />Meanwhile, the repetition compulsion fits right into this model. The repetition compulsion – the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas in an unconscious urge to somehow solve them – is part of this. The repetition compulsion is an urge that so often dooms us, because it, like all bad decisions, just sends up careening back into more pain, suffering, and trauma.<br /><br />But, like all bad decisions we make, even our reenactments offer us a chance to learn. And here is the hope, the simple hope for all of us: self-reflection. We can learn from our bad decisions. <i>We just have to study ourselves. We have to study our motivations. We have to study our histories. We have to study our feelings. We have to become honest with ourselves. </i> This is at times invariably painful too, but if we can tolerate it long enough to be able to sit with it and trace it to its origin, then we can grieve it and we can ultimately reconnect with our true selves. This is how we heal trauma. And once we do that we find that our true selves have the greatest allies imaginable: our conscious minds, our natural intuition, and our passion.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />And with those allies how can our future decisions, and therefore our self-care, be anything but excellent?</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

This is how we heal trauma. And once we do that we find that our true selves have the greatest allies imaginable: our conscious minds, our natural intuition, and our passion.

When we become traumatised, we split off from our true selves at a level equal to the degree of our trauma. This disrupts our whole syste...

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Stagers are often asked to keep what happens in at the stages quiet.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZtAORpw69Z6VjGJfFPSxI86ifQGoYrC9txjqeQE95OipcdIQJnHDHlxasEvfo_NeEzl2g478swECcEp2FqTWUCBePa5yIJSXchzZ9F5A58FgvJR58mQhUuCY5H0ARNIIrpdUhaYzldull/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZtAORpw69Z6VjGJfFPSxI86ifQGoYrC9txjqeQE95OipcdIQJnHDHlxasEvfo_NeEzl2g478swECcEp2FqTWUCBePa5yIJSXchzZ9F5A58FgvJR58mQhUuCY5H0ARNIIrpdUhaYzldull/s320/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" width="207" /></a></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 24px;">  Stagers are often asked to keep what happens in at the stages quiet. We are asked to keep a secret. Therapist and agencies alike seem to think this is is a good idea, with the notion that when someone shares in a group their story would not get out.<br /> <br /> But the is exactly the wrong way to go about confidentiality, and yet my experience has been when working for agencies and hospitals, that this is the standard. "We do not talk about what happens in group." Is the mantra the members recite.<br /> <br /> But they have to and need to talk about what is going on in group in an effort to heal. The problem is Stagers need guidelines.<br /> <br /> What's so wrong about asking Stagers to keep a secret? Dissociation is the primary disfunction of the Stager. This means that we will correct during the ten stage course the original dynamics present in our family of origin. When this happens members of the stagers learn how to assimilate the projections and familiar dissociations instilled by their family, and relate to people in at the stagers as individuals, then the world, in a different way.<br /> <br /> <br /> But if our family of origin have a family secrets, if dad was an abuser, if mom was alcoholic, and you were told by the family "Not to tell what goes on in this family," Then you are stuck with having to keep the family secret.<br /> <br /> Stagers who are told not to tell what is going on in group are then given the same message. Instead of a corrective experience of their family of origin, they are getting the same old thing. Keep quiet about what we are doing to you. As you are probably aware this is the central pathology of cults as well. We don't tell outsiders what we do.<br /> <br /> True confidentiality then must take into account the fact that stagers must honour the anonymity of people in the study group, while being taught how to speak up outside the study group about their issues and needs. Here is how this can be done.<br /> <br /> At the beginning of a new stagers course being formed the members are given an instruction on how to share information from in the group to the outside. In essence a variety of examples are covered. A typical example would be for a member who has shared deeply in the group that her father's alcoholism ruined the family. He was physically and sexually abusive, and eventually lost his job because of it. In this type of sharing other members would talk about the pathology they encountered in their families.<br /> <br /> To maintain confidence, while still being able to share stagers would be taught that when talking about the group to others <b><i>you leave all the identifying material about the other member out of the conversation, </i></b>and you say what got activated for you as a course member . <b><i>Your reaction is yours to share, and the origin of it, the details of it, are kept confidential.</i></b><br /> <br /> In the above example the member wanting to talk about her reaction to it would say something like: " My study group was talking about problems with addiction in the family growing up, and got me to thinking that my mom was actually addicted to prescription drugs. I'd never thought about it before, but our lives were in orbit around her mood."<br /> <br /> In this way the confidentiality of the member sharing the information initially is protected, while the work of the individual talking outside the group can continue. The opportunity to give other examples of the group is done regularly through the sessions, with particular emphasis on reasserting the examples and expectations each time a new member joins. With on-going groups the members give the examples to the new person.<br /> <br /> Finally, one of the duties of the Stage Guide is to be clear about what happens if a member breaks confidentiality. This can include being removed from the group, being sanctioned by the group, or being removed from the group for a period of time so that the infraction can be more thoroughly reviewed. Members are encouraged to talk about the issue in group if it feels safe enough to do so, and with a Stage Guide privately if it is not.<br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.</div>

Stagers are often asked to keep what happens in at the stages quiet.

 Stagers are often asked to keep what happens in at the stages quiet. We are asked to keep a secret. Therapist and agencies alike seem to...

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Amazing growth of the Bamboo Gardens Ten Stage Recovery Group.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2pJGcyv5Xdv9jEfVECIiZa2fcSLiNfUKHo2Zf6Y1XsoaxRDBAWwCpkux1EKs1vz4Utj9fob2pHFHS-G14D3F9oKg7hUOryQXfNVNxgoSDJjRXneKOL4h3EGPceDJWgg1eAp34zz8sQrWe/s1600/photo+2+%25281%2529.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2pJGcyv5Xdv9jEfVECIiZa2fcSLiNfUKHo2Zf6Y1XsoaxRDBAWwCpkux1EKs1vz4Utj9fob2pHFHS-G14D3F9oKg7hUOryQXfNVNxgoSDJjRXneKOL4h3EGPceDJWgg1eAp34zz8sQrWe/s200/photo+2+%25281%2529.JPG" width="200" /></a></div> Amazing growth of the Bamboo Gardens Ten Stage Recovery Group. Our interactional meditations and dedicated outdoor meeting are welcoming an influx of new members who instantly enjoy the free and fluid meetings wonderful day at The Rusty Shears tea rooms in Whitby.<br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

Amazing growth of the Bamboo Gardens Ten Stage Recovery Group.

Amazing growth of the Bamboo Gardens Ten Stage Recovery Group. Our interactional meditations and dedicated outdoor meeting are welcomin...

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The key is the path of the child within.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvg-zTRZZ5jcRkQmRzot2k2my8WMH0G_sSQHhjklpZNGgWqYy0L7ypHYOtyaKI_GrurYOr0OervJpZ2ObkIDQcibw32XdtooKNZ6u5WU8WwR6nylycecBqDvFS3eJTq4_2Qkp9QYlHJHSY/s1600/inner-child+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="148" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvg-zTRZZ5jcRkQmRzot2k2my8WMH0G_sSQHhjklpZNGgWqYy0L7ypHYOtyaKI_GrurYOr0OervJpZ2ObkIDQcibw32XdtooKNZ6u5WU8WwR6nylycecBqDvFS3eJTq4_2Qkp9QYlHJHSY/s320/inner-child+2.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <br /> <br /> The biggest misunderstanding that ever existed is that there was something inside of us that we needed to avoid, run away from, an emptiness that we needed to fill up with something outside of us. And so we created pain-killers. They came in all different forms–pills, alcohol, shopping, relationships, food, work, television, gossip, distractions, even holding onto a diagnosis and letting it be our identity–addictions and codependencies on different levels that kept us running from the pain of believing in our own fears.<br /> <br /> Our drug of choice was relationships and we ran from our fears and let them control us by finding false comfort and security in our relationships–our perceived lack within fuelled the need for this love outside of us and made us believe we were only whole and complete when a relationship was there.<br /> <br /> Whatever we are using, holding onto tightly, and the most afraid to let go of, is our pain-killing dissociations and this is our self-imposed prison, which means we have the key to unlock and free ourselves in using the ten stages.<br /> <br /> The truth shall set you free. The truth is recovery. The key is the path of the child within. It’s the courageous path that we step onto when we finally throw up our hands and say we’ve had enough and we know there’s a better way–or maybe we hit our knees and are finally ready to listen. The process of self-awakening to the power of the child within is to begin to look at our pain and fears in the face of our child so that you can finally release them rather than be controlled by them. Forgiveness, letting go, and opening our heart encourages contact with our child.<br /> <br /> The limiting pattern of our childhood, trigger, or codependency in our daily lives is in response to pain from a past experience that when left unprocessed by our childhood comes into our present lives and is projected into our future. In every moment we feel triggered we can break our heart open more and recover ourselves more or we can close our hearts and put walls up of blame, judgment, shame and allow the outside circumstance to control how we feel and who we will be in this our world.<br /> <br /> We begin to clear our emotional patterns by allowing the buried feelings of childhood to reemerge into our consciousness to release and we move through them into the truth–which is our awakening into adulthood. On the other side of childhood pain is freedom. <br /> <br /> Through the process of allowing pain and emotions to come to the surface, not only does everything come up to release but our soul desires come up as well. And this is our push to really go forward. We find out what our child within is really here for.<br /> <br /> As we dissolve pain, hurt and fears, this the stages process allows us to step into being the adult that we are. As we clear these blocks to who we really are, we experience a new way of being, a lightness, and aliveness. From this new place of freedom from fear, we begin the co-creative dance with the child within. We step into the flow of life with our inner intuitive guide, the voice of intuition and knowing, showing us exactly where to go. We are no longer blocked from anything we desire, the belief in scarcity and lack is a distant memory, and through this radical internal shift we allow the child within to flow its abundance to us, allowing us to serve on a higher level, being a beacon of light for those who are beginning their journey. <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

The key is the path of the child within.

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At the stages, we live our truth, not someone else's—no matter the consequences.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdznHZch67M17SqmZQ8WfFpyZjjiPiis3yM03hAEP9jhwBRmDbrxA66uQ6laiDBZ7pOlWatFiksm_kEKn7dKKRzcpE3rYF4T7IpPLvUjnA3nb9UWpetGkiEsZ0xtqpRXXe95anIZhVF-di/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdznHZch67M17SqmZQ8WfFpyZjjiPiis3yM03hAEP9jhwBRmDbrxA66uQ6laiDBZ7pOlWatFiksm_kEKn7dKKRzcpE3rYF4T7IpPLvUjnA3nb9UWpetGkiEsZ0xtqpRXXe95anIZhVF-di/s200/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" width="129" /></a></div> <div style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #373737; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24.375px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> At the stages, we live our truth, not someone else's—no matter the consequences.  We emerge into the open with our rebirthed creation our child within—a new idea,  most importantly, we emerge as a new variation of ourselves, aligned with truth.  This is the time for morphing into this way of being is quickly becoming a necessity.<span id="more-127" style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #373737; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24.375px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> Yet we may succumb to fear.  When the ideas we hold are too revolutionary, too unsettling for the family and the norm and even our conventional sides to accept, we fear expressing the truth.  We know the consequences of familial and social ostracism are painful to bear.  We fear giving birth to the ideas that are developing within us because we will be banished.  We may let the idea die within us, such that this new life becomes stillborn, causing no disturbance to the status quo.  In this way no conscience is challenged and no mind is forced to question—and we hide within the walls of conformity.  Our sword of truth remains hidden in a sheathe of fear.  And slowly we once more begin to die.</div> <div> <br /></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

At the stages, we live our truth, not someone else's—no matter the consequences.

At the stages, we live our truth, not someone else's—no matter the consequences.  We emerge into the open with our rebirthed creation...

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We start work on laying down a floor of silence in our meditation to allow the child within a welcoming mat to inhabit us on a gentle trusting basis.

We start work on laying down a floor of silence in our meditation to allow the child within a welcoming mat to inhabit us on a gentle trusting basis.<br /> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgES9o3DX4MXVY5ylCW4gNnJCRiBL8oGx5xjl2z2W3-9YOMvI-MQODpqU36RbsFO8s9vwnu6KnGHUhp6kfa_Y1vipaIsTjeO16Yy4ubSNbBWH5CSsDCsrS5kbtnhSsH9WPqcCLy7njS8Cak/s1600/1-110888-108744.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgES9o3DX4MXVY5ylCW4gNnJCRiBL8oGx5xjl2z2W3-9YOMvI-MQODpqU36RbsFO8s9vwnu6KnGHUhp6kfa_Y1vipaIsTjeO16Yy4ubSNbBWH5CSsDCsrS5kbtnhSsH9WPqcCLy7njS8Cak/s200/1-110888-108744.jpg" width="173" /></a></div> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

We start work on laying down a floor of silence in our meditation to allow the child within a welcoming mat to inhabit us on a gentle trusting basis.

We start work on laying down a floor of silence in our meditation to allow the child within a welcoming mat to inhabit us on a gentle trusti...

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We begin to understand that our motivation in life has been to compulsively replicate our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjczR8PyEf7jsE_9Gd5U-qUwd9EQz4fnDtQQMOnuhVIfjvq7OR8Xd3ttX0ICpLos6Zskliqr5pXKKbLz9vEe4jPVn_j6VhxwSIqvEtRVfa3ZBXRH8m0-5oBr_UvqZ_Nanx9o00TN7KecX0/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-006.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjczR8PyEf7jsE_9Gd5U-qUwd9EQz4fnDtQQMOnuhVIfjvq7OR8Xd3ttX0ICpLos6Zskliqr5pXKKbLz9vEe4jPVn_j6VhxwSIqvEtRVfa3ZBXRH8m0-5oBr_UvqZ_Nanx9o00TN7KecX0/s200/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-006.jpg" width="129" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">We begin to understand we have picked up baggage that we carry through life, that our motivation in life has been to compulsively replicate our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them. Constantly using our relationships in inappropriate life threatening ways. Rupturing the borders of our personality. Traumatic experiences force their way through ourselves and our relationships like a nail through a board<br /><br /><br /></span>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. <br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/06/every-30-years-or-so-in-recovery-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346249287_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; 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margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-ten-stages-is-natural-process-and.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Ten Stages is a natural process, and there is an emotional logic to it.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-ten-stages-by-dis-engaging-from.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/337874062_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-ten-stages-by-dis-engaging-from.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Ten Stages by dis-engaging from identification with the stream of thought objects, a space is created for awareness of the intuitive voice to shine forth unobstructed.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/drugs-arent-driver-of-addiction-in-fact.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340340705_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/drugs-arent-driver-of-addiction-in-fact.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Drugs aren't the driver of addiction , in fact, it is disassociation that drives addiction.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854411_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854361_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> </ul> </div>

We begin to understand that our motivation in life has been to compulsively replicate our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them.

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At the Stages we, the truly growing face our own vulnerability on a daily basis.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjczR8PyEf7jsE_9Gd5U-qUwd9EQz4fnDtQQMOnuhVIfjvq7OR8Xd3ttX0ICpLos6Zskliqr5pXKKbLz9vEe4jPVn_j6VhxwSIqvEtRVfa3ZBXRH8m0-5oBr_UvqZ_Nanx9o00TN7KecX0/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-006.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjczR8PyEf7jsE_9Gd5U-qUwd9EQz4fnDtQQMOnuhVIfjvq7OR8Xd3ttX0ICpLos6Zskliqr5pXKKbLz9vEe4jPVn_j6VhxwSIqvEtRVfa3ZBXRH8m0-5oBr_UvqZ_Nanx9o00TN7KecX0/s320/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-006.jpg" width="207" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">At the Stages we, the truly growing face our own vulnerability on a daily basis. Our existence starts to reads like an open book. We know pain, insecurity, and loss of control. We live with our fears, discomfort, and the constant need to self-examine, reassess, and take the risk. The ideal for us, is to become comfortable in this state of dissatisfaction. The more we are vulnerable to the upwellings of the unconscious the more we come to know this as healthy – and achieves a state of humility. This is not easy, but it holds the key to a satisfaction connected with the developing core of our true character and the increasing resolution of our ancient traumas and our fantasies about reality. We who have achieved this state achieve a joy for the journey outweighing a focus on the destination, a pleasure more in the process than the results. Of course, we love the results too, but our understanding of the process allows us the patience to achieve so much more.<br /></span><br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. <br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/06/every-30-years-or-so-in-recovery-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346249287_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; 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display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Ten Stages by dis-engaging from identification with the stream of thought objects, a space is created for awareness of the intuitive voice to shine forth unobstructed.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/drugs-arent-driver-of-addiction-in-fact.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340340705_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/drugs-arent-driver-of-addiction-in-fact.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Drugs aren't the driver of addiction , in fact, it is disassociation that drives addiction.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854411_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854361_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> </ul> </div>

At the Stages we, the truly growing face our own vulnerability on a daily basis.

At the Stages we, the truly growing face our own vulnerability on a daily basis. Our existence starts to reads like an open book. We know ...

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The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within will have the power to take charge of our lives

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRsXEWJ493-aoXElL0GAn7_wo3RbZywboK4yUd0NfB1JBnfepot0fBhQJdsaK3swuPdN5PV6XW3UA54yevqZfNHpBZ3Cc7pcd9VH1LL5LUXUTg3U0vys15kg_6Dbxo8ZcDhc2qdKXwEi2t/s1600/within+child.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRsXEWJ493-aoXElL0GAn7_wo3RbZywboK4yUd0NfB1JBnfepot0fBhQJdsaK3swuPdN5PV6XW3UA54yevqZfNHpBZ3Cc7pcd9VH1LL5LUXUTg3U0vys15kg_6Dbxo8ZcDhc2qdKXwEi2t/s1600/within+child.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within will have the power to take charge of our lives and stop being dependent on others voices for our self-esteem and security</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. <br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/06/every-30-years-or-so-in-recovery-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346249287_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; 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overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/06/dream-work-is-study-of-our-repressed.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/348604093_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/06/dream-work-is-study-of-our-repressed.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Dream-Work is the study of our repressed feelings that can often be expressed in our dreams.</a></li> </ul> </div>

The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within will have the power to take charge of our lives

The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within will have the power to take charge of...

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When we doubt what we know, when we don’t trust ourself, it fosters a sense of desperation.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhv0gh90fZojJeRm-NIlxmvXzFhlxpYrCWopFJC44tx0a5Stsg3NDiqbTuoiucuhv4AqipSo7LeVXha-rS6vQ8COg0ueu10YdhB-HuuADFzFUvRoV1ptrU8Ye0SWvGjFQ7zrf8U5JOHWJ0i/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhv0gh90fZojJeRm-NIlxmvXzFhlxpYrCWopFJC44tx0a5Stsg3NDiqbTuoiucuhv4AqipSo7LeVXha-rS6vQ8COg0ueu10YdhB-HuuADFzFUvRoV1ptrU8Ye0SWvGjFQ7zrf8U5JOHWJ0i/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" /></a></div> <br /> <div class="post-footer" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #333333; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 1.6; margin: 30px 0px 0px; orphans: auto; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 1; word-spacing: 0px;"> <div class="share-wrapper" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 30px; padding: 0px;"> </div> </div> <br /> <span style="font-size: large;">When we doubt what we know, when we don’t trust ourself, it fosters a sense of desperation. So we end up searching for relief in other people, other things. We start to become dissociated,lost in a sea of anxiety. clogged up.</span><div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />We don’t believe that reaching out to others for information or reassurance is wrong. There’s no doubt that sometimes we need someone else to help ground us.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />But this can’t be our only option. Why? Because when the shit hits the fan we are alone. Maybe not physically, but in our mind, in the midst of our fear, we are all alone.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />And although we may have wonderful people in our life that can offer reassurance they can’t be there for us 100% of the time.<br />People have to work, they move, even die. We must become your own go-to person. We have to learn how to be there for ourself.<br />Before we start the process though, we have to understand a few things.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />Like the fact that when anxiety and panic strike we’re hit with a lot more than symptoms.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />We second guess ourself at every possible turn. We don’t believe the positive things we tell ourself, which causes all our carefully researched anxiety facts to go flying out the window when we need them most.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />We end up betrayed by our self-intuition and fall victim to the fear emanating from </span><span style="font-size: large;">our gut.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;">Not because we want this, it’s just what happens when we become immersed in anxiety and don’t trust our body, our mind, or our ability to repel the effects of anxiety.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. </div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/rewiring-and-accessing-mind-through.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340776161_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; 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display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-have-hunch-early-on-that-it-is-there.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336853263_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-have-hunch-early-on-that-it-is-there.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We have a hunch early on that it is there - We can feel the quiet fear, anxiety and desperation.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; 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When we doubt what we know, when we don’t trust ourself, it fosters a sense of desperation.

When we doubt what we know, when we don’t trust ourself, it fosters a sense of desperation. So we end up searching for relief in oth...

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Focusing on external circumstances or teachings is not what triggers the moment of recovery

<span style="font-size: large;">The Stages seeks a solution that moves us beyond our "painful inner dialogue." and out into the clear blue waters of recovery.The Stages has no religion, no spirituality, is not allied to any group or cult. </span><div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMvoOQsyvTZX1AKYbD95vs6k9AmiJyZa7PNl5BbGv50dJ7im3e02mellPSahs-Z63Qz9kBWGB7GaZxOKjAxX8gvoWypUkDuEoVXhJdDKQUgdnJo_K3gnFaM-ELNrL3U6O8aogTV4kKpp6d/s1600/110888-108744.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMvoOQsyvTZX1AKYbD95vs6k9AmiJyZa7PNl5BbGv50dJ7im3e02mellPSahs-Z63Qz9kBWGB7GaZxOKjAxX8gvoWypUkDuEoVXhJdDKQUgdnJo_K3gnFaM-ELNrL3U6O8aogTV4kKpp6d/s1600/110888-108744.jpg" /></a></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><i>The Ten Stages is a simple study course.</i></span></div> <div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br />In the course of the Stages we attempt to be awakened to our original recovery nature which involves interrupting the ordinary flow of linear, language-based, thinking so that we can rediscover "the childhood mind within the adult mind".<br />Focusing on external circumstances or teachings is not what triggers the moment of recovery, in other words. Rather, it is focusing on the absence of internal commentary. Because it is impossible to "think" without words, this practice of stopping the flow of running commentary on our lives involves cultivating a mindset of no-thought in an attempt to experience each moment as it is without silently talking to ourselves about it.<br /><br />Attempting to gain insight into the mind without the internal voice means starting to deal with the origins of the voice and the trauma it still holds and regurgitates at any pressure to reveal its inner secrets.In the ten stages a dialogue is instituted with the inner voice through the experience of others, and it works, how it works finally it has the potential for us to gain complete freedom and taste true recovery.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. </div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://galatictours.blogspot.com/2015/05/joining-ten-stages-study-starts.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/343780371_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://galatictours.blogspot.com/2015/05/joining-ten-stages-study-starts.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Joining The Ten Stages Study starts the emotional healing process</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-cant-think-properly-our-child-within.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_24_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-cant-think-properly-our-child-within.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">"I can't think properly" . Our Child Within describes its thought disorder from the inside.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-child-within-thats-is-interior.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340768502_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-child-within-thats-is-interior.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The CHILD WITHIN thats is an interior voice accessing the exterior and is the only true voice of the child.The authentic intuition voice that lovingly guides your life.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/355423486_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There's no addiction without 'thought disorder', broken sentences, blocked phrases.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-dont-need-to-struggle-not-to-have.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336853076_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-dont-need-to-struggle-not-to-have.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We don't need to struggle not to have thoughts because that's impossible.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/is-there-any-way-for-you-to-think.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340504799_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/is-there-any-way-for-you-to-think.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Is there any way for you to think, choose, or act that isn't determined by processes outside of your control?</a></li> </ul> </div>

Focusing on external circumstances or teachings is not what triggers the moment of recovery

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The reason that we get involved with people who are unavailable, is because we are unavailable to ourself and our child within.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9infz_I8JqozqBizjK-g7cWYNHHpomDp6I0mX3xFrLUI4eVyJzwEC9opjw062hnSNrlzOZyqNgEj-QIf9T4LuSyXZUbbI1VQlwllvE6dQDlhLBYMYBiYOqJ1w1m9_lRYLkPCCXQIGM5Ax/s1600/1-The+Ten+Stages234-003.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="116" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9infz_I8JqozqBizjK-g7cWYNHHpomDp6I0mX3xFrLUI4eVyJzwEC9opjw062hnSNrlzOZyqNgEj-QIf9T4LuSyXZUbbI1VQlwllvE6dQDlhLBYMYBiYOqJ1w1m9_lRYLkPCCXQIGM5Ax/s320/1-The+Ten+Stages234-003.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> We focus on others to keep from contacting our child within. We need to let go of focusing on the other person and start focusing inside to understand what is happening to our child within. Our adult patterns, the people we have been in relationship with, are symptoms - effects of our childhood trauma. We cannot solve a problem without looking at the cause. Focusing on symptoms  addictions/dysfunctional behaviour will not heal the cause.<br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

The reason that we get involved with people who are unavailable, is because we are unavailable to ourself and our child within.

We focus on others to keep from contacting our child within. We need to let go of focusing on the other person and start focusing inside t...

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Dissociation is the disconnection of thoughts and memories from our normal consciousness.

<div class="zemanta-img" style="text-align: left;"> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Remo_Conscious.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="Remo Conscious" border="0" class="zemanta-img-inserted zemanta-img-configured" height="254" src="//upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/1/1e/Remo_Conscious.jpg" style="border: none; font-size: 0.8em;" width="254" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">Dissociation is the disconnection of thoughts and memories from our normal consciousness. This defence mechanism does not erase these thoughts, but rather separates them from our conscious mind. Occasionally these thoughts will resurface when triggered by certain people and places.<br /></span><br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. <br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/our-conscious-mind-believe-it-or-not-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340504800_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/our-conscious-mind-believe-it-or-not-is.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Our conscious mind - believe it or not - is not in charge of our day-to-day behaviour.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/our-sense-of-reality-and-who-we-are.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340504801_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/our-sense-of-reality-and-who-we-are.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Our sense of reality and who we are depend on our feelings, thoughts, sensations, perceptions and memories.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/for-victims-of-trauma-experts-say.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340895637_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/for-victims-of-trauma-experts-say.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">For victims of trauma, experts say, dissociation is often lifesaving.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-are-becoming-modern-soothsayers-in.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/339156599_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-are-becoming-modern-soothsayers-in.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We are becoming modern SOOTHSAYERS In the Ten Stages we study self-reflection.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/04/there-really-is-nothing-remotely-like.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/339572715_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/04/there-really-is-nothing-remotely-like.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There really is nothing remotely Like the ten Stages: all bad decisions we make, even our reenactments of our wrong life threatening decisions offer us a chance to learn.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescoursestudies.blogspot.com/2015/04/there-really-is-nothing-remotely-like.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336853591_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescoursestudies.blogspot.com/2015/04/there-really-is-nothing-remotely-like.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There really is nothing remotely Like the ten Stages: all bad decisions we make, even our reenactments of our wrong life threatening decisions offer us a chance to learn.</a></li> </ul> </div>

Dissociation is the disconnection of thoughts and memories from our normal consciousness.

Dissociation is the disconnection of thoughts and memories from our normal consciousness. This defence mechanism does not erase these thou...

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