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The parental voice is almost always sniping at the authentic child within influencing relationships, behaviour and resulting in deep self doubt.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: The parental voice is almost always sniping at the authentic child within influencing relationships, behaviour and resulting in deep self doubt.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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In the early part of the stages, we may have to tease apart what we are hearing a child withins voice when, in fact, we may be receiving a...

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In the early part of the stages, we may have to tease apart what we are hearing a child withins voice when, in fact, we may be receiving an echo of a distorted broadcast laced with the static of a charged emotional atmosphere of the present. Periods of quiet meditation are needed to be able to start to acknowledge the child withins authentic voice, the voice of the intuition or, the voice may be delivering only a script written by another. it may reflect the desire to placate, take care of, or pledge loyalty to an imagined fantasy parent. It can be the trembling voice of a child within cowering in the shadow of an abusive parent, who, no longer having a spouse to intimidate, control, and beat, now uses the children to fulfil the same pathological aims. All the while the child may secretly harbour the hope that those entrusted with the child's welfare will see through the parental charade. These strong messages become a self fulfilling prophecy in later life that dominate the individual and inappropriately bubble to the surface resulting in addiction and dysfunctional behaviour. The parental voice is almost always sniping at the authentic child within influencing relationships, behaviour and resulting in deep self doubt. 
 
 
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

The parental voice is almost always sniping at the authentic child within influencing relationships, behaviour and resulting in deep self doubt.

In the early part of the stages, we may have to tease apart what we are hearing a child withins voice when, in fact, we may be receiving a...

The Ten Stages of recovery from dissociation

The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality

The parental voice is almost always sniping at the authentic child within influencing relationships, behaviour and resulting in deep self doubt.

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