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What the Stages shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest and out of touch

Fraser Trevor

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Title: What the Stages shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest and out of touch
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We live in a society where the emotional experience of "love" is conditional on behaviour. Where fear, guilt, and shame have be...

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<br /><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We live in a society where the emotional experience of "love" is conditional on behaviour. Where fear, guilt, and shame have been used to try to control our child's withins behaviour, because parents believe that their children's behaviour reflects their own self-worth.<br /><br /><br />In other words, if Johnny is a well-behaved, "good boy," then his parents are good people. If Johnny acts out, and misbehaves, then there is something wrong with his parents. ("He doesn't come from a good family.")<br /><br /><br />What the Stages shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest and out of touch with him/herself, while the acting-out child - the scapegoat - the child within is the most emotionally honest child in our dysfunctional families<br /></span></div>

What the Stages shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest and out of touch

We live in a society where the emotional experience of "love" is conditional on behaviour. Where fear, guilt, and shame have be...

The Ten Stages of recovery from dissociation

The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality

What the Stages shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest and out of touch

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