We tend to dissociate through our pain and destruction (updated)

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIyq_n62eO_3K3c1Ijc17nDVByjKbj2IyEpTD85mN6yZMyyUp8TUbhl-rHODHjq8EakUrW2eWoknE_1h5-749rygFya9N4jkIAT3c_91DbAimXjySKSZPa4aKTt_WHaIobHka-4Py5GLRF/s1600/FotorCreated10stage.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIyq_n62eO_3K3c1Ijc17nDVByjKbj2IyEpTD85mN6yZMyyUp8TUbhl-rHODHjq8EakUrW2eWoknE_1h5-749rygFya9N4jkIAT3c_91DbAimXjySKSZPa4aKTt_WHaIobHka-4Py5GLRF/s320/FotorCreated10stage.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We tend to dissociate through pain and destruction, and to this day the vast majority of us are still running thought patterns that do not understand that each person is a part of a greater whole - that what one person does affects us all. We are still running thought patterns of separation and, as a result, fear. Some of us are breaking free of this, but many are still under the hypnosis of fear, separation and are seeking to get acceptance from "out there" instead of looking where recovery truly resides, which is always "in here" and our loving-kindness solution.<br /><br />Our minds can be genius, but our minds can also be the source of our massive suffering.<br /><br /><br />The beautiful thing about the human mind is that each one of us has an opportunity to train our minds into a restoration of sanity. We can CHOOSE to align our thoughts with thoughts of Love, Peace, Compassion, Non-Judgment, etc. Or we can CHOOSE to align our thoughts with fear, lack, separation and the like. When we choose to align our thoughts and actions with our child within, we tap into a wisdom much greater than our mind can comprehend.<br /><br />All of us were born perfect out of a Loving and Connected Universe. We were birthed from an intelligence that we cannot understand, yet we feel intuitively. When we surrender our will and understanding to that subtle child within, we sign up for an AWESOME and EPIC adventure. We won't know what's going to happen next, but we know that we will always be taken care of.<br /><br /><br />The first thing that usually happens when we surrender is that the shit literally hits the fan. Time and time again, whether we are consciously or unconsciously walking on our Path to Recovery, the shit will hit the fan. Our limited perspective from our minds will want to see moments like this as bad, negative and horrible. It's only natural. When something tragic, unplanned or painful happens, it makes total sense to see that event as a negative. BUT - because we have NO idea what is going to happen in the next moment or in the next year as a result of these seeming disasters, we cannot, if we are tapped into our child within, label them as bad, negative or disasters.<br /><br /><br /><br />The Child Within that is aligned with Loving-kindness simply observes these circumstances and chooses not to label them. We feel the feelings that come with each circumstance, but we do not let them define us or keep us stuck in a rut. We let the feelings come and go like a gust of wind - unattached and aware.<br /><br />Because we do not know what is going to happen next, if we choose to prevent or resist the present moment, we may actually be interrupting and stopping a miracle in progress.<br /><br />EVERY time something has gone to shit in our life, it's turned out even better. This is because we choose to see every seeming disaster as Grace and then take empowered action from that place of thinking.<br /><br />Consider that when things are falling apart in our life that it is actually Grace and celebrate the end of a chapter in our life and ride the wave so we can be rebirth our child within, smarter, wiser and with even more Loving-Kindness and Understanding in our heart.<br /><br />Choose to see even THESE MOMENTS as miracles in progress, and then get out of our own way.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">WE realise that we learn to be the traumatised and the traumatiser from a very early age. We vacillate between these two positions right up to today and we now have to identify which one we are to be able to diffuse the abuse. We have to become the sensitive child within and stop retaliating as the adult traumatiser to attempt to relieve the crazy feelings of an-others dysfunction. These facts are the nuts and bolts of our disfunction. We are taught these positions and now we have to unlearn them threw compassion and loving kindness.This has severe implications for us. This has become our way of sick communication with each other.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. 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We tend to dissociate through our pain and destruction (updated)

We tend to dissociate through pain and destruction, and to this day the vast majority of us are still running thought patterns that do not...

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