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We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression.

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We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression. The self wants to expand, exp...

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<span style="color: #373737; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">We  believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression. The self wants to expand, express. Love wants to expand, express. And all the qualities of love – fear, anger, grief, envy – want to expand, express. A healthy system self-expresses. When self-expression is blocked, life energy is not allowed to flow. Broken parents teach the child to block the very same things that are blocked in the parent. By way of verbal and nonverbal judgments. The child is taught to fear like the parent fears. The child then becomes safe, because it no longer presents flow to a block in the parent. We who have to describe ourselves as dissociated will always shy away from flow when it itself is blocked in that area. Flow is uncomfortable. Flow seeks to reach out and touch the trauma. We run away from flow. It’s not safe. We’ve been running away from flow as long as I can remember. The Stages reinstates flow we start a fluid recovery guided threw our swift flowing rapids into the smooth flow of tranquil recovery.</span></div>

We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression.

We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression. The self wants to expand, exp...

The Ten Stages of recovery from dissociation

The Ten Stages are a studied recovery course.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. We reconstruct and being to understand our wonder filled journey of discovery as we explore our past lives. The joy of release from our misconceptions, ancient life roads that have caused us dysfunctional behaviours becomes ever more clear to us as we watch our fellow students gently cast off the bondage of the past and move out into our newly found liberation. Childhood fears and ancient coping strategies are cast aside as we realise the baggage we have been carrying our demeanour changes the deeply etched lines of pain leave our faces and once more we shine.For some of us who have known no peace in life this is the first time and we become fearful attempting to scuttle once more into our shadowy past. We scurry back filled with our knowledge and come to realise that the spectres of aloneness,fear and abuse have no place in this our reality

We believe that our trauma always denotes the rejection of a part of the self that seeks self-expression.

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