UPDATED:Ten Stage Tuesday Meeting on the challenges set out in the Ten Stages

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheaMxMxXqGSJQ7l3KMTeIz76XpXak-KCqKviW4MdjCiZum2j9EvjXRfB5BX1xDbdSav_KHF8KlveE6VYPMpT61R1C-mk_KFHYunhvKwN2pm4yC2tlQV-B-rdjzFY_PB3R_zTVL3dxKG9_Y/s1600/1-trauma123.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="614" data-original-width="522" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheaMxMxXqGSJQ7l3KMTeIz76XpXak-KCqKviW4MdjCiZum2j9EvjXRfB5BX1xDbdSav_KHF8KlveE6VYPMpT61R1C-mk_KFHYunhvKwN2pm4yC2tlQV-B-rdjzFY_PB3R_zTVL3dxKG9_Y/s320/1-trauma123.jpg" width="272" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Tuesdays three hour Stages Academy meeting became of special interest when we talked about Viktor Frankl who reminded us that the art of presence — an art so central to our everyday well-being— isn’t merely about savouring the pleasant moments of everyday blessedness. Rather, its canvas stretches all the more exquisitely in precisely the opposite circumstances — those most trying and turbulent moments, when the ability to inhabit the present makes all the difference between life and death, both figuratively in matters of the soul and, in Frankl’s Auschwitz experience, literally and bodily:<br /><br />A man who let himself decline because he could not see any future goal found himself occupied with retrospective{dissociated} thoughts. In a different connection, we have already spoken of the tendency there was to look into the past, to help make the present, with all its horrors, less real. But in robbing the present of its reality there lay a certain danger. It became easy to overlook the opportunities to make something positive of camp life, opportunities which really did exist. Regarding our “provisional existence” as unreal was in itself an important factor in causing the prisoners to lose their hold on life; everything in a way became pointless. Such people forgot that often it is just such an exceptionally difficult external situation which gives man the opportunity to grow spiritually beyond himself. Instead of taking the camp’s difficulties as a test of their inner strength, they did not take their life seriously and despised it as something of no consequence. They preferred to close their eyes and to live in the past. <i>Life for such people became meaningless.</i></span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><i><br /></i></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />To be sure, Frankl is far from advocating for filtering the present through rose-colored glasses in order to soften its intolerable pain. Quite the opposite, Frankl argues that presence comes from leaning into suffering, not from tensing against it:<br /><br />When a man finds that it is his destiny to suffer, he will have to accept his suffering as his task; his single and unique task. He will have to acknowledge the fact that even in suffering he is unique and alone in the universe. No one can relieve him of his suffering or suffer in his place. His unique opportunity lies in the way in which he bears his burden.</span><br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

UPDATED:Ten Stage Tuesday Meeting on the challenges set out in the Ten Stages

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