Characteristics of Dissociated Adult Children

<div style="background-color: white; color: #3b3b3b; font-family: proxima-nova; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.6em; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-top: 24px; word-wrap: break-word;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihzRfuroUn8C0Yr_m1EvWot7IJdPLVTlCIRc-zGKPR4eQs9Snqbv18kJWVP4XotNGm4XBv4_JS4Ocrwj0Z9L6j0os2MxakhqgZHta9PPtxSCWxVZnET6evsLtPu5KOhXtv-Ckhp4Blerp-/s1600/within+child.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="192" data-original-width="192" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihzRfuroUn8C0Yr_m1EvWot7IJdPLVTlCIRc-zGKPR4eQs9Snqbv18kJWVP4XotNGm4XBv4_JS4Ocrwj0Z9L6j0os2MxakhqgZHta9PPtxSCWxVZnET6evsLtPu5KOhXtv-Ckhp4Blerp-/s1600/within+child.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Characteristics of Dissociated Adult Children</span><br /> <span style="color: black; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <span style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">Characteristics of Dissociated Adult Children<br /><br />Dissociated Adult Children: -</span><br /> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />guess at what normal is.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />have difficulty in following a project through from beginning to end.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />lie when it would be just as easy to tell the truth.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />judge themselves without mercy.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />have difficulty having fun.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />take themselves very seriously.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />have difficulty with intimate relationships.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />overreact to changes over which they have no control.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />constantly seek approval and affirmation.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />feel that they are different from other people.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />are either super responsible or super irresponsible.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />are extremely loyal, even in the face of evidence that loyalty is undeserved.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br />tend to lock themselves into a course of action without giving serious consideration to alternative behaviours or possible consequences. </span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">This impulsivity leads to confusion, self-loathing, and loss of control of their environment. </span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">As a result, they spend tremendous amounts of time cleaning up the mess.</span></div> <div style="background-color: #e6e6e6; color: #131313; font-family: "Allerta Stencil"; font-size: 12px;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: medium;">The most important part of life, and the only part of life that we can truly control, is our perception. We may have influence over other parts of our life, but the only thing we have 100% control over is how we CHOOSE to perceive the events of our lives.<br /><br /><br /><br />One of the basic messages of DA is that you are not a victim, but a co-creator of your life with The Child Within which frees you from the adult child syndrome of self hatred.<br /><br /><br /><br />It’s easy to play the victim, and a lot of people out there will try to convince you that it’s easier to blame other people for the circumstances of your life. One of the reasons it’s easy to be a victim is because you give away the response-ability of the outcome and circumstances of your life to some other person or entity.<br /><br /><br /><br />As a victim, we tell ourselves that it’s not our fault; it’s the government’s fault, or our significant other's fault, or our friend’s fault or our parents’ fault. If you really get creative you can imagine a whole range of people to blame for your life.<br /><br /><br /><br />But the truth is that you are the one making the choices in your life. YOU have the free will and ability to CHOOSE to connect to your child within, or not.<br /><br /><br /><br />If you’re like us, you’ve probably made a mistake or two in your life . For a long time it was easy to blame people for the outcome. When things didn’t go the way We WANTED them to We would just make it someone else’s fault.<br /><br /><br /><br />But, We started to learn differently.  We began to learn how to take our power and authority back. We began to see that the way we thrive is by making our WORLD WITHIN stronger than the outer world.<br /><br /> The story you tell yourself about your life will dictate the outcome of it. CHOICE is the most important power in your WORLD WITHIN.  it is the power of your INTENTION that forms the outcome of your life. life is hard and that when you realise and accept that, life is no longer hard.  Put loving KINDFULNESS first and to keep your recovery visions grounded and in real time. Learn to love ourselves big time and to keep our thoughts in alignment with what we want, rather than what we don’t want.  Unconditional Loving-KINDFULNESS  we can experience this Love when we have right thought, take right action and keep our focus off of ourselves and keep it instead on our pure intuitive voice.<br /><br /><br /><br />How could we possibly let ourselves be a victim knowing all these things?</span></div> <br /> <br /> <br /> The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

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