This is a wonderful time of change. The world is open. The world needs to hear our message.

As we come to extract the arrows of our childhood we realise change coming to live in a radically different world. Our mental make-up has become different from others. This is painful for us. We may be attracted to some members, but on a child within level we may be incompatible.

We who undertake the stages courses to, taking the path of resolving our deepest childhood traumas, are deeply changed by it.

 We are no longer like other people who have suffered from disrespect. We can relate to them, but they can no longer relate to us, because they have no frame of reference by which to understand us. We will judge them accurately, and they will only misjudge us in return – and label us as the judgmental one. We will breathe and function outside the box in which they operate.

This will become painful for us. We will often lack for company. We will know loneliness. We will know isolation. We will not always enjoy it. We will crave the approval from others who will not be able to give it. They will not be able to rescue us.

It is hard to be a stager. Most new species in our planet’s history have died out quickly. Many such as us do not find mates. We have to learn to be alone. It is easier to join the flock and find our partner within its folds.

But there is hope for ten stagers. As individuals we live a long time and we are compelled to fight for our way. Perhaps we will catch hold and someday become dominant. Even if we do not breed on a physical level, our ideas can…and already are. This is a wonderful time of change. The world is open. The world needs to hear our message.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com