When we are upset, frustrated, or enraged we lose control and act out our historical trauma on others, it is a clear sign that we are expressing, usually through code, some facet of our history of childhood trauma. It is so easy to blame some person in the present for causing our greatest pain and upset, but when we deeply study our motives we discover that the root cause of our rage came decades earlier, and that this present target for our hysteria is just a replicated stand-in, often picked by us for that very purpose. Hurt children hurt people. We do not damage others for no reason: we damage others (and damage ourselves) because that is what we were taught. We hurt others in just the ways we were hurt by others, though often we disguise this by hurting others through coded means. No one causes destruction because they are inherently bad. No child is born bad, and no one was created imperfect. Our imperfections come from our childhood history of damage. And when we heal that history we discontinue the trauma cycle. Hurt children hurt people, and healed children heal people.
The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com
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