We spend our lives carefully planning and manoeuvring ways to avoid feeling abandoned.

We spend our lives carefully planning and manoeuvring ways to avoid feeling abandoned. We block our healing process at every turn in the road. We disappear into addictions, relationships, parenthood, and other soul-numbing paths of a thousand varieties. We build false selves to fool ourselves into thinking we are happy and comfortable, but we never realize that the beams propping up our façades are rotten with the misery of unresolved traumas. Thus we succumb to our terrors, but we cannot outrun them. Of course it took me 70 years to find that out.




The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages