In the Ten Stage course where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves we evolve into suffering.

On the Ten Stage course where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves we evolve into suffering. This is the short period of time that unlocks depression, failure, misery, and inertia. Here we realise we have wallowed in seemingly purposeless pain for a large part of our lives. The silver lining around our cloud of idealisation has been stripped away, but the cloud remains intact. We still wish to be rescued by our gods and heroes/heroines and their replicated stand-ins, but we lack the requisite pain tolerance to be able to acknowledge the impossibility of this. Here we acknowledge that we have lived in tortured ambivalence, and we spend out hours and days trying to get others to love us in the way our parents never could. Part of us wishes to devolve back into the seeming pleasure of grandiosity, but the healthier part recalls how cruelly that route already failed us.



The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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