Stagers are terrified of being alone and in the unknown. And we understand that it can be a hellishly uncomfortable place to be. But if our needs aren’t being met, it’s not some other person’s fault. The responsibility is on us to communicate our needs and to choose someone who honours us, who cherishes us and loves us. That entity has to be the child buried deep within us.
If we don’t recover, honour and cherish ourself, we will settle continuously for less and our needs won’t ever get met.
As Stagers, we must get comfortable with the unknown and with letting go of toxic relationships. We must step into our child within so that we can create the lives we truly desire, not as we change to please others, but as we step more into our own authentic child within. This means communicating our needs, having higher standards around others and stepping into our own self-worth and self-care.
This means embracing the child within and being okay with letting go of something or someone that isn’t meeting our needs.
Ask yourself this question: “If I REALLY loved my child within, what would I do?”
Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.
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