As you get deeper and deeper into our recovery, we will become more sensitive to other people and their state of being.

We are all suffering from a toxic

and very fast spreading virus of life. As you get deeper and deeper into our recovery, we will become more sensitive to other people and their state of being.



Our job is to stay aware of our child within and notice when we have taken on the parental ghost thoughts and emotions of others.



Have we ever noticed that we could be having a perfectly fine day and then we spend time with someone whom we love and care for, who may be in a negative and fearful place, and after we're finish communicating with them, We feel negative and fearful?



That's what we call catching the parental ghost. We have let the energy and thoughts of another become our own. And doesn't it almost feel unfair, because we didn't even ask? They just seemed to dump all over us.



But we see, as we become more aware of the ten stages, as we move into our own child withins power, this will not change the negativity of the world or of others. In fact, we will become vastly more aware of other people's fear and negativity.



Our job is to become strong enough to see and experience the fear and negativity of others and, instead of resisting it and calling it "evil" or "dark", to understand it is simply a deep yearning for love from their child within. When we understand and know that another's fearful and negative state of being is nothing more than a call for love, we no longer have to assume their fear or let it affect us. We can simply understand what they are really looking for and send Loving-Kindness instead of fear back to them.



When we understand that the fear and negativity in others is a call for understanding, we inoculate ourselves against their parental ghost. We have a knowledge that, through our awareness, transforms fear into understanding within us. This way, we can purge our bodies of the fear of others and actually respond from a place that not only helps to elevate and heal them, but also elevates and heals us in the process.



So inoculate ourself from the parental ghosts of others today by understanding the negativity and fear of others is simply a call for understanding of our children within and decide that we are going to be the person to answer that call today.

The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.

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