We have been asked how the Child Within can be recognised.

We gradually came to accept the fact that we do have a Child Within, and now most of us believe this, although we still have parts of us that refuse to recognise this truth. We have been asked how the Child Within can be recognised. If you have watched a baby for a while, you will readily see the Child Within unless the baby has already experienced extreme trauma.
Internal rules can point to the existence of the Child Within. If you cannot find your Child Within, ask yourself what rules all parts inside obey. A common one for survivors is “No outside children may be harmed”. Another principle of ours has been that no matter how much we don’t want to, we will stay alive for our children. These rules or principles that apply across the board obviously must originate from some central part of me. What is that central part?
We have found it is invariably either the Child Within or the intuitive voice that is very close to the Child Within. Another way the Child Within can be recognised is by feedback from other people. when people respond to us, we gradually realised they were all responding to some common characteristics within us that we had not ever been aware that we had! We dubbed this the SHINE. We evidently exhibit these
characteristics no matter who we feel like inside.




The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives.