As a child,we are sold into the parental messages the “someday” ideas in our life

As a child, we are sold into the parental messages the “someday” ideas in our life – “Someday, when I have this, I’ll be happy.” Or “Someday, when this circumstance changes, everything will be better.” We’re unhappy about something now, and we fall for the scam of external happiness – the idea that something outside of us has to change before we can actually feel happy and fulfilled.

But here’s the cruel thing – even when that circumstance changes, or when you get that thing you’ve been angling for, you won’t be happy. Things won’t be okay, because there will be a new circumstance you want changed or a new thing you want.
There will always be another external factor for you to be unhappy about, because if you’re miserable, it’s because you’re not cultivating the practice of meditation and happiness in your own life.

The good news is that when you accept that no one is coming to your rescue but you, then can finally work on rescuing yourself from the stress and unhappiness you’re generating inside you.

• May all beings be safe, happy, healthy, live joyously.....
• As long as we are not in contact with our child within we are not going to be happy, we are not going to be, and we are not going to have fun.
• Acceptance, in my opinion, is the key to convert momentary happiness to enduring happiness. It helps you move from feeling happy to actually being happy
• We seem to be moving narcissistically within the fellowships
• Whatever problem one experiences, one can think about the benefits of problems
• The child within is the fun, child within will prevail, the child is our healthy decoration, the child is our make-up, the child is our being,