When we become upset, frustrated, or enraged. When we lose control and act out on others, it is a clear sign that we are expressing, usua...
When we lose control and act out on others
If we do not heal our buried, ancient learned dissociations we will invariably act them out
If we do not heal our buried, ancient learned dissociations we will invariably act them out—that is, replicate them in negativ...
Ten Stage Healing is an inner path to our personal child within
Ten Stage Healing is an inner path to our personal child within, and ultimately we must focus on ourselves and take responsibility for ou...
We all need fellow students on this healing journey to the child within us
We all need fellow students on this healing journey to the child within us, and when we optimise the quality of our allies we optimise th...
Our freedom and growth requires that we be honest with ourselves.
Our freedom and growth requires that we be honest with ourselves. Nothing keeps us stuck more than self-deception. When we can be honest ...
At our core we are perfect
At our core we are perfect.We are taught, indoctrinated with the belief we are imperfect.We are not.... We are perfect within. The core o...
Trust your child within
The answers are all within us—if we look. Our child within is the truest compass ever created, and if we connect the consciousness of our...
Dissociation finally creates addiction and really addiction fails to exist until it is acknowledged as the addict/alcoholic.
The illusion of dissociation is the label of addict or alcoholic. Dissociation finally creates addiction and really addiction fails to exi...
The Ten Stages and Rebelle Recovery are the only health based recovery model seeking evolving client centred solutions
The Ten Stages and Rebelle Recovery are the only health based recovery model seeking evolving client centred solutions that moves our clie...
Ten Stages is the pathway to Freedom. No Gurus, No Sponsors, No Leaders.
Ten Stages is the pathway to Freedom. No Gurus, No Sponsors, No Leaders. The most delicate and difficult task possible to accomplish in th...
We are doing the human race the highest service by realising our child within
We are doing the human race the highest service by realising our child within, The notes. Self-Realisation of the child within is our evol...
Unless a moment comes in your own recovery when you are willing to take responsibility for all of your past
Unless a moment comes in your own recovery when you are willing to take responsibility for all of your past , without conditions, no matte...
For many of us we have become masters of dissociation.
For many of us we have become masters of dissociation. We still are clinging to a philosophy and a self that are full of holes, We have be...
Kindfulness is the action stage of the ten stages
Saltburn Wednesday Kindfulness is the action stage of the ten stages and can be experienced in the home. It’s about being true to our ow...
No fear, no pain and no anger – just an ability to be authentic
Our constructed exterior self is NOT our Child Within. Our self is the part of ourselves that has formed as a defence mechanism to avoid...
Our Child Within can think independently from us, can have different opinions, views, tastes
Our Child Within can think independently from us, can have different opinions, views, tastes, etc. from us, provide companionship, talk di...
The Child within the backdoor into the brain has immense explanatory power. This is most visible in the life of an addict.
The Child within the backdoor into the brain has immense explanatory power. This is most visible in the life of an addict. The addict ...
We believe that the very essence of our trauma in the ten stages is early childhood powerlessness.
We believe that the very essence of our trauma in the ten stages is early childhood powerlessness. It is that unavoidable, inescapable ov...
The traumatised person is cut off from language, deprived of the power of words, trapped in speechless terror.
The Ten Stages seeks to deal with the trapped “Traumatic reenactment”it is the term we use to describe the lingering behavioural enactment...
The Ten Stages is not some fad or pop psychology.
The Ten Stages is not some fad or pop psychology.Ten Stages is the only way to empower ourselves to stop living life in reaction to the...
We have a Core identity our child within
We have a Core identity our child within which is the original person born in the body. Through repeated trauma, if the defences of numbin...
The world of parents and caregivers struggling with dissociations that lead to addiction
The world of parents and caregivers struggling with dissociations that lead to addiction — their own, their parents and caregivers, their ...
We gradually came to accept the fact that we do have a Child Within
We gradually came to accept the fact that we do have a Child Within, and now most of us believe this, although we still have parts of us t...
Internal rules can point to the existence of the Child Within.
Internal rules can point to the existence of the Child Within. If you cannot find your Child Within, ask yourself what rules all parts ins...
A way we come to recognise the ABSENCE of the Child within is when we feel boredom.
A way we come to recognise the ABSENCE of the Child within is when we feel boredom. The only times we experience boredom are the times i...
Tracking Dissociation with Parental Roots. Make no mistake, We are addicted to dissociation.
Tracking Dissociation with Parental Roots. Make no mistake, We are addicted to dissociation. When we chose this topic, we thought – with a...
We still inhabit a nursery nightmare where abuse or trauma is going to happen ‘next’ and the only remedy we know is not to look – to deny.
To maintain confidence, while still being able to share our histories we who are attending courses have to be taught that when talking ...
In the Ten Stages we start to understand that we have the power to recharge our lives
In the Ten Stages we start to understand that we have the power to recharge our lives whilst stoping being dependent on substances or oth...
We have sole ownership of our vision within the ten stages.
We have sole ownership of our vision within the ten stages. And our child within once acknowledged will give us what we want within our vi...
The Ten Stages stand for DIGNITY NOT stigma
The Ten Stages stand for DIGNITY NOT stigma,friendliness NOT fear, emotional support NOT alienation, ”what’s happened to you?” NOT “wha...
The Ten Stages believe that everyone has the potential to RECOVER
The Ten Stages believe that everyone has the potential to RECOVER: ‘We have our being in front of us who have a software problem. It’...
We must listen to the child that we once were, and who still lives within us.
We must listen to the child that we once were, and who still lives within us. This child understands about magic instants. We can muffle ...
As we live out of a false delusion,a dissociated life
As we live out of a false delusion,a dissociated life, growth is equated to an increase in grandiosity, to winning the contest of life and...
When you study in other recovery groups the wrongs you have committed before you study the wrongs done to you
When you study in other recovery groups the wrongs you have committed before you study the wrongs done to you, you have no choice but to l...
Our strong message of recovery is that our Truth is in our genetic make-up
Our strong message of recovery is that our Truth is in our genetic make-up. It is the essence of our being. It is the best part of us, the...
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